Hey Baby-its so hard to objectify you

I got no problem with providers talking about 'em; just don't bring 'em to the session.

May I ask why do we have to be called whores? Originally Posted by Champagne Brown

No no no no no don't ask him that.

I got no problem with providers talking about 'em; just don't bring 'em to the session. Originally Posted by cabletex7

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it doesn't bother me at all....it brings a little more intimacy to a certain extent.

The only time a client might bring up his kid(s) if he's making a crack on my age because i'm probably about his kid(s) age give or take a yr or 2. Other than that no way.

One or two yes, but usually an independent on a 2nd or 3rd visit and one I click with. If I am only in the mood to screw without talking I go Latin agency. I don't speak Spanish.

Usually after I've seen someone a few times, we end up discussing familial stuff. Hell, I've gout a couple who are more like friends. One, actually calls or texts me for "mommy"/basic illness advice when he's home with his child, as a single dad. Plus, I have a slight medical background and also workl healthcare. Really it depends on the comfort level.

I always meet someone who asks the proverbial, "how in the world did someone like you end up in this?" I think the expected answer is 'nymphomania', 'I love sex', 'It's fun', etc. But I tell the truth and it involves family. If you don't want to hear about it, don't ask. However I find that the Reader's Digest version of events is satisfactory in the sense A) It doesn't kill the mood. B) I'm never asked to elaborate. So everybody happy! ^__^

Lol, I wanted to ask you that too. It felt out of place, a mood killer, and a poor conversation starter. I do get the why do you do this from chicks too sometimes. One got mad I have a gf almost didn't want to go on with the session.

It just depends i guess. If they bring it up fine. But me personally i am a mom and have no problem if asked about my little ones. But if im not asked i dont bring them up.

Lol, I wanted to ask you that too. It felt out of place, a mood killer, and a poor conversation starter. I do get the why do you do this from chicks too sometimes. One got mad I have a gf almost didn't want to go on with the session. Originally Posted by trey

That's a little harsh on her part. But I felt the same way at one point dealing with a gentleman who was married to a trophy wife, had a GF (that I actually met... awkward) and a well kept mistress AND want to hobby with me..... seriously, why not just be a polygamist?

It is hard not to if we are chatting unless you really want to hear about the weather or what I had for breakfast and later threw up.

CB,
Seems like a very normal thing to do between two people when you're in such an intimate setting. Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

No shit.

Without connection of the mind through intellectual discourse makes you no different than wild animals fucking.

Few of my clients have actually brought along their little kid/s introduced them to me...we go out to a concert/movies like a "family" outing. That is what I get truly paid for. COMPANIONSHIP

It is hard not to if we are chatting unless you really want to hear about the weather or what I had for breakfast and later threw up. Originally Posted by KatieKatieNYC

why are you throwing up your breakfast?

The only times this has happened I was asking about some tattoos, and she said they were the names of her kids. For some reason that's a boner killer.

Then there's this time I called up a provider and her kid was screaming a tantrum over the phone. That was a deal-breaker.

I don't mind clients speaking about their kids, of wives, and they do often, while usually saying "I'm straight, and have a wife and kids but love T-girls like you! your so femminine....is that strange? "
*No its not by the way, most guys I see are straight*

And thats all ok with me. I do love to chat, and can chat about pretty much anything with no bother or worries. Sometimes I think I should change my title ro psychologist/companion/escort and friend

Now when they call me over to play while the wife is out grocery shopping, and will be back in 2 hours, while he (the client) is taking care of the the kid, who is watching tv downstairs or playing video games is in the next room, and in one case, actually attempted to introduce me to their kid before we went upstairs to "work on a project" NOW THAT'S weird and very uncomfortable to me... and = "I have to go....bye!"
I am not comfortable with meeting people's kids, I don't have kids, I don't want kids, and them being anywhere near our "adult playtime" just seems very inappropriate to me. I have a few hard limits, and THATS ONE OF THEM.