You can stay longer if you want

It appears to me that many guys need to begin doing a better job of lining themselves up with quality entertainment!! Research and screening on our end can go a long way toward that end!

It's difficult for me to imagine being lazy in figuring out how to spend my Hobby Dollar!! I usually do pretty well.... sometimes better than others... but I usually have a pretty damned good idea that I'm going to enjoy myself even before the door opens!!

Giz Originally Posted by MrGiz

MrGiz, are you saying that because I don't want to spend additional time off the clock with a client, that I am not quality entertaintment??

Sir, with all do respect, the last thing I want to do is hurt the clients feelings. I could just say to the dude: "get lost I'm done." But that would be rude, however, I have every right to say that. Because as Charles Studor said, this is a bizness, and bizness is bizness. Once the time is up, I think it's rude for a client to say: "you can stay longer if you want." That is a passive aggresive statement to me. They are really saying: I want you to stay without compensation because I don't care if you have a life or a child or a dog or a sick mother. And I want to put you on the spot to increase my odds of you feeling obligated to stay. And I want you to look like the bad guy if you decline, that why I always say "if you want."

So Sir, again with all do respect, it's not me who is the problem here. I am quality entertainment. I do what I was paid to do. It's the clients who are not quality if they put a women on the spot and ask her to stay.

Ya know, even if you do stay a few minuted over just to chat, they are going to want you to stay longer. And longer. And longer. Like heroine users you see on Intervention. They took a little then they just wanted more and more and more. You give a hand and people take an arm. Where does it stop?

As susan powder said: STOP THE INSANITY!!

MrGiz, are you saying that because I don't want to spend additional time off the clock with a client, that I am not quality entertaintment?? Originally Posted by incognito isis

No Ma'am.... that's not even close to what I meant! It just appears to me, that so many disappointing encounters may be the result of negative attitudes not even allowing the possibility of a good time.... so why even bother? I don't believe it's one of your tasks, to cheer me up!

Giz

MrGiz, I will cheer you up if you cheer me up. Quid pro quo.
And I cheer up my clients so much so, they want me to stay "if I want."
Your correct, negative attitudes are not good.

No Ma'am.... that's not even close to what I meant! It just appears to me, that so many disappointing encounters may be the result of negative attitudes not even allowing the possibility of a good time.... so why even bother? I don't believe it's one of your tasks, to cheer me up!

Giz Originally Posted by MrGiz

sometimes you just dont want things to end if your having a good time & I did

MrGiz, I will cheer you up if you cheer me up. Quid pro quo.
And I cheer up my clients so much so, they want me to stay "if I want."
Your correct, negative attitudes are not good. Originally Posted by incognito isis

Jeeeeeezus!!
I was referring to the negative attitude of the customer!!

But then again.... I could be wrong!!

Giz
P.S. - Sandy.... I didn't want to leave either! There was zero negativity on that fabulous, lusty, slutty afternoon! (other than I had to go)

MrGiz, you can cheer me up if you want. I woke up with a sore neck today. I could sure use a neck rub.

Often times people get so defensive and worried about being taken advantage of, they fail to see that somebody is just trying to be a nice person. Originally Posted by Ansley

I have had my share of gents offer the same thing, but it has usually occurred with the patrons with whom I already have a good rapport. I.E. it is understood that I will simply be "crashing" so to speak...perhaps staying for breakfast in bed...but THAT IS IT. Originally Posted by LynetteMarie

Both of you ladies think like I do. I wouldn't ask just anybody, but I have done it once. It was late at night, she was a little buzzed, and had a long drive home. I offered to let her spend the night, and she accepted. However, it was understood by both of us that I wouldn't be able to pay her overnight rate, and the BCD activities have officially ended. All we did was actually sleep and have breakfast in the morning, and I expected nothing more than that.

I phrased my question almost exactly like the OP described. It's disappointing that a simple act of kindness often gets interpreted by so many as being rude, inconsiderate and having an ulterior motive to get free sex.

Dear Nameless One, I have stated that under unusual circumstances such as: being drunk, feeling tired, bad weather, late night, really long drive, etc. are different. I would appreicate the offer to rest if under those circumstances. Actually, come to think of it, I would prefer a client to say to me: are you tired? Are you ok to drive home? If not, you are welcome to stay and rest....

THAT would be different because then it would show true concern over my safety. However, when you say to me at 7pm or a beautiful night, "you can stay if you want" truely does put me on the spot. I don't want to say no, because then I'm admitting that I don't want to......so fellas, why don't you refrase it? Instead of putting us on the spot with "you can stay if you want" why don't you ask instead:

Are you tired? Are you going to be ok to drive home? I know it's a long drive, so if you are too tired, your welcome to rest here. That way I can respond: thank you for the offer, but i'm ok to drive home. I'm not put on the spot.

Actually, I have a regular client who is so nice. He always sais: just remember, if you don't feel well enough to drive your always welcome to stay. (We usually have a couple glasses of wine) He is so nice and I feel he is not putting me on the spot at all. His genuine concern shines thru.

So many rules.....lol

Ever thought that the guy just wasn't thinking? Sometimes guys just aren't thinking during or right after sex. It's not when we make our best decisions.

So many rules.....lol

Ever thought that the guy just wasn't thinking? Sometimes guys just aren't thinking during or right after sex. It's not when we make our best decisions. Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Yup. I can get any guy to agree to anything during sex. That's for damn sure.

Rules are good. Without them there would be anarchy.

Yup. I can get any guy to agree to anything during sex. That's for damn sure. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Really?? Care to share some stories

Addict, I see in your signature you can do MSOG in 30 minutes. I have only met one man, a 50 year old man, who came 2 times in an hour. I have never, never seen anyone able to do it 2 times within an hours time frame. At 2 hours, maybe, not 1. You claim you can do it 2 times in 30 minutes?

Yes mam I can

Addict, I see in your signature you can do MSOG in 30 minutes. I have only met one man, a 50 year old man, who came 2 times in an hour. I have never, never seen anyone able to do it 2 times within an hours time frame. At 2 hours, maybe, not 1. You claim you can do it 2 times in 30 minutes? Originally Posted by incognito isis

Wow . . . and WoW !!

You just blew me away twice in one post!!