I totally agree on this point. That provider is expecting a payday. If it was a bad day for her, telling her to her face that you are going, might set her off. No one likes to lose out on a paycheck. The girl figures that she turned down others to see you. Now you are taking off and she is left with nothing. Not a good situation. Then compound that with the fact she might have some let say "security" near by.
Originally Posted by TailHooked
From a very young age, guys are taught to be very nice to women. It is in reality a type of mental abuse. On one has to put up with abuse.
Don't you feel that if you drive to her location and she is nothing like the pictures she presented, that you have been cheated. That is a type of abuse, yet you are expected to pay. It is also abuse because of the intimidation of the nearby "security".

Run away fast, if you can.