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Sure OP...why not have friendships with all the providers you see...why not?

I add all of them to my FB page....Linkedin page...hang out on the weekends...their kids birthdays, holidays...work parties...etc...it's great.

Lorde........Awesomeeeeee! Dont think I will, though. More fucktards and trolls there. Creative idea. They are looking for someone to pay for it without realizing they are. Actually much cheaper using a pro and get much more bang for the buck.

Yea Chicagoboy I'm still here. Got caught up in some anger on another issue and let it carry over. Fucked up my whole karma. No harm no foul.

Don't ever think the girls who talk here represent womanhood in all it's glorious complexity.

Sure OP...why not have friendships with all the providers you see...why not?

I add all of them to my FB page....Linkedin page...hang out on the weekends...their kids birthdays, holidays...work parties...etc...it's great. Originally Posted by SNL9933

Friends with Providers? Heh,,,,

We already get to know each other during sessions. Book multiple hours or overnights to spend more time together. I've had bad experience from hanging out for free, created confusion. He thought I was in love with him. I am not here for real commitment.

I will accept conditional friendship outside hobby. For example, I am an ultra runner. If you are strange enough to log as many miles as I do, hell yes. Ultra runners already meetup somewhat anonymously with people they've met online so hey why not. Let's do it. After screening of course. Haaah.

I respect provider privacy. They have a life outside of work.

A session is a fantasy zone which should be drama, drug free. After the session is over they are on their way to take care of whatever. I am too. If I was looking for dating I would go to Eharmony.

I have no interest in interfacing w them outside the hobby nor do they.

I have been with some (like SB on regular basis) who wanted go out to dinner afterwards but this is rare. It can be an unwelcome extra expense, infringe on a cuatomers private life or missing time he has to explain to wife, be embarrassing if they flirt with waiter, One I was taking home wanted stop to eat at restaurant (stripper I was seeing on regular basis) and she seemed paranoid about other women talking about her bc she with older guy. Not something I wanted to repeat,

Almost of all when sex over, they want to be on their way and that is perfectly allright with me. A provider is not your GF. What she does with you is something she considers work. Your job is to enjoy the fantasy time you paid for........

I agree with snl I have done that too. And I agree with the ladies emotions can get better off the reality. I have seen some one at least 50 times in the last 18 months and I did develop feelings and I am trying to slow it down now. She did tell me she wants to have limited cliental but I just could not commit. And we have mutually agreed not go out for dinner etc after meetings. Everyone should know the reality. She does treat me exceptionally well when I visit her.

I respect provider privacy. They have a life outside of work.

A session is a fantasy zone which should be drama, drug free. After the session is over they are on their way to take care of whatever. I am too. If I was looking for dating I would go to Eharmony.

I have no interest in interfacing w them outside the hobby nor do they.

I have been with some (like SB on regular basis) who wanted go out to dinner afterwards but this is rare. It can be an unwelcome extra expense, infringe on a cuatomers private life or missing time he has to explain to wife, be embarrassing if they flirt with waiter, One I was taking home wanted stop to eat at restaurant (stripper I was seeing on regular basis) and she seemed paranoid about other women talking about her bc she with older guy. Not something I wanted to repeat,

Almost of all when sex over, they want to be on their way and that is perfectly allright with me. A provider is not your GF. What she does with you is something she considers work. Your job is to enjoy the fantasy time you paid for........ Originally Posted by landon

WINNER WINNER CHICKEN DINNER

I respect provider privacy. They have a life outside of work.

A session is a fantasy zone which should be drama, drug free. After the session is over they are on their way to take care of whatever. I am too. If I was looking for dating I would go to Eharmony.

I have no interest in interfacing w them outside the hobby nor do they.

I have been with some (like SB on regular basis) who wanted go out to dinner afterwards but this is rare. It can be an unwelcome extra expense, infringe on a cuatomers private life or missing time he has to explain to wife, be embarrassing if they flirt with waiter, One I was taking home wanted stop to eat at restaurant (stripper I was seeing on regular basis) and she seemed paranoid about other women talking about her bc she with older guy. Not something I wanted to repeat,

Almost of all when sex over, they want to be on their way and that is perfectly allright with me. A provider is not your GF. What she does with you is something she considers work. Your job is to enjoy the fantasy time you paid for........ Originally Posted by landon

Thank you!!!!

[Remember to always pay for your friendship,
an hour at a time]

There are a number of guys I have met over the years and have become very good friends with. Some I have met for drinks at least once a week for years. Couple of ladies also.

There are a number of guys I have met over the years and have become very good friends with. Some I have met for drinks at least once a week for years. Couple of ladies also. Originally Posted by BigLouie

Same Here