I can't think of a time where I've had an appoint that met the 3 criteria in this thread for GFE and didn't have a good time just enjoying the company of the lady.
I've seen some really great ladies that only do cbj, Akilah Rose comes to mind, and I'd still consider her GFE but my opinion might be a bit biased because we got along so well outside the sheets. Point is every lady that I've seen that offers bbbj seems to be a better bet at making you feel good besides just the tickle your pickle part.
I'm not saying that a lady that offers bbbj is guaranteed to be a better experience but I'd bet money(and have) on that assertion.
Also screw that GFE lite crap, it just muddies the waters even more than they already are.