How do you look?

To answer the OP's question, I didn't like it when I got poor service from a girl who doesn't like older guys. I bitched about the session to a buddy who said she had a reputation for not liking older guys. That stung a bit because I still look good and many years younger than my real age.

Some ladies tell me looks don't matter to them. Others tolerate the "fatties" but actually enjoy fucking the cute ones.

But I have to say this. Some guys must be blind because you read reviews about how hot some BP princess and then you see the pics and you go OMG, he thinks she's pretty? OMG!! Originally Posted by awl4knot

Even worse when it is a well reviewed lady from here and you book a 2hr appt then walk in the door and the first thing that comes to mind is, should have only booked for 30 min. or not at all.

Great thread. I actually received this request from a provider in response to a PM I sent:

thanks for the compliment. yes, i might be up for that. i usually start with pics. not picky, just don't want surprises. you can email me at XXXXXXXX@yahoo.com

I emailed her, sent a pic, and never heard from her again. Guess she was picky after all. Fortunately I saved my money and avoided what likely would have been a NCNS.

Really? No offense? No offense, my ass!

You think that because you make whatever dubious judgmental statement that you somehow ipso facto have the moral authority to thus decide what is right?

. . . If I was to tell you to give the black and white a rest, what would you think?

Originally Posted by Fast Gunn

Sorry, this has nothing to do with moral authority; it's only about type setting, fonts, colors and readability. The red font is hard to read so it detracts from your message. So if you care about your readers you should change your posting style.

If you think that this is a personal affront versus a constructive comment, then so be it but it still won't make your posts easier to read and understand.

+1. Kind of like typing in all caps.

I had a young lady turn me down once, saying, "I'm sorry, but you look just like my Granddad". We parted amicably, and I walked away thinking it could have been worse - she could've waited until after and then said, "I'm sorry, you fuck just like my Granddad".

The illusion of being with someone they may not get a chance to in civilian life is key, so they should have their choice. It isn't always about the physical.

I had a provider that asked for a pic to see if she wanted to proceed with meeting . I had no problem with it , knew that she was offering a evening for hr rate , I had a blast !

As the providers market themselves as "Pros" then the clients "looks" should NOT be a issue. What Info I do want up front is if there is any health issues I should be aware of. Other then that, I want to know what you crave so I can do my best to make your fantasy cum true........The hobby is meant as a break from the real world a hour or two at a time......Enjoy life as it is to short..........

I consider myself lucky as I can pick and choose, and I choose personality & compatibility over physical any day, I want to have fun & enjoy myself too! Looks mean nothing to me, its all about the individual.

your comment is a funny, but I think there is a sizable group of men who simply want to keep the status quo in the personal life, and choose some spice in their private life, and could do well if they wanted to put themselves back on the market again. It is debatable if a good rotation of escorts is cheaper than an SO, or dating regularly.

we seem to have an upstate lady who seems to be a little picky, and makes for a lot of complaints in the men's forum, LOL

The fact is that many men, (maybe most), who see Hookers do it because they lack the physical looks, or the social skills, to compete in the civilian world.

So once you decide not to see any of these men, who the fuck are you going to make a living off of.

In case you haven't noticed, there are a lot of Hookers out plying the trade. There are only so many Brad Pitts out there willing to pay for pussy. Originally Posted by Jackie S

i have no problem sending a pic...often do so voluntarily. i'm not worried, and it ups the trust factor. always a good thing. but, my circumstances are different than most...

I consider myself lucky as I can pick and choose, and I choose personality & compatibility over physical any day, I want to have fun & enjoy myself too! Looks mean nothing to me, its all about the individual. Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

I would provide a photo (and sometimes do) prior to a first meeting. It often reduces that initial look of disappointment when a lady sees me for the first time.

Furthermore, because I prefer longer dates, I would actually appreciate a lady that would turn me down if she didn't think we were going to be compatible....I can handle it.

It depends on what makes a person attractive to you in the first place. I'm attracted to brainy guys. Nothing gets me on my knees faster than a smart man who actually knows what he's talking about. Or a man who has a great personality. Or who's funny, humble, and positive. A man can go from dud to stud quickly, taking in consideration the things that really matter.

It depends on what makes a person attractive to you in the first place. I'm attracted to brainy guys. Nothing gets me on my knees faster than a smart man who actually knows what he's talking about. Or a man who has a great personality. Or who's funny, humble, and positive. A man can go from dud to stud quickly, taking in consideration the things that really matter.
Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

Thanks TJ, even though you didn't mention me by name....I'm brainy enough to figure it out!!!

I would provide a photo (and sometimes do) prior to a first meeting. It often reduces that initial look of disappointment when a lady sees me for the first time.

Furthermore, because I prefer longer dates, I would actually appreciate a lady that would turn me down if she didn't think we were going to be compatible....I can handle it. Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

well I got your picture,and I would still see you due to your charming personality men with a sense of humor are a major turn on