Why do ladies think it's necessary to lie???

Well tramp, I'm pretty sure that I am probably going to ask Tiffany to marry me very soon! And when Johnny is in his pirate getup? WHOOOO!!! I can't WAIT for Alice to get here! March 5 and I will be viewing it in Austin with my crazy friends!

ON topic: I had the EXACT same thoughts when I read some of the ladies responses but wasn't going to say anything. I mean, geez girls, when you post things like that, do you REALLY think the guys WANT to see you?! OMG!!!

Well, I guess I agree with MAX also in that there is someone for everyone and we all DO like different things. ME? I like a little respect and a lot of kindness. Oh yeah, and I LUVS me some Johnny Depp!

Tiffany, look out girl, as soon as I find out where you are, I may be headed North!

The solution seems obvious to the most casual observer: During the session don’t ask dumb questions: 1) if you are afraid to hear a truthful answer or 2) you don’t to be the cause, of the lady feeling she must stretch the truth, to spare your ego. The motto, ask me no questions, I will tell you no lies, should be emblazed on every headboard!

PS Vicki…should you and Tiffany ever get together…I’d Love to be there!

M AX Get Well Soon! Originally Posted by tramp76137

working on it, Tramp....and thanks Tiff! '-)

Tiffany, look out girl, as soon as I find out where you are, I may be headed North! Originally Posted by vnurse

Well c'mon girlfriend! I know how to please a lady, and would be more then thrilled to get a visit from you!

Too bad you're not closer....

Wow...just saw this thread! First of all, Charles...why ask why in the first place? And, please do not lump all providers as if we all act and do things the same way...because we don't. Also, please remember...this is all just a fantasy anyway, so why are you trying to rain on our parade? (lol)

I've had some experiences where the provider advertises being 38 and she's much closer to 48. A little truth in advertising would be nice. To me it borders on bait and switch. We all know how much that is despised in the hobby.

Palm...you just answered your own question. Some of you men seem to think and treat women over the age of 40 as if we have some kind of plague.

Trust me, in this day and age...women who are 38 are not much different than a woman who's in her mid to late 40's. And, I doubt that many women who are in their 40's are trying to pass themselves off as a 20 year old.

I'll tell you from personal experience...I'm much older than what's listed in my profile, but guaranteed by every review of me for the last five+ years...that I can hold my own against any 20, 30 or 40 year old...anyday. And, most hobbyists wouldn't have even given me a second glance if I would have originally listed my "true" age when I first started...because of that stigma of the "older" woman being worn out and haggered...which is really really wrong.

Also, most gents that look for the older woman aren't concerned whether she's 38, 48, or even over 50 years old anyway...imho.

I'm a little late to this thread but that doesn't mean I don't have an opinion. (opinions are like assholes-everyone has one). I know Charles was in a bad mood when he started this thread but that doesn't mean there isn't a little truth to it. I mean really, do you ladies think we are that stupid and in need of an ego boost? Nothing turns me off quicker than the fake moan. We all know it and know it's fake. I, honestly, would rather have you say " I don't think we're going to click" at the beginning of a date than have you go through the motions. It's not a satisfying experience for either of us.

Oh My!!! We seem to have the Judge, Jury and Executioner all in one!!

Charlestudor2005...u seem very bitter? everyone desires/needs different things. me thinks u just need to get fucked but not everyone needs/desires to"just get fucked." And i will moan if u lick/suck my nipples! i absolutely LOVE the warm wet tongue sensation. And the world goes round and round!

I'm sorry to see this. I can't even begin to understand exactly where this came from. Can't it just be that there is a way for people to meet and enjoy spending time together in a "no harm no foul" atmosphere? That's really simplistic, I know. Call it dreams, call it fantasy but it's nothing more or less than the chance to make wishes come true. And that is the truth. Originally Posted by babee

preach it sister!

What exactly is your point? Do you really think you're buying love and friendship? If anything you're alienating these people and showing your naivety. BTW, when the provider tells me "You're big.", meaning the size of me penis, it's because it's true and she doesn't have to lie. How many providers have you had walk away bow legged? If you're looking for a loving and sincere relationship then you're on the wrong board. The dating site is down the hall. This board is for adults who have no illusions, like you, what they're doing with each and why.

It's a no strings attached type of relationship. I've had lots of men lie to me. No hard feelings though. I had fun.... THEY had fun... so i guess there's no problem.

Also, most gents that look for the older woman aren't concerned whether she's 38, 48, or even over 50 years old anyway...imho. Originally Posted by Likinikki

If you really believe that, why do you lie? Why not list your real age? Afterall, per above the gents targeting that market don't care anyway....

And if you lie about your age it begs the question, what else do you lie about?

If you really believe that, why do you lie? Why not list your real age? Afterall, per above the gents targeting that market don't care anyway....

And if you lie about your age it begs the question, what else do you lie about? Originally Posted by atlcomedy

I agree. Some of what has been put forth here is a bit much.

"...most gents that look for the older woman aren't concerned whether she's 38, 48, or even over 50 years old anyway..." Although that statement is irrelevant to the topic, I will say it's not true for me. I've chosen a few Providers over 35 because I'm older than them and found them attractive. I haven't yet seen any over 40 I would consider.

Is it really a lie if all parties know that its untrue?

Why do men lie? Originally Posted by Tara Evans

I don't lie, I opt for silence

If you don't want to know the truth, don't ask the question.

For example:
her: do I look fat?
me: it looks like both of us have put on a few extra pounds.