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I have a question...been on here many years and have only played with one current provider, and that was several years ago. I'm one of these guys who is so dam paranoid about getting busted it is hard to pull the trigger. How do you find a provider who is newbie friendly since my ref is so old?

PM who you want to see and ask if they will see you, geez!! It's not that difficult!!!

Avoiding getting busted by the cops is easy. Avoiding getting busted by your significant other might be a different story. To avoid cops, simply never discuss sex and money in the same conversation. Search Google for Arkansas prostution law. You will find that paying a girl for any form of sexual contact, even a hand job, is a misdemeanor for both the man and woman.. Use the word companionship if the provider asks what you want. Even after you get in the room with her, do not discuss sex or money. Just put the money on a table and get naked but don't talk about it. If she starts asking what you want, just tell her companionship. It's safe to ask her to get naked. It's even safe to discuss paying her to get naked. (Strip clubs are legal). If she won't get naked without discussing sex, I'd leave. The cops don't really focus on these misdemeanors anyway, they focus on men that have women working for them (pimps). Pimping is a felony. Pimps are also hated by most men here on eccie.

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PM who you want to see and ask if they will see you, geez!! It's not that difficult!!! Originally Posted by DocHolyday

I had almost no luck with that method when I was a newbie. It might have been because I was asking for GFE instead of companionship though. I almost gave up. Even after my first date, which was with a super well known provider, i was still ignored by most the providers I PM'd

Here's a search which includes some Arkansas providers who've advertised as newbie friendly over the past months. Best of luck!

Sheesh, the OP has been a member of icky for over six years and has not figured out how to do a simple Search. There are hundreds of threads on this topic. Do your due diligence prior to asking basic questions.

Here are three Little Rock area providers that say they are newbie friendly according to their P411 profiles. You don't need to be a P411 member to see their profile, which provides a way to contact them by email. Two are also eccie members so you could just PM them here.

Edit: Sent list by PM instead.

You could also try posting for newbie friendly providers in the Requests and ISOs forum. Might be long odds, but could be worth a shot.

Some mis inforinformation floating here

Keep in mind nothing is 100%..and even the most thorough of rearch doesnt always ensure you a GOOD TIME..but it can increase your chances of a SAFE time..research is your friend

#1. The old saying is "you may beat the charge but you wont beat the ride downtown

If cops want you they will get you..there job is to arrest..many police agenciew care not if the charges stick that is up to the prosecution.

Therefore you may beat the charge but not the ride..you find yourself in a room with LE..guaranteed you will take the ride it dont make a fuck what words you use..

#2. "Getting naked" is not a way to determine LE guy or girl...many many many agencies allow the undercover to get naked to get the bust..houston was notorious for this in the mid 2000"s..so a naked guy or girl does still not make them NOT LE... and rumornis some undercover guys have actually recieved a sexual act to make the bust..it was common place. in harris county tx for undercover to walk in and get naked..sometimes even being touched..it was allowed because it was in the course of making an arrest and investigation.. is it likely a female cop would agree to stand their naked maybe not..is it likely that a flipped provider would to get less or no charges...possibly..

Fact is..know going in..if u are standing in a room with a "escort" or cop pretending..you have been busted..doesnt make a shit what you say or do..before or during

#3..code words etc will not keep you from being BUSTED..it may..and thats a big MAY help you beat the charges but you will still take the ride Most likely..this whole theory that because you say or do certain things means they cant bust you is goofy..they can write you a citation...run u in etc...and sort the details when prosecution takes over..u will still have the hassle of being busted

The hobby isnt for everyone.if u are thwt nervous and still dont know how to search perhaps you are one that the hobby isnt for..now realize ladies will come along and throw themselves at you because they see $$.. but that doesnt make them safe either..the only thing you can do is take calculated risk based on your personal research...its not unlike many other decisions we make in life..that are often simply calculated risk..if its not fun...or not having fun or to stressful then atleast some of the reason for being here is taken away

Many girls like myself have went NON NEWBIE friendly because its not always worth the hassle..we feel is one more degree of safety added in..

