I found out my niece is working as a Stripper

CPT Savajo's Avatar
I know off several providers that are making some where around 10.000 a month and every stripper and every provider is someones daughter and probably sister niece and possibly someones wife in this case she's your's Originally Posted by CatMan4u
I hope she doesn't graduate to the provider level because I know she's exposed to the darker aspects of a strip club from men and women. Hopefully I can reason with her because I don't know who she has as a mentor at the club.
CPT Savajo's Avatar
You should just accept that she's in this already. If you are concerned about the environment or potential people she may be dealing with you could encourage her to only deal with a solid group of guys like the ones on this site and have her exclusively deal with us. We will keep her content financially and you can rest easy knowing she's in good hands like Allstate. Originally Posted by infamousrock
Lmao! I've accepted the fact that she's working at a strip club. I would never steer her to this forum although I will admit that it would be better for her to learn the hobby from a professional independent woman than whoever is mentoring her at the strip club if that's what she's looking for. Hopefully she's in it just for the dancing aspect.
CPT Savajo's Avatar
If you can't get her out of stripping I would at least make sure she knows she can come to you in case of trouble which there will at some point unfortunately. Originally Posted by Seeyasoon22
I would like to leave on her own accord and she knows she can come to me if she gets in a trouble. Girls just wanna have fun.
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Which club? Must have data and empirical research to give sound advice. Originally Posted by Bubba_3000
That's irrelevant.
That's irrelevant. Originally Posted by CPT Savajo
Lol maybe to you……..
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You can't afford to give her enough to quit. I know over a couple dozen gals that paid their way through college by stripping and hooking. Even with having SO's. Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter
You were correct. I just had a conversation with her and she's making too much money to stop stripping. I was surprised as to how much she said she was making on a monthly basis. She's in it to win it and all I can do is support her.
tuckahoe's Avatar
There are not many choices of strip clubs in central AR. It would be a bit unsettling to be sitting at a stage, and have your niece strut onto the stage.
Too bad that the love of money motivates people to choose a lifestyle not good for them, but then the motivation for sex leads us to support them.
CPT Savajo's Avatar
There are not many choices of strip clubs in central AR. It would be a bit unsettling to be sitting at a stage, and have your niece strut onto the stage.
Too bad that the love of money motivates people to choose a lifestyle not good for them, but then the motivation for sex leads us to support them. Originally Posted by tuckahoe
To my surprise when I talked to my niece she informed me that she put me on the banned list just incase I happened to show up out of the blue, I can have her unban me though. One of these nights when she's off I'm going to have her call over a girlfriend from the club to give me a private dance over at her place. 100%
CPT Savajo's Avatar
There are not many choices of strip clubs in central AR. It would be a bit unsettling to be sitting at a stage, and have your niece strut onto the stage.
Too bad that the love of money motivates people to choose a lifestyle not good for them, but then the motivation for sex leads us to support them. Originally Posted by tuckahoe
Your eyes allowed me to get the best read I've ever seen in the wild and it's not going to happen like that for a very long time. Ponder that.
Ohitsthatguy's Avatar
That's irrelevant. Originally Posted by CPT Savajo
Sounds like you want to shield your niece from members of this board. The same board you sought advice from. So what if bubba wants to see your niece shaking her titties and ass at the club, it’s not like he will know which girl is your niece. You afraid gonna see a review up here on her? If so, that’s a decision she made.

…One of these nights when she's off I'm going to have her call over a girlfriend from the club to give me a private dance over at her place. 100% Originally Posted by CPT Savajo
Sorry, but after reading all the righteous comments about how you want to protect your niece from the hobby, this comes across hypocritical to me. I guess introducing you to some of her stripper friends helped ease your burden some.

To quote CatMan4u

…every stripper and every provider is someones daughter and probably sister niece and possibly someones wife in this case she's your's Originally Posted by CatMan4u
You obviously don’t have a problem with women doing sex work, unless it’s family. Maybe you should try to educate your niece on what’s out there and what to watch out for. You niece’s friend could be someone’s daughter or possibly even niece, it’s not going to stop you from getting that private dance. If she offered to suck or fuck, you’ll probably give it some consideration even if you turn it down.
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Sounds like you want to shield your niece from members of this board. The same board you sought advice from. So what if bubba wants to see your niece shaking her titties and ass at the club, it’s not like he will know which girl is your niece. You afraid gonna see a review up here on her? If so, that’s a decision she made.



Sorry, but after reading all the righteous comments about how you want to protect your niece from the hobby, this comes across hypocritical to me. I guess introducing you to some of her stripper friends helped ease your burden some.

To quote CatMan4u



You obviously don’t have a problem with women doing sex work, unless it’s family. Maybe you should try to educate your niece on what’s out there and what to watch out for. You niece’s friend could be someone’s daughter or possibly even niece, it’s not going to stop you from getting that private dance. If she offered to suck or fuck, you’ll probably give it some consideration even if you turn it down. Originally Posted by Ohitsthatguy
My niece is unaware of this forum in the first place and it wouldn't be a first choice of what I would like to introduce her to when I care so much about her. If Bubba wants to go and watch girls shake their cute little asses on stage he can go check out the strip clubs himself. He knows where they are. I had a worry about possibly seeing a review of her on this forum although after talking with her yesterday she reassured me that she's not into the sex work side of working at a strip club. She likes doing it and kept it a secret from me for well over a year. She shouldn't have kept it a secret and I support her endeavor. I didn't cuss her out and scold her like her aunt did after finding out her big secret. I am supportive of her decision.

As far as having my niece introduce me to some of her stripper friends hell yeah I want to have that happen, but in due time. I'm not seeking immediate gratification as I can get that anytime I want it. It was merely playful talk for a future event and whether it comes true or not really doesn't matter.

Regarding Catman4u's quote my niece was keeping a secret from me of which I did not know about until a few days ago and I'm cool with her working as a stripper even though I was nervous about it when I first heard the story. We talked about sex work and how it's prevalent in strip clubs and shes focused on the dancing aspect and not sucking dicks and fucking guys in the club to make ends meet. She reassured me when I had a conversation with her yesterday. She has everything under control. So yeah if at a later date if I can get her to call over a stripper girlfriend for that private dance I'm going to indulge. Such an idea is not solely about fucking her friend but more about having some drinks, kicking back, and having a fun time while I tip her friend for putting on an erotic dance.
pyramider's Avatar
I am sure she already knows about icky.
Unique_Carpenter's Avatar
I am sure she already knows about icky. Originally Posted by pyramider
I can state that the gals at all the Fayetteville clubs are aware of eccie.
CatMan4u's Avatar
Cold hard realty is she soon will or already is will be a provider when she realizes that she can make 600$ to 800$ by just seeing 2 guys a day she will. And there's nothing your going to do but except it
Rollypolly's Avatar
Feel sorry for bro. It's tough when it's family. My best advice is remember the more you try to push her away the more she move she will fight for control. Best you can do is just be ready for her to go though tough times. Best you can fo is remind her how much you care for her safety and her.