Providers complaining about time wasters/no shows/etc.

Everytime I read a post from a provider about "time wasters" or "no shows", it just makes my fucking eyes roll, because for the most par all providers do the same. I'll show up on time and sit in a fucking parking lot for 10,15, 30+ minutes or get totally ghosted.

I get that this doesn't happen all the time, even though it's more often than not. There will be folks that will say not all providers do, however this nonsense has happened more often than not ... guess it's just the price of admission.

I for one am sick of it and every time it happens, I'm gonna put that provider on blast.

if there's one thing I've learned in life its
women are incapable of any self reflection

couldn't tell you all the times of way fucking late providers, providers that pass out during texting to for appts, providers that 'forgot', providers that were SCHEDULED days in advance to MY hotel room reserved just for them only for them to NCNS. Good luck trying to post any of that here without getting demerits or white knight brigade tar & feathering you

Damn, that's even worse ... bad enough to waste time and gas on hoe bags, but losing out on a room ... damn, I'd be pissed ... sorry brother!

I feel you there Nobody!!!! Lost out on a couple rooms due to being just straight up ghosted and "I dozed off for a min" FUCK OFF!!

Honestly it's not even just providers but civilian women do it as well. They complain about time wasting, being "used", taken advantage of etc. When they do it, it's an honest mistake hehe but when a guy does it it's magnified 10x. Some providers even cut time short when you asked for X amount of time.

I go out of my way to ignore providers that cry about time wasters/talk bad about customers or have any type of racial bias.

At the end of the day money is green and the game is customer service and satisfaction. You lose that then they might need a better day job.

Honestly it's not even just providers but civilian women do it as well. Originally Posted by TheHolySong

true dat
Thats why I don't even bother with "coffee dates" or any of that bullshit anymore...because they'll be late, they'll have an excuse, they'll blow it off....without a second thought. Of course, I really only go the sugar baby route now. If you too dimwitted to figure out WHO I am over text/calls and need to 'vet' me in face to face, then its obvious you have zero social skills but most of all YOU'VE WASTED MY TIME (because you were not paying attention while we were communicating).

Hate to be a piss mouth of complaints. I ADORE women. I enjoy magnifying what makes them great (they all need the support). When you have something that DOES work well, cherish it. I do believe it is helpful to commiserate constructively. I know that I have reserved suites for an encounter with one girl, have her ghost me, then I turn around and try to contact every STG/Tryst girl in the area just DYING to give them bags of cash....nope, they all want to play games. Thats the point - there are customers WANTING to give you money. Are you smart enough to accept it (by not being a piece of shit)?

I even had one provider that I saw a few times, treated her great and brought her gifts. I usually always reserve 2 hrs with all providers. One time with her we were carrying on and she's like, "you better cum, you better finish" and she was coy like that talking like a bitch, it was sexy, but this time she meant it....and got to a point where she says, "hours up, you have to go!" so I leave, but I had paid for 2 hours. She texted later she didn't know, but LOL if you think I ever saw that money again

I'm just trying to get them to respond. I'm over here trying to spend money on them, and I get nothing. I think I'll just start whacking off with my left hand and pay myself.

true dat
Thats why I don't even bother with "coffee dates" or any of that bullshit anymore...because they'll be late, they'll have an excuse, they'll blow it off....without a second thought. Of course, I really only go the sugar baby route now. If you too dimwitted to figure out WHO I am over text/calls and need to 'vet' me in face to face, then its obvious you have zero social skills but most of all YOU'VE WASTED MY TIME (because you were not paying attention while we were communicating).

Hate to be a piss mouth of complaints. I ADORE women. I enjoy magnifying what makes them great (they all need the support). When you have something that DOES work well, cherish it. I do believe it is helpful to commiserate constructively. I know that I have reserved suites for an encounter with one girl, have her ghost me, then I turn around and try to contact every STG/Tryst girl in the area just DYING to give them bags of cash....nope, they all want to play games. Thats the point - there are customers WANTING to give you money. Are you smart enough to accept it (by not being a piece of shit)?

I even had one provider that I saw a few times, treated her great and brought her gifts. I usually always reserve 2 hrs with all providers. One time with her we were carrying on and she's like, "you better cum, you better finish" and she was coy like that talking like a bitch, it was sexy, but this time she meant it....and got to a point where she says, "hours up, you have to go!" so I leave, but I had paid for 2 hours. She texted later she didn't know, but LOL if you think I ever saw that money again Originally Posted by nobody_home

I tried the SB route here and the abq pot is the same pot off skip and if they aren't it's just a galore of GPS. It could just be the SB pot has gone stale because it can't be possible for all of them to expect upper triple digits for a M&G and for something to not to wrong.

Cali was expensive but the pot was amazing and thousands upon thousands of options. I picked a SB and we had a good arrangement for months easily.

Wow ... appreciate others sharing their experiences and opinions ... I'd say it's just the world we live in today, but some part of me feels like this has always been the way in some respect or another ... thanks again fellas for sharing!

I think it’s a legitimate problem for providers the same as it’s a real problem for us. It’s nice to have some regulars that are reliable, but branching out is always a crapshoot.

AMP’s just eliminate this issue. They are either open or closed. Single guys get ghosted enough I’m not down for adding to the count.

SB scene is better in other countries. Foreign women are not like American women in my experience.

SB scene is better in other countries. Foreign women are not like American women in my experience. Originally Posted by Hairytwatlover

My experience as well Twatman, every SB I have engaged with outside the US has been no nonsense and fun. The SB world here in NM is a shit-show now unfortunately.

-HD

100% agree here, but it's nice to change things up every once in a while wish massage was offered in other flavers: vanilla, chocolate or carmel?

I'd go bankrupt if there were multiple flavors