Just wondering.

....Do you Men REALLY care if a Provider is educated?.... Originally Posted by SweetDulce

Dulce darling, we like you just they you are....

I think being articulate, genuine & affectionate plus mutual interests and satisfactoin equals a greater chance of connection & chemistry then just college education.

xoxo Helena

Chemistry is just as important as intellect although I do value the latter greatly especially when taking a companion, whether it be a civie or provider on a dinner date or overnight. That's why I initially set up a 1.5 - 2 hr session with a provider to see if we connect. I was once with a provider who was hot as hell but couldn't converse past 2 minutes, no way I was ever taking her out for an extended date. Almost ruined the experience because she was so clueless.
I like a companion to be able to hold her own in conversation in the unlikely case I unexpectedly run into friends at a restaurant. My ATF is very capable in that regard and thus I don't hesitate in taking her on extended dates as long as my wallet holds out.

You asked the guys. But (HEAR) is my two cents.

I for one mispell and misuse there and their all the freaking time and use a , when a ; should of been used. And I run my sentences together. AND I GET RAZZED about it . And they can think that we are dumb when we are in a hurry or have a limited private time on the pc or book smart NOT but world smart yes.
They put their / there self in a box when they judge a book buy it's cover. And hey some men love to get what they think or dumb girls to make them feel smarter.
I have found it a very true statement that everyone is educated in at least one are if it is cars bedroom tvs computers something My two areas are bodies and cooking . directions and writing for sure NOT

I think being articulate, genuine & affectionate plus mutual interests and satisfactoin equals a greater chance of connection & chemistry then just college education.

xoxo Helena Originally Posted by HelenaIriepalomino

I love smart ladies and seek out perceived intelligence in the hobby (perceived before I've met them, hopefully confirmed after). It's not always the same thing as educated but education is a good sign. There are two reasons for this. One, I figure smart ladies are a hell of a lot less likely to put me in a situation I don't want to be caught in. Second, I enjoy talking to an intelligent lady - especially when she is next to me naked in bed. There is more to the hobby than just the physical, at least for me. Originally Posted by watchoutthegameisrigged

+100000000

It is best to avoid bad situations and I find that making a real connection makes the physical stuff even better

If she can't explain string theory to my satisfaction, I AM OUT!!

If she can't explain string theory to my satisfaction, I AM OUT!! Originally Posted by emptywallet

Dang, how about if I explain physically my theory on ejaculation ?? uhm cuz I know nothing about strings.

If she can't explain string theory to my satisfaction, I AM OUT!! Originally Posted by emptywallet

I know if you dangle one in front of a cat, you can keep it entertained for most of an hour.
Is that what you are talking about?

I agree with many of the above posters that 'intelligence' is a valuable asset to have as a provider.

If a provider has low intelligence, is immersed in the 'ghetto' lifestyle, and has a hard time stringing together words and thoughts into something remotely resembling the English language--then I am one and done (regardless of physical beauty).

All things being equal on a provider, the one who has that IOC with me (and this includes intelligence) I will be seeing again for repeat appointments.

Dang, how about if I explain physically my theory on ejaculation ?? uhm cuz I know nothing about strings. Originally Posted by SweetDulce

If we're talking about strings of cum across your face or body, that's close enough for me.

I know if you dangle one in front of a cat, you can keep it entertained for most of an hour.
Is that what you are talking about? Originally Posted by FoulRon

That would only entertain me for 5-10 minutes, tops. I suppose it could be foreplay or postplay.

I agree with many of the above posters that 'intelligence' is a valuable asset to have as a provider.

If a provider has low intelligence, is immersed in the 'ghetto' lifestyle, and has a hard time stringing together words and thoughts into something remotely resembling the English language--then I am one and done (regardless of physical beauty).

All things being equal on a provider, the one who has that IOC with me (and this includes intelligence) I will be seeing again for repeat appointments.

Originally Posted by pumpkineater

Did you do that on purpose?

For the google-impaired, this might help: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kYAdwS5MFjQ

Come on now most guys are looking for a fuck not the next wife. I want to have a good time pay and leave. I don't need you to remember me when you see me in Walmart with my wife and kids and want to strike up a conversation. They how celebrities and politicians get busted. Most of what a girl tells you is a lie regardless some sob story about Her life and school and how your so nice and she doesn't like doing this, and you were the first of the day.

Come on now most guys are looking for a fuck. I want to have a good time pay and leav. Originally Posted by Raw dog

so do you ever see the same girl twice?? just wondering?

Yea I have on occasion

so do you ever see the same girl twice?? just wondering? Originally Posted by SweetDulce

Your worded that incorrectly. Should be "Do any ladies see you twice?".

so do you ever see the same girl twice?? just wondering? Originally Posted by SweetDulce

Most my dates are repeat visits. Over the years I have found a number of ladies I really enjoy and find fewer new ladies I want to meet over seeing my regulars again.

There are a lot more men in my situation than you would tend to believe based upon posters here--and that is understandable. Men who are not looking for new ladies to meet have less reason to be on here--they don't need reviews of their regulars.