Scuba believe me not being able to meet Lori is a big minus.
If for example I determine that Mitt Romney's Mormon faith has him wearing the funny underwear.....the stuff with double padding that keeps evil from entering the body.........then I question someone's logic and common sense and won't trust him to be President, with the Nuke button.
The same applies in my logic to a person that submits to what I feel is a form of degradation(my opinion) and potential physical harm. Seems like an act(to me) that goes along with a lower sense of self esteem.
Some of this hobby is a form of fantasy and that is not one of mine.