benefits of being a decent human being

I am an older chick on this board who believes these things

Ymmv is not my style

You gotta give respect to get respect...earn it

Give it your best effort in all you do...quality and attitude are priority

Be nice or shut your fuckin mouth..lol

AND

I will never beg for money or something I did NOT earn


I will send pms to my regular gents and a few potential clients informing them of my upcoming tour dates....but NEVER tell them they HAVE to book an appointment..or give me money... I am just updating them.

I have several gents on here that I will send pms to just to say hi...usually they are gents who I will probably never meet..but I just like being nice to!

I have learned being nice is the way I prefer to be on this board. For my OWN peace of mind! I like the entertainment I get from this board!

I have built a great repeat clientele because of my attitude.

(I am very happy with my life and make good money to live nicely..thats what counts)

I have read this thread for a few days now, waiting to see how it unfolded before posting.

What an amazing thread--do we REALLY have some people arguing that being a decent human being might not be a good thing?

We have people trying to differentiate between being a nice guy and being a decent human being?

Wow.

I try to be both nice & decent (partially because I am not sure where one starts and the other ends) to most people I meet unless they give me a reason not to be. I don't do it for the purpose of getting stuff in return, but it does seem that treating people decently does have the unintended consequence of being treated nice in return.

As far as interactions with the ladies here, whether it is respect, a gift, flexibility to meet their often busy real-world schedules, or other little things I try to meet them more than half way, and find I get more than I expected in return a lot of times (and I suspect a lot of guys on here will immediately jump to erroneous conclusions).

I do have a hard time understanding the logic behind people (pretty obvious who some of them are) who go out of their way to cultivate a harsh, abrasive, insulting persona on here.

Please note that everyone who commented on this thread were polite and respectful, except for two unhappy, insecure, bitter, hateful guys. They're in their own world. Let's be thankful we don't live in it. Originally Posted by Txcruiser

And the periodic glimpses they give us into their world make me realize how fortunate I am.

And the periodic glimpses they give us into their world make me realize how fortunate I am. Originally Posted by Old-T

I'm not remotely biter. I hear BS, I talk about it. The guys who all circle around and jeer about how awful and unhappy I am for daring to be honest about the way some people act around here... Why is allowing BS to be posted without a challenge a good thing? Why is defending my points through sound argument mean I'm a bad person? I'm plenty kind: just not to you. If I were to not challenge sydmo's chest beating or tell it like it is about some providers here I'd be very unkind... to the other dudes on here. Especially the newbies who can't see through the BS.

It's a profound sign of weakness to label someone with an opposing view with insults and passive aggression rather than actually making an counter argument.

You don't know my life dude.

Keep on keepin on, bud. I respect what you tried to do here. Please note that everyone who commented on this thread were polite and respectful, except for two unhappy, insecure, bitter, hateful guys. They're in their own world. Let's be thankful we don't live in it. Originally Posted by Txcruiser

Other's might think that it is INSECURITY that leads some of the wusses here to go out of their way kissing the ass of whores with their comments here, tipping/overpaying and taking up every case of someone disparaging one.

Go in to the office tomorrow morning and asked how your weekend went tell them about dropping a few hundred bucks on fucking a whore.... Make it sound as nice as possible if you want.

Whores and your/my interaction with them is NOT acceptable in society.

I'm quite secure in my knowledge after seeing several hundred whores over the years that "keeping it real" as I feel I do keeps me well grounded and aware and has never interfered in my ability to see any whore I chose to see. The only 2 things the vast majority of whores care about is

1) Is a guy safe to see.
2) Is she getting paid without a hassle.

When a woman chooses to become or remain a whore they may charge for their pussy, ass or mouth and some time and attention..... but they gave away their dignity and self respect.

I don't take that from them when I refer to them by the name their profession labels them with.

They didn't have it when they read or hear the word and THAT is what bothers them.

They KNOW they are whores.
They KNOW they chose to be a whore.

THAT is what bothers them. That THEY let themselves down...

Self reflection and admitting to a problem is not something everyone can deal with.

The same issue exists with all you pussy whipped WKs that loath what you do yourself when you lay down with a whore. You try to wash some of the shame away trying to be nice or defend any whore you feel needs it.

The insecurity lies in all of you that display that trait and the whores that can't accept their place in life.

I'm very secure in my hobby related activities...... I pay and fuck whores for variety and entertainment and have no issues with what is thought about it. I know none I choose to see have an issue with it.

