I had a great time last night, I really miss you

The smitten, "I'm in love, why are you ignoring me?" reaction is one I've heard described by more than one provider. When it happens, especially after one date, it indicates a certain lack of maturity on the guy's part. I don't think it could be handled better than you did, but politeness doesn't always work in those situations. If the behavior persists, you may have to decline to see him again.

I have become friendly with providers and exchanged emails about "nonprofessional" things, but it generally has involved my telling her that it's okay to email me at any time about any topic, then leaving the decision about whether to do so up to her. I won't say I've never fantasized about having a civilian relationship with a provider, but I do know the difference between fantasy and reality. Unless I'm off my meds. But then I'm usually too busy staving off the zombies to bother a provider.

Unless I'm off my meds. But then I'm usually too busy staving off the zombies to bother a provider. Originally Posted by Gryphon

Do you wear this shirt, too?

(I can't believe I just called myself an older guy....geez) Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

No shit, Ed. Shush! Lets just leave it at manners and perspective.
Although the thought of leaving a session with a smack on her ass saying "Thanks honey, now what name does your roomie go by?" is kinda funny.

Chevalier, you are absolutely correct in your observation. The guys here, although a bit tire-kickerish, do tend to have their emotions in check. Mostly because they read the posts and are enlightened by them. They know the hobbying world inside and out.
As stated earlier, these problems usually exist with newbies, not prolific hobbyists. Not just "any" newby, but the YOUNGER newby. The ones in their 30's. The older gentlemen tend to have a better grasp on reality, and like I theorized it could be because age usually is synonymous with wisdom. They know black from white, where younger guys just think in grey.

PickupKid: are you saying that just discussing dating an escort might give hobbyists ideas?

Yes sweete...being a well seasoned vet....I seen happen before just from a date or a cup of coffee.or an email/

Isis ...I 'd be careful ..he be a stalker

I won't say I've never fantasized about having a civilian relationship with a provider, but I do know the difference between fantasy and reality. Unless I'm off my meds. But then I'm usually too busy staving off the zombies to bother a provider. Originally Posted by Gryphon

LOL, dude we might have been twin brothers in a previous life.

What a bunch of crap!! It's a financial transaction. I'd send a "thank you" email with the same affection and passion as I say "thank you" to the Wal-Mart checkout girl.

Sheesh.

Dear OP,

How long have you been providing, sister?

Don't you know what is happening when a guy tries to get you to exchange emails and texts? He is trying to save money by not actually booking a session with you and beating off when you answer him back, most likely as he clicks through your gallery.

Dear OP,

How long have you been providing, sister?

Don't you know what is happening when a guy tries to get you to exchange emails and texts? He is trying to save money by not actually booking a session with you and beating off when you answer him back, most likely as he clicks through your gallery. Originally Posted by phatdaty

I've been escorting long enough to realize men will jerk off to ur pics instead of paying to see you. But a hand is no substitution for a woman and eventually they call you. Oh, I know when someone is trying to use me as a penpal too. I tell them to get lost I aint your freaking pen pal.

Except for the military guy in Afghanistan who emailed me to tell me he checks out my sexy pics everyday and it keeps him going. I took the time to chat with him. He said it was really horrible over there, no hot chicks or bars.

Do you wear this shirt, too?

Originally Posted by IDMT

Wow! Where can I get one of those?

I've been escorting long enough to realize men will jerk off to ur pics instead of paying to see you. But a hand is no substitution for a woman and eventually they call you. Oh, I know when someone is trying to use me as a penpal too. I tell them to get lost I aint your freaking pen pal. Originally Posted by incognito isis

LOL!

Thattagirl!

http://www.cafepress.com/+i_love_zom...e_ts,113976767

Wow! Where can I get one of those? Originally Posted by Gryphon

Dear OP,

How long have you been providing, sister?

Don't you know what is happening when a guy tries to get you to exchange emails and texts? He is trying to save money by not actually booking a session with you and beating off when you answer him back, most likely as he clicks through your gallery. Originally Posted by phatdaty

Correct