No shows

so I got contacted by a very well-known provider who I see often, she told me about certain people doing no shows, and it is getting to the point where she's getting tired of her time being wasted, guys if you can't show up for an appointment, just don't make an appointment, because you screw things up for all the good people on here, so if you're doing it stop because you're going to ruin a good thing for the rest of us with a very good very chill provider

Seems it would be easy for provider to identify unjustified no shows, and decide on an individual basis who they want to ignore. Surely is understandable not to want no shows, and reliable ladies deserve more consideration.

This site could use an Alerts section similar to TNA so both providers and hobbyists could see who might be a problem.

Every pro gal I know has a DNS list. And the gals share those lists.

This goes both ways though. I've driven from Topeka to KC for appointments several times, only to be ghosted once there - and by some well known providers. That's a waste of not just my time, but a fair amount of gas money as well.

Probably why you see more deposits. I have a had more than one provider reach out with a lowball offer just to help her cover room costs. Perks of being a good client. Your loss is my gain.

Sorry to hear that,bikebryan. Probably makes the drive back to Topeka seem like an eternity. LOL

I'm sure it goes both ways. On the ladies hand it can affect their income. On the guys end a lot of times they have an hour window of "sneak away" time either from work or a wife. If a provider miss schedules or delays by even 15 min it can cut the guys available time short and they'd rather just blow it off instead of having a rushed situation.

I'd consider myself to be pretty reliable and no shows can be a problem when they're frequent especially.

I'm curious how verification processes don't weed out some of these issues for girls. Obviously if a guy sees a girl one time without an issue she can't speak for the other girls he might have problems with.

I would think end up being self policed though over time with blacklists and issues getting references.

No shows and ghosting us totally unelectable everyone has cell phones and 95% if the time you know a hour ahead of the time. It flat out hurts us all
In the six years of my hobby time I have been never late and absolutely no no shows
Yes I know car accidents and things happen do the f n right thing and text with a explanation

never had a no show at an AMP (let the spitballs fly)

never had a no show at an AMP (let the spitballs fly) Originally Posted by JohnnyGleet

Are you saying you are a provider at an AMP?

I’ve literally had nothing but no-shows for six months. I simply have so little free time it’s infuriating. I have two encounter reports posted here. Both are no-shows. I’ve arranged about 3-4 others that I haven’t written up because I can’t be bothered. Locals. Out-of-town. CMTs. You name it.

I’ve literally had nothing but no-shows for six months. I simply have so little free time it’s infuriating. I have two encounter reports posted here. Both are no-shows. I’ve arranged about 3-4 others that I haven’t written up because I can’t be bothered. Locals. Out-of-town. CMTs. You name it. Originally Posted by Spunk

Sorry to hear of your struggles Spunk. What sites are your go to's for selecting playdates? Are these well reviewed ladies? Are they reviewed here, or have a presence on P411? This seems so strange to me that gents have this level of striking out. I can only think of one lady I've scheduled in the last several years who NCNS me and she did have reviews here, and posted on both tryst and p411 at the time. (She's no longer posting on either site, as I think her poor business practices on those sites led to her getting very little business). Research, research, research, is all I can say. And don't schedule dates for the current day or on short notice.