Keep on keepin on, bud. I respect what you tried to do here. Please note that everyone who commented on this thread were polite and respectful, except for two unhappy, insecure, bitter, hateful guys. They're in their own world. Let's be thankful we don't live in it. Originally Posted by Txcruiser

Other's might think that it is INSECURITY that leads some of the wusses here to go out of their way kissing the ass of whores with their comments here, tipping/overpaying and taking up every case of someone disparaging one.

Go in to the office tomorrow morning and asked how your weekend went tell them about dropping a few hundred bucks on fucking a whore.... Make it sound as nice as possible if you want.

Whores and your/my interaction with them is NOT acceptable in society.

I'm quite secure in my knowledge after seeing several hundred whores over the years that "keeping it real" as I feel I do keeps me well grounded and aware and has never interfered in my ability to see any whore I chose to see. The only 2 things the vast majority of whores care about is

1) Is a guy safe to see.
2) Is she getting paid without a hassle.

When a woman chooses to become or remain a whore they may charge for their pussy, ass or mouth and some time and attention..... but they gave away their dignity and self respect.

I don't take that from them when I refer to them by the name their profession labels them with.

They didn't have it when they read or hear the word and THAT is what bothers them.

They KNOW they are whores.
They KNOW they chose to be a whore.

THAT is what bothers them. That THEY let themselves down...

Self reflection and admitting to a problem is not something everyone can deal with.

The same issue exists with all you pussy whipped WKs that loath what you do yourself when you lay down with a whore. You try to wash some of the shame away trying to be nice or defend any whore you feel needs it.

The insecurity lies in all of you that display that trait and the whores that can't accept their place in life.

I'm very secure in my hobby related activities...... I pay and fuck whores for variety and entertainment and have no issues with what is thought about it.

It's a profound sign of weakness to label someone with an opposing view with insults and passive aggression rather than actually making an counter argument. Originally Posted by Killeeninformer2

Sometimes it's simply a sign of their immaturity

I'm not remotely biter. I hear BS, I talk about it. The guys who all circle around and jeer about how awful and unhappy I am for daring to be honest about the way some people act around here... Why is allowing BS to be posted without a challenge a good thing? Why is defending my points through sound argument mean I'm a bad person? I'm plenty kind: just not to you. If I were to not challenge sydmo's chest beating or tell it like it is about some providers here I'd be very unkind... to the other dudes on here. Especially the newbies who can't see through the BS.

It's a profound sign of weakness to label someone with an opposing view with insults and passive aggression rather than actually making an counter argument.

You don't know my life dude. Originally Posted by Killeeninformer2

Very true--I don't know your life, only what you post. That is true for almost all of us on here.
So when I comment about someone here, I am commenting on their board persona.

As to attacking you, I did not. I made a general comment and named no one in particular. Yes, I was thinking about W, but then he himself admits to being what he is. I may disagree with some of what he says (and much of how he says things), but other than him my post hsd no specific people in mind, just a general category of folks who tend to be hostile and negative.

If you think I waz referring to you, I was not. If you care to self-identify with those traits that is your issus,
not mine.

I'm not remotely biter. I hear BS, I talk about it. The guys who all circle around and jeer about how awful and unhappy I am for daring to be honest about the way some people act around here... Why is allowing BS to be posted without a challenge a good thing? Why is defending my points through sound argument mean I'm a bad person? I'm plenty kind: just not to you. If I were to not challenge sydmo's chest beating or tell it like it is about some providers here I'd be very unkind... to the other dudes on here. Especially the newbies who can't see through the BS.

It's a profound sign of weakness to label someone with an opposing view with insults and passive aggression rather than actually making an counter argument.

You don't know my life dude. Originally Posted by Killeeninformer2

Your "Honesty" is your fucking "OPINION", why is your opinion so much more relevant than everyone else'?

Argue, challenge, I don't care, but don't think for one second you know ME any more than I know You. I posted my thoughts and my opinions, I don't give a flyin fuck if you like or agree with them. Obviously, no one else does either life is good brother.

I'm quite secure in my knowledge after seeing several hundred whores over the years that "keeping it real" as I feel I do keeps me well grounded and aware and has never interfered in my ability to see any whore I chose to see.

The same issue exists with all you pussy whipped WKs that loath what you do yourself when you lay down with a whore. You try to wash some of the shame away trying to be nice or defend any whore you feel needs it.

The insecurity lies in all of you that display that trait and the whores that can't accept their place in life.

