Waiting for Women to Get Back with You.

What bugs me the absolute most is seeing that my message has been read and I don't get a response.
I'm probably different than many in that I usually one have one or two providers in mind when I'm looking for an appointment. I won't send out 10 pms hoping to hear from somebody. I want to see who I want to see!

I do think if you advertise on this site and unless specifically stated in your ad to contact you in a certain manner that you should be responding to PMs

You have a valid point..you may be on to something.LOL

Your initial approach means a lot to a lady like me.

Things that turn me on...

1) Hello my name is so and so, I am interested in a visit with you
2) I understand screening is important, here are my references in advance
3) I am interested in such and such time on this day.

Things that turn me off

1) Sup girl, you are bangin hot when can we meet
2) Why are you not responding, are you blowing me off ( repeatedly)
3) I am tan, work out everyday, and have all my teeth, let me know if need anything else
4) How soon can we meet

Originally Posted by melannie_star

Damn girl you ARE banging hot.

Ive never not gotten a reply...maybe you arent sending the right message to start ? Originally Posted by txlonghornfan811

Normally, I do get a reply but it might be five days later. I am very polite in my correspondence and in person. I have a P411 +3 and I haven't seen anyone asking for more. I am happy to meet with them for lunch or drinks (obviously, at my expense) if they have any concerns.

I meeting with someone tomorrow night. She returned my request within an hour. I had asked for Friday but she wasn't available. I asked about Thursday and it is set. Very simple and professional.

I actually think that sending tons of PMs is rude. You are wasting their time, if they actually are intent on responding.

I think Melanie needs to copy and paste what she just posted on here to her showcase.

Well, to answer OP's question, when I get the "itch," I usually target about three ladies. I call the first one and move on to the next one if I haven't heard back from the initial contact within 24 hours.

Even though I was being slightly humorous in my first paragraph, I think it is good that the ladies post their best method of contact/contact info in their showcases because that is what I rely upon.

It sure looks like some fucktards are awful sensitive about possible rejection ... ijs.

Damn girl you ARE banging hot.

Originally Posted by L.A.

LOL.. Thank you!

I think Melanie needs to copy and paste what she just posted on here to her showcase.

Originally Posted by cinnamonshark

That is very good advice and believe I will take you up on that.. Thank you as well.

A lot of providers advertise that they work weekends but really don't. They do it because there are fewer weekend ads than weekday ads so their ad gets more attention on the weekend. Calling is always best, when you can. I know there are many providers who prefer email as their initial contact. Texts aren't always accepted.

Call in advance, get your screening out of the way and then you can make a short list of providers who genuinely meet your criteria. I am sorry you're feeling unloved
Good luck!

...That is very good advice and believe I will take you up on that.. Thank you as well. Originally Posted by melannie_star

You're welcome, Miss Melanie.

Why wouldn't a provider subscribe to P411? I had sent a request and got back a questionnaire, an automated response. It asked for my full name, work phone number (I'm retired), race, age, cell phone, three current references with phone numbers, my hobby name and theirs .... Seriously? Do guys actually look all of this stuff up?

It makes me think that there is a problem with her getting an account.

Why wouldn't a provider subscribe to P411? I had sent a request and got back a questionnaire, an automated response. It asked for my full name, work phone number (I'm retired), race, age, cell phone, three current references with phone numbers, my hobby name and theirs .... Seriously? Do guys actually look all of this stuff up?

It makes me think that there is a problem with her getting an account. Originally Posted by OldLRRP

Which could be a number of factors, a couple of which may be 1. Gina has it on good authority that the provider is known to be associated a pimp and 2. she does not want to have a paperwork trail of a hobbyist setting a p411 appointment so she can NCNS if she so chooses and then it would be he said/she said with no verifiable proof. I also think the latter reason is why many providers on p411 do not want to have a guy send her a p411 appointment request, I know I have been told by many providers to just text or PM through here for an appointment.

I know I have been told by many providers to just text or PM through here for an appointment. Originally Posted by davidfree986

That is what generated the autoresponse questionnaire.

If you have well established references you won't ever need p4. They can ref and hook you up with their friends.
I asked a well known provider st69 to ref me with a well known provider cause she was close and running a special. Her reply was I don't wanna see cause I don't like your post.
My reply back was nothing.
Butt my thoughts were thank you for letting me not know you

I like this p411 thing. Back in the ASPD days, I used references and had women call and text me, why do you want to see her? I was even offered discounts.

I like the thin girls and spinners. I haven't even scratched the surface of whats out there.

I thought I wanted to see sweettreat cause She was close and running a "special". Not sure that I would have but she had some new pics ...butt she said no so I said thanks in advance. She puts herself on the "queen" scale and if can do w\£ that

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