This is exactly why I send my draft reviews to the ladies before I post them. I will never add something just because a lady wants it in there, but I do want to avoid putting things into a review that do fall in the category of "not on the standard menu". Or something that would inadvertently disclose something about their real life that I did not realize.
There was a lady I knew fairly well a number of years ago. Her roommate/doubles partner/lover did such an over and above kindness for a guy who wrote her a glowing review and trying to help her mentioned everything that happened. Shortly thereafter a different guy saw her, demanded the same treatment, and when she said it was not on the menu, he beat her to death. At his trial the killer said, "She had it coming because she disrespected him." Sadly, the consequences of indiscretion can be mush worse than we think about at moment we write a review. I do not ever wish to be the reason for something like that happening to any woman.