I'm very secure in my hobby related activities...... I pay and fuck whores for variety and entertainment and have no issues with what is thought about it. I know none I choose to see have an issue with it. Originally Posted by Whispers

I've never met you in person. You might be a former Mr. Universe, or you might be the ugliest fat fuck that ever walked the earth. But either way, with that misogynistic, hateful, disparaging attitude, you' always pay for your pussy. Which is only the most practical reason to be nice to people. The other reasons are all altruistic, a word you might actually have to look up, since you don't seem to grasp the concept at all.

"Moving parts in rubbing contact require lubrication to avoid excessive wear. Honorifics and formal politeness provide lubrication where people rub together. Often the very young, the untravelled, the naive, the unsophisticated deplore these formalities as "empty," "meaningless," or "dishonest," and scorn to use them. No matter how "pure" their motives, they thereby throw sand into machinery that does not work too well at best."

R.A. Heinlein

You're just a mean person. It sucks, for you and all of us. For us, because we have to hear you talk ugly about other people, and for you, because it means the only companionship, other than people as mean as you, you'll have to pay for. I don't know how I'd live if the only people who were nice to me were people I paid to be nice to me, knowing that when they spoke of me to other people they laughed and said "yeah, that guy is a total prick. Nobody likes him. I can barely stand to smile at him even for money."

I know you'll respond with something glib about how you don't care what other people think about you, but you, me, and everybody else knows that when it's late at night, and you're alone, and acutely aware of how alone you are in every way, you cry into your pillow. I'd hate you, if I could not think about that and feel so very sorry for you. I knew someone like you once. He killed himself. And I'm sure he died thinking nobody would miss him. He was wrong, and right. I hope you get happy someday.

Old-T

you verbally inspire me brother, you are one of those I will never be, but wish I could, la vie continue cheers brother

And, BTW, I'm not WKing anybody. I want everybody to be nice to everybody else, always. Except Trump. Hey, I bet you voted for him, didn't you?

I've never met you in person. You might be a former Mr. Universe, or you might be the ugliest fat fuck that ever walked the earth. But either way, with that misogynistic, hateful, disparaging attitude, you' always pay for your pussy. Which is only the most practical reason to be nice to people. The other reasons are all altruistic, a word you might actually have to look up, since you don't seem to grasp the concept at all.

"Moving parts in rubbing contact require lubrication to avoid excessive wear. Honorifics and formal politeness provide lubrication where people rub together. Often the very young, the untravelled, the naive, the unsophisticated deplore these formalities as "empty," "meaningless," or "dishonest," and scorn to use them. No matter how "pure" their motives, they thereby throw sand into machinery that does not work too well at best."

R.A. Heinlein

You're just a mean person. It sucks, for you and all of us. For us, because we have to hear you talk ugly about other people, and for you, because it means the only companionship, other than people as mean as you, you'll have to pay for. I don't know how I'd live if the only people who were nice to me were people I paid to be nice to me, knowing that when they spoke of me to other people they laughed and said "yeah, that guy is a total prick. Nobody likes him. I can barely stand to smile at him even for money."

I know you'll respond with something glib about how you don't care what other people think about you, but you, me, and everybody else knows that when it's late at night, and you're alone, and acutely aware of how alone you are in every way, you cry into your pillow. I'd hate you, if I could not think about that and feel so very sorry for you. I knew someone like you once. He killed himself. And I'm sure he died thinking nobody would miss him. He was wrong, and right. I hope you get happy someday. Originally Posted by Txcruiser

It doesn't matter how he responds. I respect the shit out of you brother. I despise being mean to folks, but holy shit, no other option with this dick

And, BTW, I'm not WKing anybody. I want everybody to be nice to everybody else, always. Except Trump. Hey, I bet you voted for him, didn't you? Originally Posted by Txcruiser

if I was a billionaire POTUS, I'd be surrounded by the Ladies - politics suck worse than a $20 street walker what difference do we make?

Very true--I don't know your life, only what you post. That is true for almost all of us on here.
So when I comment about someone here, I am commenting on their board persona.

As to attacking you, I did not. I made a general comment and named no one in particular. Yes, I was thinking about W, but then he himself admits to being what he is. I may disagree with some of what he says (and much of how he says things), but other than him my post hsd no specific people in mind, just a general category of folks who tend to be hostile and negative.

If you think I waz referring to you, I was not. If you care to self-identify with those traits that is your issus,
not mine. Originally Posted by Old-T

There are only two dissenting voices in this thread. You named that there are two people who are "bitter" and other crap. Now that someone calls you on it you're going to go "But I didn't mean you dude, but if you self identify... teehee" Jesus Christ, the passive aggression. If you're this cowardly online I hate to think how bad it is in person.