Bbbj? I'm new why Must I do this?

GingerKatt's Avatar
~Ze~ YOU ROCK! Great answer and stated well and clearly.(Post 22). I think that's what most of us were trying to say, we, (I), just didn't say it nearly as well. I asked her why. If it was that funky smell issue men can get because all that fun equipment they have is stuffed into tight underwear and pants all day, and they can't always tell, because his nose is way up there! Some new girls don't know they can insist on a shower, or just get a warm soapy washcloth and do it themselves. If it was a medical issue I couldn't have stated it better than Dianaares_x, especially with the additions from L.A.(Post 26). I will just say that it's very rare to get HIV from BBBJ, but if it's happened even once then it's an issue.

And frankly, she doesn't have to have a WHY! The only WHY she needs is "I don't want to do that, so I don't offer it". I feel the same way about Greek, and it seems like it's gaining in popularity and a lot of providers are starting to offer it. I just wanted to offer any small insight I might have to whatever her main concern was,as I had to study all STD'S in school, and I've cared for patients with HIV, AIDS, syphilis, (very rare these days), gonorrhea and herpes. Never caught a thing but I know what they look like. Of course, in a new infection you can't tell and some people are asymptomatic.

I definitely respect her decision, not that she should take a vote! I clearly stated to the OP that it was her body, her business and she shouldn't do anything that she doesn't want to.
ManSlut's Avatar
All I know is this threAD has had it's desired marketing effect - I definitely want this Ebony MILF to suck me off!
whitechocolate's Avatar
As everyone has stated, you should do what you feel comfortable doing but you need to realize that a CBJ is much less pleasurable to almost all guys who tell the truth than a BBBJ. Guys will seek out providers who will give the pleasure that they desire. You need to accept that reality and not be upset at what other gals provide or what most guys desire. That is a sexual reality!!! Providing is similar to other businesses. Clients go where they get the product and services they desire and those that dont provide that usually get much less business.If you want to survive, you need to adapt but that is your choice!!!
SisterTwister's Avatar
OMG this woman is red hot sexy as hell!!! Seriously? A CBJ would prevent some of you dudes from seeing her? Fuck that...she's WAY up on my list now. I mean really...you'd pass this up because of a freaking condom? Really?

NOT ME...Athena I would drink your bath water and ask for refills.

whitechocolate's Avatar
Athena, you may be girgeoussss with a goddess body but being selectively GFE is not the best way to go!! That tends to be more BPish!! You need an Aphrodite mind as well as body and perform accordingly in my opinion!!
Grace Preston's Avatar
Athena, you may be girgeoussss with a goddess body but being selectively GFE is not the best way to go!! That tends to be more BPish!! You need an Aphrodite mind as well as body and perform accordingly in my opinion!! Originally Posted by whitechocolate
Choosing to offer CBJ is not being "selectively GFE". Selective GFE means she offers some things to some people but not to all people.

Being safe is not a BPish thing. A BPish thing would be if she were upcharging for BBBJ-- she isn't. She is flat out saying what she is comfy with offering.

Look-- I understand that to the majority, BBBJ feels better. I get it, I really do. And I chose to offer it as many have. But what you guys need to understand is WHY a lady wouldn't want to do it. The odds of you gentlemen catching something from a BBBJ are excessively slim. The odds of us catching something from giving you a BBBJ are astronomically higher. Most of the risk is on our side of the table-- That is a fact.

I can respect the gents who are saying-- offer what you are comfy with offering, but I'm not into it. But when it gets to the point where we are throwing borderline insults at the lady and saying what she SHOULD do.... yeah, fuck that.
whitechocolate's Avatar
Grace, I looked at her posts and she indicated she was selectively GFE!! I was not making reference to CBJ or BBBJ!!!!!!!! Actually her posts seem to indicate she is selectively everything or just very YMMV from GFE to PSE!!!
My reference to BP was not about safety but that you often never know what services are being offered!!
L.A.'s Avatar
  • L.A.
  • 09-26-2016, 09:06 AM
I just looked at your last ad http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1841357&highlight=

"As nasty as you like"
"As many as you can get! Explicit as you'd like. I never say no! Let's play!"

And from your showcase:
Services offered: Escort (GFE)

Then later in your showcase under biography there is this one sentence: "I would consider my services limited gfe, but tend to bend the rules a little at my discretion!"

Based on all of that and the fact there are no reviews mentioning services, I don't see how any rational person would be expecting a CBJ.

