Outing on Craigslist

In a secret society,its best not to have too many enemies... YES its wrong to do this to anybody....you never know how far someone will go,when they hate you...

Like I posted earlier, not funny but you bring out the worst in many people, this is not the first time you have been targeted and your ability to provoke and bully creates a bad atmosphere, not wanting to blame the victim but karma is what happens when you bully people, how many threads have drama and you aren't involved, again not blaming you and it is wrong but the drama created and perpetrated in your posts, doesn't surprise me this has happened Originally Posted by Littleroc

When you justify things of this nature being done to others, you're also justifying those who don't like you to do the same thing to you.

I'm certain your mentality would be different if it was your personal information being posted.

I said it's wrong, never should be done but this is more likely to happen when one pushes and prods and manipulates people to a point of contempt, this probably surprises no one on this board that you would be the target, again it's wrong and I don't agree with it

Wow...that's... OK to out anyone for anyone reason.

Not cool, Dallas...

Since you don't give out your phone number publicly it would have to be someone with your phone number so either a client you have seen before or maybe a client you have screened previously that gave your number to another providor

Getting fake ads and having your phone blow up all day sucks. I feel your frustration.

All warfare is based on deception. Hence, when able to attack, we must seem unable; when using our forces, we must seem inactive; when we are near, we must make the enemy believe we are far away; when far away, we must make him believe we are near. Hold out baits to entice the enemy. Feign disorder, and crush him.
– Sun Tzu, the Art of War

just saying

Day by day, the UTR girls and the ones that just drop ads and leave...they get hotter and hotter and hotter.

Not cool, Dallas... Originally Posted by Stanfeld

Lol your funny...that's not cool to reword someone's post and lie.

Doesn't make it right but that's the risk we take when posting our opinions here. You can't control how offended, crazy or vengeful other people are. Originally Posted by THN

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In a secret society,its best not to have too many enemies... YES its wrong to do this to anybody....you never know how far someone will go,when they hate you... Originally Posted by TX Guy

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Day by day, the UTR girls and the ones that just drop ads and leave...they get hotter and hotter and hotter. Originally Posted by RJinLR

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Like I posted earlier, not funny but you bring out the worst in many people, this is not the first time you have been targeted and your ability to provoke and bully creates a bad atmosphere, not wanting to blame the victim but karma is what happens when you bully people, how many threads have drama and you aren't involved, again not blaming you and it is wrong but the drama created and perpetrated in your posts, doesn't surprise me this has happened Originally Posted by Littleroc

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People need to realize, that not everyone reacts and retaliates the same as others. People are going to, in a manner that they know best. While I do not condone any sort of outing, I do understand what it may have stemmed from. When you're ridiculing, condescending, and manipulating.....especially in this hobby.....you should be prepared to know this reaction and retaliation can happen. If you are so self consumed, arrogant, and ignorant to believe that it can not happen to you....then you are blind and fooling yourself. All of us that hobby have a lot to lose....in one shape, form, fashion, or another. If we do not have spouses and family at jeopardy.....we have the simple fact of the HOBBY itself and what it includes. We all need to remember that, before we get diarrhea of the mouth. If you live in a glass house, do not throw stones....because someone will throw a bigger stone.

TX Guy and Sagittarius with wise posts.

There is always someone out there crazier than you, or more vengeful than you, or with less to lose than you. For that reason we should all tread carefully...it's a game built on blind trust of people you'll never meet (and I'm guessing a lot of people you wouldn't like one bit if you DID meet). Any enemy you make here is one more enemy than you really need...especially if you're engaged in an activity not celebrated by society.

My My My! The games people play.

You guys make very good points. You never know to what extreme an angry person will go to seek revenge.
As the new kid on the block, I think I will tip toe around this Ginger doll lady. If it wasn't for bad luck I wouldn't have any luck at all. My luck, I would schedule a meeting with this provider and in some way, some how I would get caught in the middle. Too much unwanted risk for me to take. Discretion is very important to me. Outing would not be very good for me. Perhaps I need to rethink my choice in this hobby. Karma is a bitch to those who do wrong!

Thanks to all for the info. It's very helpful to me.

It doesn't matter who you are or what you've done. It doesn't matter how you act on this board or who you piss off or who others think you are supposedly "bullying" or if others think you are a "bully" or a bitch or an ass hole or what ever. The mods are here to regulate this board so if you can't take the heat get the fuck off this site, this is not for faint of heart. Either grow up and learn to roll with the punches or go curl up in the fetal position under your bed and suck your thumb. But outing in any way, shape, form or fashion is WRONG period. If they'll out one they'll out anyone and they are lower than whale shit. The outer is no different than the little white stuff on top of chicken shit.....just more chicken shit. It is interesting that one semi-frequent poster on this forum is mysteriously absent from this particular thread though. Outing is outing, period, and if the outer of this is ever discovered then they should be banned forever.

You want to know how serious outing is? Go read this thread

http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1746741

Yeah, the outer should be banned, if the person is found. But, as for the rest of what you said.....hmmmm. Yeah, we have moderators here to regulate the site and things that are said, but they are human and can be manipulated just as well as anyone else can be. To believe that has not happened....hmmmm. You need to remember the society that we are in now.

I usually keep my opinions to my self in here and mind my own, but i'm with the rest of the crowd on this one, outing can get one in a big mess and i don't want my personal business exposed. would rather enjoy the fun we have in here not the personal attacks. I've made a lot of friends on this board, i consider Ginger one of them and hope to make more.