Ehhh. An "evil plot" is hyperbole, and we can agree to disagree. However, what you're saying doesn't seem that disparate from what I said. If what you say is true, and she sucked dick to "impress" in the beginning and now she is basically trying to ween him off of bj's b/c in reality she doesn't like it, then how is that not playing mind games and how is that not "intentional deception?" I mean the dude is on a hooker board trying to see if anyone can relate to his situation. It's definitely fucking w/ his head a bit. Lol.
As far as normal complacency "everyone" feels, speak for yourself man. I've never experienced it. Not b/c I'm Billy Badass, but b/c any sign of games like what the op mentioned and I'm out. No hard feelings, have a nice life. That simple. I would die alone before ending up stuck w/ a woman who rations out sexual favors to me.
Originally Posted by TheOracle
We all do things to impress people we're trying to fuck. Then, later, we stop trying to impress them and act like ourselves. It's not deception, exactly. We just want them to see us as the best possible version of ourselves. But we stop after a while, because being the best version of yourself is SUCH a pain in the balls. Being a shitty version of me is much easier, I've found.
As far as rationing out sexual favors, yeah, if you're her lapdog and she gives you treats, that's bad. But I don't think most women do that. Some women are manipulative cunts, and boy could we trade stories all day about that. Mostly, though, they're just humans living their lives, and less than 70% of their time is spent manipulating men into doing stuff.