The "hobby" can be a cutthroat world.
People like to dress it up and talk about "community", "sisterhood", "friendship", "proper etiquette", and all of that... Yeah, while those things may not be total fabrications they do rest on very shaky ground.
I've got an idea of the situation that prompted this thread, its not all that unique. At least in this situation it was pretty much right out there. Other times a provider might engage in a quiet whisper and rumor campaign over an extended period to discredit and cause problems for someone. Anyways...
If I found out a provider I was interested in seeing was causing problems for another provider it would impact on how I viewed her. It would definitely make me more cautious in any dealings with her. Originally Posted by Jannisary
YES!!! I learned of this very quickly, the HARD WAY, but I won't get into THAT... I also learned very quickly that a lot of these girls will befriend you for as long as they think they'll benefit from the connection. This is why I'm extremely particular about who I trust. Cutthroat is an extremely accurate term when describing the actual makings of the hobby.