THe hobby isnt hard..but professional hobbyists do put in work to atleast raise the chances of a successful date..its not throwing a dart at a board and calling where it lands

Plenty of ladies are newbie friendly..lucky for you some of the most well known can even explain in greater detail the process of meeting LE.. as my experiences are only based on knowledge and stories I picked up over thr last 14yrs..I have no first hand knowledge having never been busted

Avoiding getting busted by the cops is easy. Avoiding getting busted by your significant other might be a different story. To avoid cops, simply never discuss sex and money in the same conversation. Search Google for Arkansas prostution law. You will find that paying a girl for any form of sexual contact, even a hand job, is a misdemeanor for both the man and woman.. Use the word companionship if the provider asks what you want. Even after you get in the room with her, do not discuss sex or money. Just put the money on a table and get naked but don't talk about it. If she starts asking what you want, just tell her companionship. It's safe to ask her to get naked. It's even safe to discuss paying her to get naked. (Strip clubs are legal). If she won't get naked without discussing sex, I'd leave. The cops don't really focus on these misdemeanors anyway, they focus on men that have women working for them (pimps). Pimping is a felony. Pimps are also hated by most men here on eccie. Originally Posted by TallAndSkinny

No offense TallAndSkinny, but this is all misinformation. I'm glad you posted it though. It gives the rest of us who know better the opportunity to clarify, because it is a very common misperception.

In reality, it doesn't matter what you say or don't say, what you do or don't do… If you end up in a room with a police officer, you are getting arrested. Like Deanna said, you may eventually beat the charge in court, but we all know that's not the real punishment. The real punishment is the public humiliation, the embarrassment of being arrested and having your mug shot posted online & in those little weekly mugshot publications they sell near the register at every minimart in the state. And the likelihood that your friends, family and employer will find out.

The only way to avoid being arrested is to do your research, and stick with ladies who are reputable & practice thorough screening. An example as far as the dangers of those who don't screen –– Just because she's reviewed and she is a legitimate escort does not mean that her safety is on par… If she's not being diligent in her screening, law enforcement can get to her just as easily as you can, and eventually will. And if she does get arrested, who's holding her phone when you call to make your appointment?

Yahoo1111, as far as your question about safe newbie friendly providers who might assist with references in the future, all the newbie friendly providers I know ask for screening information. And while you may be hesitant to share personal information, keep in mind that they are asking you for this info to help keep themselves safe, and that helps keep you safe in the long run.

Useful reminders from DeAnna & Ginger.

Hey baby! I have been trying to contact you since your last message! Your mailbox is full!!! Shoot me a PM as soon as you can. Can't wait to meet! I am still available today if you can fit it in your schedule!!

I think Yahoo1111 is about to get very lucky!!!

Hey darlin!! Tried to PM ya but your mailbox is full
Im a bit of a drive.. But i wiuld absolutely love to see ya 😘 Xoxo
Cass

It would be worth it for you to try Cassie. Great service and I have never seen a girl be more reference friendly. I have even seen her help one of her guys who was in another town who doesent have eccie find a date.

Hey baby! I have been trying to contact you since your last message! Your mailbox is full!!! Shoot me a PM as soon as you can. Can't wait to meet! I am still available today if you can fit it in your schedule!! Originally Posted by Upscale_blondie

Hey darlin!! Tried to PM ya but your mailbox is full
Im a bit of a drive.. But i wiuld absolutely love to see ya 😘 Xoxo
Cass Originally Posted by cassie_love

Cassie and Blondie... it would be beneficial if you address the person you are talking to by their handle. Otherwise your post looks more like a ThreAD. Not illegal, just not in good form. It is too general and may be seen as an ad by others.

Thanks!!

Lea