I’m taking a cruise and was wondering if it’s okay to ask if anyone would be interested in going? Originally Posted by bevtrain50Ask away. Just be cautious with it and have a deep conversation with her. It helps if you have had at least 2 overnights with her. Might want to even get her a second cabin to herself. Plus schedule time together and alone. I've taken a couple on cruises following the above and had a blast.