As everyone can see, i'm quite new to this "hobby" and are therefore not as experienced. Last night, I called up a provider and set up a date and time. I proceed as usual to her appointed spot and started to get really nervous as I draw near. I get to the hotel and see a bunch of guys around the third floor where she resides. This of course spooks me as a newbie and I turn around. I even see a security guard just standing there in the parking lot. In order to feel more comfortable, I ask if she can walk outside to meet me, but she said it was too cold... Mind you this is around 2AM... Was I right to turn around? Or should I have taken the chance? I did text her saying sorry i'll have to meet up some other time.
Happened again with another provider who isn't on EC. She asked my race, age etc and when I was there, asked what kind of car/color I drive. This set off many red flags and I couldn't go through with it. Plus there was a suspicious bystander just staring into the parking lot....I again asked if she could greet me in my car/parking lot but said she didnt have shoes on.... Also note, these 2 different hotels were pretty cheap and could've been a set up.
I just want to hear all of your feedback/experiences with this and what you all would've done. Thanks for reading.