Do you like to be dominated?

I am more of a sub myself, As long as I'm coherent we're good. When I try to be Dom, something's missing I just don't "feel it"

I Always wanted to do a 2 girl and us girls get dominated but it seems a little extreme lol I am a freak just dont show it to much lol has anyone ever had this??

Hey Olivia How yooou doin? lol

I'm fairly new to the world of entertainment and offer many services....one of my favorite things to do is play Dom...I've only got to do it 3-4 times and each client fills me in a little on what that like before i get started.... what kind of things do you like when being dominated? Describe a certain action or saying that gets you going.... Originally Posted by Monica Sweets

I enjoy being bound good enough to be helpless against a Domme. Gagged to prevent yelling for help and to feel even more powerless to the Domme. Nipple clamps, strap-ons, and riding crops are awesome for causing pain in areas where the sensation is actually welcome and erotic.

Anyway, that's a good place to start as far as I'm concerned

No way do I like to be dominated, Call me "MS dominatrix".
You need to be in control when you do sessions because some men get domination mixed up with S&M. Two totally different things and they don't know what a SAFE word means.
Can you imagine if you are really saying "no" and he thinks you are just playing the role but you really mean it. He might be getting tooo aggressive and you decide you don't like it but he does.
I won't lie, tooo scared when it comes to some guy I don't really know but in my personal life "yes" ... make that "yes sir", anything you say sir.

I'm usually the Dom but just recently for the 1st time ever i became the Sub and OMG... I have never been so turned on!!!! If i told you i had the time of my life it would be a complete understatement!! Let's just say i'm looking forward to my next oppurtunity!!

No way do I like to be dominated, Call me "MS dominatrix".
You need to be in control when you do sessions because some men get domination mixed up with S&M. Two totally different things and they don't know what a SAFE word means.
Can you imagine if you are really saying "no" and he thinks you are just playing the role but you really mean it. He might be getting tooo aggressive and you decide you don't like it but he does.
I won't lie, tooo scared when it comes to some guy I don't really know but in my personal life "yes" ... make that "yes sir", anything you say sir. Originally Posted by Anita Lay

What is the difference between SM/Domme, I do know that Domme is female domination. I have no idea where to find info? To answer the question, I dont think being the Dom. would be that much fun.

I enjoy playful domination! I like tying a guy up with hose or scarfs..then spanking/sensory dpravation/verbal humiliation/strap on....{you get the idea..lol} Originally Posted by DallasRain

Wow miss DALLAS I HAVE NEVER been dominated in any of my RELATIONS butt I might LET YOU!! Do what you do to me with those restraints and give me the RIDE TO HELL!!!!!!

Uh .... yeah, hell yeah!

I have submitted before my Goddess a few times, and the further we push things the more we both enjoy ourselves. The last 2-3 times have left me virtually unable to walk, or drive my car, as I was so physically and mentally exhausted!

I am still waiting to fufill a longtime fantasy of being dominated by 2-3 ladies, and there are variations of that wherein I am forced to satisfy others including a guy ... and to be honest, most of the reason as to why I got in the hobby was to explore my boundaries and push my limits ... I just wish there were more hot, sexy ladies that enjoyed having complete and total control over a guy ... I completely submit to my Goddess, and would do anything, anywhere and with anyone, for her ... and I have had several sessions with another Provider who has absolutely brought me to the brink (of popping) time and time again, for two hours, only to let it happen just as our playtime is ending ... and one of the hottest sessions ever involved a Provider who had always wanted to dominate a guy, and nail him with a strapon, so we met and OMG, she unleashed that pent up kinkiness on my backside!!!!

Anyway, to answer again, hell yes I like to (and want to) be dominated!!!!

I've had Doms before, but I was the "addition" to her sexual encounters. Her husband was her slave, wore a collar and everything once in a while a leash and I was seen as an equal to the Dom wife.

He'd service his wife in the way she demanded, including cleaning up the mess I'd made with her. A little apprehensive when she ordered him to clean my cock...with his mouth. (And I agreed to let it flow how it flows.) At first I had to be open minded, very open minded, but it turned out to be very stimulating.

Needless to say I went back several more times. That was definitely a sexual broadener.

I definitely need to find some better action. I'm a sub that just can't seem to find the right dom!

No way do I like to be dominated, Call me "MS dominatrix".
You need to be in control when you do sessions because some men get domination mixed up with S&M. Two totally different things and they don't know what a SAFE word means.
Can you imagine if you are really saying "no" and he thinks you are just playing the role but you really mean it. He might be getting tooo aggressive and you decide you don't like it but he does.
I won't lie, tooo scared when it comes to some guy I don't really know but in my personal life "yes" ... make that "yes sir", anything you say sir. Originally Posted by Anita Lay

Umm, that's like the main reason for the concepts of safewords. It allows you to expressly use a word or phrase that would not come up in your regular conversations. Lots of people like to roleplay, and saying "No, No, No!" while you are being ravished is helpful for getting into the right mindset for some...

But most people are not going to use a phrase like "Fuck Leroy! That fucking hurt! Stop it!" in normal conversation. Or "IRS! IRS!' comes up very few times in most peoples conversations (except when used in conjunction with choice adverbs, expletives and more expletives).

That's why some people use safewords. They want the ability to protest AND to stop the scene if they feel they can't handle it.

Though your first choice should be finding a play partner that you actually trust first.

I absolutely LOVE games of power exchange, coercion, and just down righty dirty sex! I'm pretty damn switchy but my dominant side seems to prevail. I've got this crazy idea lately that it would be hot to have a sexy little female submissive to have 3-somes with, maybe tie her onto a sybian while...
Oh my!

I absolutely LOVE games of power exchange, coercion, and just down righty dirty sex! I'm pretty damn switchy but my dominant side seems to prevail. I've got this crazy idea lately that it would be hot to have a sexy little female submissive to have 3-somes with, maybe tie her onto a sybian while...
Oh my! Originally Posted by Ava Baker

Lets make it happen captain!

Mutual trust..real trust is critical. I prefer the kink dom/sub sessions when it's flowing back and forth. Ex: I might be able to relax enough with a Provider to partake of some anal play coming my way...but being restrained by a stranger makes me uncomfortable. I can't imagine that a Provider would feel differently. Now, if me and my girlfriend were all greased up from mutual massages and she deftly slipped one or more fingers up my backdoor (nad me hers as a mutual exchange later on) I'd find that a prelude to some hot sex!