IF BBBJ is YMMV just be upfront about it.


Anyway she makes the post to get us all riled up and then doesn't even respond to any of it so what's the point?
L.A.'s Avatar
  • L.A.
  • 09-26-2016, 09:13 AM
Seriously? A CBJ would prevent some of you dudes from seeing her? I mean really...you'd pass this up because of a freaking condom? Really?


Originally Posted by SisterTwister
Yes it would 100% prevent me from seeing her. I wouldn't take the time to drive to go see somebody for a CBJ even for free.

Hey go see her and kill two birds with one stone. She could get her first review and you could write a review before this year is up.
FunInDFW's Avatar
No one going to bring up the fake picture in the ad and that's posted here?

whitechocolate's Avatar
Athena I agree with Sister Twister that you look hottttt but as LA indicates your posts are all over the place with what services you both offer and enjoy offering!!
I would love seeing you if I knew what to expect!! Without reviews I have no idea what to expect and without consistent ads or a showcase stating exactly what you offer, nobody has any idea what to expect other than your beauty and hotttt body!!!!
SisterTwister's Avatar
No one going to bring up the fake picture in the ad and that's posted here?

Originally Posted by FunInDFW
Oh good god are you serious? Fake picture? Do you know this or just speculating because she looks TGTBT? If you've actually seen her in person and you KNOW...don't beat around the bush just say so. If not, it's very unfair to suggest that.

I checked her out further on Google she has a bunch of others and if this one is fake, then they are all fake. Did she steal all these pix? I highly doubt it. That would be outed instantly in here. She has both professionally shot studio images and candid shots as well as selfies and they are ALL SMOKING HOT...every last one. Her face is gorgeous. Her skin is flawless, and her body is mind bending. There are very few women on this board that just take my breath away and make my heart race but this woman makes me sweat she's so hot. Saying no to this lady because of a condom to me would be like deciding not to drive a Ferrari because I didn't like the cup holder. Considering some of the cows I've seen positively reviewed in here that I wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pole I can't even get my head around what I'm reading on this thread.

I am definitely going to go see her...check it out..are all these fake? If they are she'd be stupid to seek reviews in here. I'd like to crawl right through this screen and jump on her bones.

You doubt a religious experience? I did not even notice when she put the condom on my 1.3" of dangling death. If the lady has oral skills a condom does not matter. Originally Posted by pyramider

Water turned to wine.....the parting of the waters.....Lazarus rising.....and now this: the miracle of miracles....the CBJ.

Just the same, I'll stick to the glass of fine wine and the much-beloved bbbj. It's just a personal choice.....as the O/P and everyone else gets to make here.
SisterTwister's Avatar
Yes it would 100% prevent me from seeing her. I wouldn't take the time to drive to go see somebody for a CBJ even for free. Originally Posted by L.A.
Dude...I must be living in an alternate universe. I think I'll get myself hypnotized to see if I've been abducted by aliens and transported to some distant planet where people are actually matrix bound computer simulations. You're actually telling me that if this red hot woman with a body to die for approached you in a club or the produce aisle at Krogers and asked you to sleep with her FOR FREE as long as you wore a condom...you'd turn her down? Please do me a favor. PM me the names and phone numbers of your other rejects. I need some of THAT.

You should go get checked out to see if you're playing with a full deck man. I'd crawl under the sheets with her if I was blind, gay and paralyzed below the waist.
Hey go see her and kill two birds with one stone. She could get her first review and you could write a review before this year is up.
I believe I will.
Grace Preston's Avatar
Dude...I must be living in an alternate universe. I think I'll get myself hypnotized to see if I've been abducted by aliens and transported to some distant planet where people are actually matrix bound computer simulations. You're actually telling me that if this red hot woman with a body to die for approached you in a club or the produce aisle at Krogers and asked you to sleep with her FOR FREE as long as you wore a condom...you'd turn her down? Please do me a favor. PM me the names and phone numbers of your other rejects. I need some of THAT.

You should go get checked out to see if you're playing with a full deck man. I'd crawl under the sheets with her if I was blind, gay and paralyzed below the waist.

I believe I will. Originally Posted by SisterTwister
Hey-- just like I criticize those who seem a bit pushy in their response.. I also have to criticize those who want to blast others for their preferences. WALDT. There are some who would reject the hottest woman in the universe if she didn't offer what they wanted service wise. C'mon now.. we all have our own desires. Having our own preferences is groovy as long as we don't try to cram em down the throats of others.