In order to offend someone, they must first value your opinion. Originally Posted by The Infamous OneExactly. And NO ONE values his opinion, nor his wallet.
I am happy to elaborate, darling.I can't really say what a 30 minute session is like..... I've always thought it was probably a bit like you are describing.... getting rode non stop by guys with something to prove..... I prefer to get to know someone and enjoy myself more than once and prefer 2 hours at a minimum so I look for those type of opportunities....
My first clue would be the obvious lack of hygiene. My second clue would be the "I like to make it last as long as possible" comment, mid session, after scheduling a bng. Another clue would be continually trying to stop you from making him climax during a bng. Once or twice in a few minutes okay not a big deal. But trying to staying over more than a few extra minutes when doing a quick session is just a dick move. I'm not one to watch a clock either. I never have been and I know how to pace a session.
Well.... If you are obviously dealing with a guy being a dick then by all means let him know there is a clock that is ticking. You are the professional in the room and if a guy stays beyond his allotted time it's because you allow it. There is no shortage of guys that will take advantage of your generosity.
I've been guilty of overstaying my time more than a few times over the years.... I'm there to have a good time and if I am I forget about the time.... I'll stay as long as someone lets me.....
I'm generous and usually docile until someone tries to take advantage. And it's happened a few times. Not just once. My three biggest pet peeves are trying to take someone's kindness for weakness, underestimating/insulting my intelligence by trying to get over on me and being stinky & haggling.
There are always going to be "those guys".... You've probably come to realize that by now. It will never matter how nice you try to be..... "Those" guys will take advantage of everyone all the time..... Do you think ranting about it here makes a difference to them? It probably doesn't but it puts you in a light seen by others....
How would you know what my level of enthusiasm is? Just curious. Lol.
I don't have a clue..... The way you phrased the statement though made it seem ridiculous that a guy could get into overtime having an enthusiastic session.
I try to practice careful consideration in most matters these days. But no. Just no. Not in the several 30 minute sessions I have done. They have turned out to be the same type of clientele. Guys that truly are quick are no problem. I get it. I can accommodate that, sometimes. But the other stuff is just bs. Originally Posted by The Infamous One
I can't really say what a 30 minute session is like..... I've always thought it was probably a bit like you are describing.... getting rode non stop by guys with something to prove..... I prefer to get to know someone and enjoy myself more than once and prefer 2 hours at a minimum so I look for those type of opportunities...."Maybe your ideal client could be found offering a $350 2 hour rate? What kind of guy would want that? Maybe someone that wants a couple of pops and the ability to relax a little before and in-between pops..... He is probably not as pressed to "perform" in that time frame...."
"Hooker Math" is a subject that gets a lot of press..... Higher rates for half hours yields more money? At what cost?... You seem unhappy....
How much time is spent preparing? How much do you have to leave for "overtime? play? How much time to get ready for the next guy?
Logic seems to dictate that a gal charging $160 for a HH might see 2 clients in a 2 hour window..... But from posts like yours and reviews it seems you get rode long and hard through most of those sessions.....
Maybe your ideal client could be found offering a $350 2 hour rate? What kind of guy would want that? Maybe someone that wants a couple of pops and the ability to relax a little before and in-between pops..... He is probably not as pressed to "perform" in that time frame....
It would seem a much easier and pleasant way to make the same money.... but ...... who is better off at the end of an 8 hour day? one that sees 6 HH guys or someone that sees 3 2 hour guys.....
It's your business.... I'm just pointing out a segment of the market not addressed by others and you are dropping that from your menu......... Originally Posted by Whispers