A "Lady" Can NOT be a HDH/VIP/Luxury Companion to some and something less to others

My thoughts are that a HDH is about four things: 1) the ability to communicate 2) being very good looking 3) having really good skills, and 4) being flawless for when the guy opens the door. Regardless, it is my experience that once you get beyond about $300 or $350 per hour (this is a Pittsburgh rate whereas NYC is about $500 per hour) there is not a lot of difference in "quality". Higher rates can get you better "quality" but it generally isn’t on a linear scale.

That additional per hour charge can be worth the freight if you want exclusivity. Not many guys can, or will, pay $1,000 an hour so you can be pretty sure she hasn’t been with too many other guys that day. Your call on whether that much of an up-charge is worth the exclusivity.

I understand the dual rate thing: GFE at one price point and PSE at higher rate. Additional services are usually available with the PSE rate. However, unless you are into Greek, I have never really seen much difference between GFE and PSE rates. If the same services are available for GFE and PSE rates, then the girl is just actually trying to push the exclusivity thing in a way that really doesn't exist.


Finally, I don’t get why other guys MF girls who charge HDH rates or the men willing to pay them. It’s your cash so feel free to stimulate the economy with it any way you want.

I agree with most of your post, except for the part about pushing exclusivity which "doesn't really exist."

I disagree because, in my personal experience, I have gradually increased my rate over time intentionally to cut back on the number of friends contacting me. It makes me feel like a true girlfriend when I can be yours for the entire day, and not just for the few hours we might spend together. In creating the girlfriend experience, for me, I can't see two men in one day, because it makes me feel like a cheater. Strange, I know, but true. I am only comfortable with seeing one friend on any given day.

When I start to feel burned out with dates on too frequent of a basis and booked several weeks out, then I raise my rate in attempt to cut back on the number of friends contacting me. It's very comfortable now, no longer getting burned out and I am more excited than ever to meet with a friend after however many days of down time. Our time together becomes something I need, compared to something I just… do.

I have never been a fan of up-charging for extras. A difference from incall to outcall is one thing, but I think it becomes too much about money when one service is listed at one rate and another service listed at another rate. Just pay for some time, and make the most of the time together, whatever label it might be given.

PS - sorry, my post wasn't very clear. I was talking about a the same girl during the same period. I wasn't talking about your case. Your case makes sense as you are limiting yourself to seeing one friend a day. To me - that is worth a higher rate. Others, may not have the same opinion but that isn't your client base.

I completely agree with your comment on up-charges. Hate them and can't remember the last time I saw someone that utilized that practice.

Between my age and my gift request, it filters out a lot of people. Sometimes to my detriment, meaning people have expressed an interest in seeing me, but my request is out of their bounds. My gift request is what brought me here, someone had posted how outrageous it was that I asked so much and required a picture before a date (of course once I arrived here, I understood the logic behind that issue.). My request has been the same, no upsell, no difference between incall and outcall, ever since. Because I was asking quite a bit already. I also enjoy meeting only a select few, I like to be fresh and well rested when meeting a gentleman. And I am happy to dress to impress the gentleman, even bring a bottle of wine or champagne for us both to enjoy.
As it has been said before, its a positive attitude and presentation that makes the difference.

Hello, Nicolet! I've seen you around and I'm happy you've made it over to this forum. I'm quite certain you will have much to offer!

I for one, think your rates and expectations are quite reasonable. And you certainly seem to have what it takes to garner those donations.

Attitude is everything and I love yours! You are also a prime example that an upscale companion is not necessarily the same as a so called High Dollar Hottie. A very beautiful and mature example.

Hope to hear more from you soon!

Thank you, LilMynx69. It means a great deal coming from a female, as opposed to a male, in this particular instance. I have been reading your posts as well. There are some who can express themselves, and those who have a little trouble in doing so. I am happy to say that you are one of the few and not the many. It would be a pleasure to meet you, some day. For a younger lady (I assume, even with that ridiculous saying), other than myself (and most are!), you have your ducks in a row!

Thank you, LilMynx69. It means a great deal coming from a female, as opposed to a male, in this particular instance. I have been reading your posts as well. There are some who can express themselves, and those who have a little trouble in doing so. I am happy to say that you are one of the few and not the many. It would be a pleasure to meet you, some day. For a younger lady (I assume, even with that ridiculous saying), other than myself (and most are!), you have your ducks in a row! Originally Posted by Nicolet

Thanks for your kind words.

I travel to NOLA often, I used to live there...so I hope we can meet for a drink sometime soon. xoxo

PleasantSurprise, I completely agree with your thinking. I am new to the hobby and my passion is the GFE. I find myself investing quite a lot of time into my dates, but that is because it it works best for me. I often exchange emails or texts - at the behest of my suitor - for a few days at least, after making initial contact and before dates. I love to build up the anticipation, and on the day of our date, I just couldn't see myself seeing anyone else. And so gift expectations are on the high side, I guess. That said, some have suggested I might consider raising them a bit still. But like someone said earlier, this wouldn't be me trying to be something I'm not. This would me being new, not knowing my worth, attracting business, taking feedback - from my suitors themselves! - and then raising my expectations accordingly.

I enjoy being selective, "low-volume". I am a romantic at heart, I love to woo and be wooed. I believe that if someone chooses to spoil me, I should spoil them back, and give them as much time and attention as they like. Be fresh and as perfect for them as I can be. Perfectly turned out when I meet them at the restaurant, or when the door opens. I will never "squeeze someone in", and in fact turned someone away yesterday for that very reason. In every "industry", that level of attention is at a premium. Hopefully it is appreciated and not ridiculed.

Whatever make hobbyists happy in picking escorts it's your money.Hobbyists enjoy all lovely escorts!

Let me interject for a moment. Being a higher class escort involves a ton of work and is a very difficult profession especially in cheap/poor cities ie. Buffalo. Since moving and working on buffalo i don't see a reason to train for higher society so i personally just stick to bp and various sites. However whenever i travel nationally or internationally i post under my original name which provides luxury companionship. That also being said even as a vip provider i still don't offer bare back services. In my opinion you can't be a luxury provider without the things said in this forum but also o it's important to get the right training for it including being fluent in other languages you never know when a prime minister wants to see you.