the wife calls

Justification bullshit running deep. Especially elg. That's some deep shit you wade in, must have taken a long time to get yourself to believe it. Originally Posted by JennerJammer

Recycled fucking coward.......


elg....

Don't be a hypocrite. If you really gave a shit about those families, you wouldn't hook.

elg...... Originally Posted by elghund

Hypocrite, I'm far from that... actually I'm thinking u fit that catogory much more then I... You pay women who don't "give a shit about some families" to fuck you..

I don't ask my clients when we meet if they have a SO, but I do value discretion not only for him but also to protect me and my family...

Regardless if I hook or not, that has nothing to do with my thoughts on a situation like that.. I do have feeling and empathy being a hook or not...

Fuckin elg...

Hypocrite, I'm far from that... actually I'm thinking u fit that catogory much more then I... You pay women who don't "give a shit about some families" to fuck you..

I don't ask my clients when we meet if they have a SO, but I do value discretion not only for him but also to protect me and my family...

Regardless if I hook or not, that has nothing to do with my thoughts on a situation like that.. I do have feeling and empathy being a hook or not...

Fuckin elg... Originally Posted by trisha.xxx .countrygirl

You wouldn't be sleeping with these guys unless they paid....not because you sympathize with their personal situations.

And, don't misconstrue.......I get how difficult it can be for you......but be real.

elg......


And a fuckin Trish to you!

Flyboy, all due respect to you as we disagree and discuss.

I partake of the hobby, as you do. We all have our reasons. And, I am glad that there are ladies who choose to do this! At this time of life, I'd be mostly stuck fucking Ladies in my age group, if there weren't ladies twenty to forty years younger than me, willing to provide for a living.

BUT........these girls would not fuck a good number of us if they met us in a bar, with no money exchanging hands.......or anyplace else, for that matter. That's a given.

I would venture to guess that your regular would not be so inclined to protect you if you shut off the funds.

Not that providers aren't human.....they sure are! And, friendships and relationships can start in the strangest places, for sure!

But, I can tell you this.....I would NOT go to work unless I was paid.

Too many hobbyists forget that hooking is a providers job....and it ain't being done for charity.

They are not protecting you......they are protecting their revenue stream.

And, I don't blame them for it. I applaud them.


elg....... Originally Posted by elghund

I dint think anyone has said that us girls fuck out of charity, we do it for $$$$, its are job.. but regardless if a client moves on to another provider or decides not to see us, ultimately "cutting of are funds" I'm sure that most of us are still inclined to protect are clients anonymity, wich inturn protects us as well.. common sense isn't to common I guess, given your thoughtless comment/ response...

You wouldn't be sleeping with these guys unless they paid....not because you sympathize with their personal situations.

And, don't misconstrue.......I get how difficult it can be for you......but be real.

elg......


And a fuckin Trish to you! Originally Posted by elghund

I never said I would be doing this if I didn't get paid..
Did I? Quote me..
But regardless I do have sympathy in these situations for all involved..

Fuckin elg...

I dint think anyone has said that us girls fuck out of charity, we do it for $$$$, its are job.. but regardless if a client moves on to another provider or decides not to see us, ultimately "cutting of are funds" I'm sure that most of us are still inclined to protect are clients anonymity, wich inturn protects us as well.. common sense isn't to common I guess, given your thoughtless comment/ response... Originally Posted by trisha.xxx .countrygirl

Protecting your client protects your revenue stream, as I said. That's the bottom line.

You can call it thoughtless.....I prefer realism.

And, if you feel the need to "protect your client" from his wife, then you better find a different client, who is smart enough to cover his ass, and keep YOU out of the crosshairs of the wife's anger.

elg.......

I never said I would be doing this if I didn't get paid..
Did I? Quote me..
But regardless I do have sympathy in these situations for all involved..

Fuckin elg... Originally Posted by trisha.xxx .countrygirl

I don't doubt that you do have feelings and sympathy. I believe that you, and most providers do.

....and I wasn't quoting you about being paid....I was making a personal observation.

elg......


fucking Pollyanna.........

