Claiming to be Hardcore:
Few providers in Dallas EXIST that are actually hardcore when it comes to extreme anal and prostate play. The usual suspects in the area often claim to be hardcore with decades of experience but are more into beating or whipping subs with various objects. If these usual suspects are into Giving (toys, strapons speculums, fists) they usually dont't take their time and will treat your hole as if its a loose vagina(not fun and hurt) Some who claim the title of being extra hardcore may not offer this play at all. However the ones that offer this service should know that a sphincter is not a vagina. DUH, It takes time and knowledge to open a sphincter up. They claim to be extremely hardcore, and in my opinion they are not! However some are extremely hardcore and into this play.
Again, the hobbiest who are seeking the services of a FEMDOM are not into seeking the quote, unquote "happy ending". Some hobbiest who only seeking hardcore FEMDOM services to provide them with an extreme anal stretching. Therefore FEMDOMS claiming to be hardcore, should know everything about a mans sphincter and Rectum.
Their actually more hardcore FEMDOMS in Houston, in my opnion.
Originally Posted by trailblazer3722
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smart femdoms don't advertise backdoor pleasures because they know better. It's illegal in TX, and a good way to get busted. Some of the ones I know (in Dallas) can and will take you to an extreme edge, but they won't do it the first time they see you. Again, that shows some brains on their part. Not from a marketing standpoint (lol), but from a LE and getting to know you and your limits standpoint.
Taking someone, anyone, to the edge, takes a lot of trust. A "hardcore" anyone (male or female) who says they'll do that kind of stuff with a perfect stranger is an idiot - in my opinion at least. And if you ask/expect it from someone you've never met and are just paying money to, well, you're an idiot too (again, my opinion, and I'm referring to the proverbial idiot, not anyone specifically).
I've never done a survey comparing the two scenes betwixt Houston and Dallas. They each have their own cliques and groups and such. I don't pay much attention to the ads or requests. I base my opinions on meeting the people and getting the information from the lifestyle groups. I find that to be a much better bullshi barometer than the escort boards and backpage.