Oh man. Even my hours runs over because once you have that established relationship with someone it's every question under sun. How's the wife how's the kids. How's work ect. By the time it's over you've already had 30-45 min of convo and boom you're then left with only 15 minutes.
Kudos to my epic blow jay jay skills but I can get a man under 15 minutes. There aren't many I can't. But why would I want too for the most part. I like the intimacy. I like the fun in sex. I like taking the time to explore one another.
I also don't want to be in the same category as the wife and just roll on my back or doggy style to get him off and get him out. I want him to have fun and remember what wild fun sex was. So that takes time.
See what I mean about being a Chatty Cathy?
Originally Posted by SpiceInTucson
You and I would probably get along well. Two hours is what I book, unless there's some reason why not, and of that, probably 90 minutes is lying around naked, talking, touching, a little kissing, playing with her hair, and like that. And if you keep your ears open, you learn things about her. Time before last with my local regular, she was telling me about a kind of temperature play she enjoys. So last time, I showed up with a big cup of crushed ice. I didn't say anything about it ... I just put it on the bedside table. When we came to that point in the festivities where I was heading south to go down on her, I grabbed a big mouthful of ice, just to keep me refreshed while traveling. When I arrived in Paradise Valley, it was good times -- at least, she seemed to enjoy it.
And the fifteen minutes you mentioned is familiar to me, too. At my age, my orgasm is often coy about showing up. We'll be playing away, having intercourse or her giving me oral or whatever, and I'll get close, but it doesn't quite happen, and then it's time to take a conversation break while Junior gets ready for another attempt. If we get close to the end of the time and I haven't lost any semen yet, she kind of shifts gears somehow. I can't say what she does differently, because I don't know exactly, but once she gets serious about "getting me," well, she gets me, and can usually do it pretty quickly. I like the journey well enough that it doesn't really bother me if I don't ever quite arrive at the destination, but I think it's offensive to her professional standards if I walk out at the end with my semen still on board. Point being, it's very good, and a whole lot of that goodness only happens if the time is invested. And talk is a great way to invest the time. Chat away, Cathy!