Protecting your client protects your revenue stream, as I said. That's the bottom line.

You can call it thoughtless.....I prefer realism.

And, if you feel the need to "protect your client" from his wife, then you better find a different client, who is smart enough to cover his ass, and keep YOU out of the crosshairs of the wife's anger.

elg....... Originally Posted by elghund

Realism lol
I do my best to protect my clients anonimity bc I don't need the stress or my life and family being involved..
It sucks when situations like this happen but it does regardless how carefull one may try to be. And if a client is caught I do my best to distance myself from the situation regardless of loss of revenue...

Realism lol
I do my best to protect my clients anonimity bc I don't need the stress or my life and family being involved..
It sucks when situations like this happen but it does regardless how carefull one may try to be. And if a client is caught I do my best to distance myself from the situation regardless of loss of revenue... Originally Posted by trisha.xxx .countrygirl

Now THATS realism! And makes you more likable!



elg......

I don't doubt that you do have feelings and sympathy. Originally Posted by elghund

plastic man doubts it

plastic man doubts it Originally Posted by Plastic Man

Cum on...PM....give peeples.....some credit......sometimes

Funnels have feelings, us cuckold jimmies have feelings. I bet even Plastic Man has feelings

Flyboy, all due respect to you as we disagree and discuss.

I partake of the hobby, as you do. We all have our reasons. And, I am glad that there are ladies who choose to do this! At this time of life, I'd be mostly stuck fucking Ladies in my age group, if there weren't ladies twenty to forty years younger than me, willing to provide for a living.

BUT........these girls would not fuck a good number of us if they met us in a bar, with no money exchanging hands.......or anyplace else, for that matter. That's a given.

I would venture to guess that your regular would not be so inclined to protect you if you shut off the funds.

Not that providers aren't human.....they sure are! And, friendships and relationships can start in the strangest places, for sure!

But, I can tell you this.....I would NOT go to work unless I was paid.

Too many hobbyists forget that hooking is a providers job....and it ain't being done for charity.

They are not protecting you......they are protecting their revenue stream.

And, I don't blame them for it. I applaud them.


elg....... Originally Posted by elghund

I am able to discuss matters with no problem particularly with people like yourself. I know what you post is your beliefs for you and your situation and I respect that. I have not seen your posts turn into personal attacks or one up man ship. It is always OK to have different opinions and therefore sometimes disagree.
I would say you and are are not far from being on the same page. I know if I stopped paying my regular girl she would not be having sex with me. To be honest with you I am sometimes amazed she wants to see me even though I pay her. She is young and absolutely beautiful and I am old with a small.... Well whatever. And before someone says it doesn't matter they all will see you if you pay them enough I guarantee this girl would have no trouble replacing me tomorrow with someone younger and richer. And there is a girl on this board who won't see me so that argument doesn't hold water. So we both agree it is about the money.
And I agree to a point they are protecting themselves. But my point I was making is that my regular and girls like Trisha do take the precautions to be as discrete as possible. I told my regular girl she could text me anytime because it is not a problem. It took months for her to finally be comfortable enough to do that. And even then it is always first just a "hi" until I answer and she knows it's ok. Many girls only think about themselves and the next dollar and don't give a damn about us as a person. I had one girl who would call me any time and ask why I wasn't seeing her more often because she needed the money.
And although I believe I have a unique situation which you probably shake your head at and think I am delusional but I believe if the revenue stopped we would still be friends. Not with benefits. Just friends. And I know that because we were friends for months before we decided to take a chance on the provider route. And if I had to choose and could have it only one way I would choose friends. She is that amazing. But as I have said in the past hobby relationship isn't for everybody but for those that want that it can be had. The search for the right person is long and hard. I don't know her and have never seen her (although we tried to get together it just didn't work out) I believe from what I have heard Trisha can be one of those relationship regular girls. There are a few others I know of on and off this board also.

Funnels have feelings, us cuckold jimmies have feelings. I bet even Plastic Man has feelings
Originally Posted by blthzr666

Haha we sure do

Haha we sure do Originally Posted by Legacy69

I'm certain.