Middle aged men have 'hotness delusion syndrome'

Well there's a trip down memory lane. We had a Studebakers here too. Did the wait staff jump on the bar and dance? Originally Posted by Ansley

OMG yes..lol

Do you remember the old "confettis" club? I remember the dancers/performers who wore roller skates on the dance floor. Even remember these 3 guys who were "The three stooges" look alikes do a skit in the club to the song "The curly shuffle".

Can't find clubs like that here in Houston anymore.. sigh.

Do you remember the old "confettis" club? Originally Posted by Guilty Pleasures

I never made it into the front door. Back then the world was revolving around me. The doormen didn't care to hear about the bad quality valet service that I thought they had, and sent us on our way. Like I even knew what good or bad service was back in those days.

I see this happen all the time! Its so stupid
I dont want to go dancing - over 40 grinding on the dance floor...no one wants to see that. good looking or not Originally Posted by CRISTY-CUPPS

+1

Don't hang up your dancing shoes yet. In Atlanta there is a club called Johnny's Hideaway, that has been packing them in seven days a week for 32 years. I would imagine the average age is 50. Even the mature crowd still likes to go out dancing every now and then. Originally Posted by Ansley

There was (is? dunno...I've been gone a while now) a club in the DC-area (Bethesda, MD maybe?) that advertised on TV it was for the 50 & up set. Even had some hokey name like The Yacht Club, or something similar.

The spokesman bore an uncanny resemblance to the who used to do the Maury's wigs commercials WAY back in the day....

Correction I like dancing sometimes at bar/club where people my own age go out to dance
Hell I love a good 1980's night or even a sinatra/swing dance night

*What I dont like is when people 40+ of age try to hang out in a 20's night club. I dont want to do that, and my guy friend who is 43 shouldnt do it, but he still thinks he is hot and wants to grind to Usher LOL its just wrong!

SR ONLY- A guy doesnt have to be Clooney to dance with me- I like em all. I used to teach ballroom dancing so if a guy is a strong lead Im in! btw my s.o. is 25 yrs older then me (and yes he is my fathers age lol)

What I dont like is when people 40+ of age try to hang out in a 20's night club. I dont want to do that, and my friend who is 43 shouldnt do it, but he still thinks he is hot and want to grind to Usher LOL Originally Posted by CRISTY-CUPPS

I can't even remember the last time I was in one of those clubs. So does your friend wear gold chains too?

hehehe No gold chains, but he thinks he's "The Situation" from MTVs Jersey Shore lol

The charm of the older gentleman is not to pretend that he is younger. Clubbing with the 20somethings is not dignified for a 40something. Older gentlemen have their own charms, which I believe many of the ladies have acknowledged. I know that I don't feel the need to compete head-to-head with the 20somethings.

I can afford to take a lady out to a fine restaurant, order the correct meal and wine, have sophisticated conversation, buy her nice gifts, and generally have the financial and emotional depth to make her feel like the most special and beautiful lady in the world. Maybe we can go see a concert. Maybe we can travel someplace exotic and interesting. Maybe we can stay in and cuddle next to the fire on a rainy afternoon. As I have matured, I don't have to be so aggressive. I have the gravitas and confidence to know that I can get what I want.

And Ansley and Valerie, those new avatars are ravishing, and I'm not even a breast man. I may have to reconsider.

And Ansley and Valerie, those new avatars are ravishing, and I'm not even a breast man. I may have to reconsider. Originally Posted by Karl Hungus

Why thank you Karl...Mine is very recent, taken earlier today

The charm of the older gentleman is not to pretend that he is younger. Clubbing with the 20somethings is not dignified for a 40something. Older gentlemen have their own charms, which I believe many of the ladies have acknowledged. I know that I don't feel the need to compete head-to-head with the 20somethings. Originally Posted by Karl Hungus

Word!

Hmm as far as avatars go I still like the one with Val giving everyone the finger .

The new one shows a pretty darn cute view. Should we make a poll?

Hmm as far as avatars go I still like the one with Val giving everyone the finger . Originally Posted by rrabbit6926

I hear using that little red man will get you points.

Hmm as far as avatars go I still like the one with Val giving everyone the finger . Originally Posted by rrabbit6926

Lmao

We'll at least she gets the joke