Still looking for the first

LMAO. Nice to meet another hopeless romantic.

I completely agree. A good marriage is worth treasuring for as long as it lasts, no need to mess it up. It will turn to shit by itself soon enough. Originally Posted by blenderhead

Looks like the OP just needs to invest in some midget porn rather than the hobby.

Leave man. Whenever, I meet someone else and truly wanting something special, I will hang it up!

sixx

Forget about this place. Forget about the tarts. Everything you need you can find right here: http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...ght=%2Aporn%2A. Run, and don't look back. Go. Now.

Monk

Jay,

there has been allot of good advice given here. But i will lend another perspective from a married 's guy point of view.

Im married but not as happily as you are. I think as long as you have this itch it's not going to go away by itself. In fact in the long haul it might put more ofa strain on your marriage by wondering about what you might be missing. Find yourself one or two indie providers and scratch that itch!

it might even improve your marriage. You may not even like the hobby. But, you'll never know unless you try.

Just my 2 cents

happy safe hobbying!

Java

LMAO. Nice to meet another hopeless romantic. Originally Posted by EroticEmily

I love romance, it just doesn't work in the context of a marriage.

Im married but not as happily as you are. I think as long as you have this itch it's not going to go away by itself. In fact in the long haul it might put more ofa strain on your marriage by wondering about what you might be missing. Find yourself one or two indie providers and scratch that itch!

it might even improve your marriage. You may not even like the hobby. But, you'll never know unless you try. Originally Posted by CupOfJava

The downside is that he might like it too much. Scratch that itch once, then again, and again.. I don't have an addictive personality and I could give it up in a heartbeat if I was in a relationship that didn't suck, but I think it can be easy for a lot of guys to lose perspective. He needs to be damn sure he wants it and that he can handle it.

Wow, I appreciate all the feedback. Most all were very insightful and thought provoking as well as pretty humorous. I will stick it out on the home front and quit pissing and moaning. I took those vows and with no real reason to break them other than thinking with the south pole instead of the north I just gotta get the stove burning in my bed. I think I needed an outside perspective and certainly got it. Thanks to all.

Good to see you pop back in, Jay. Yes, we men are knuckle-dragging walking erections who marginally think with the north end of the stick; but it sounds like you have a good thing going and a good " north end of the stick" on your shoulders.

You will certainly get an outside perspective of inside our slightly dysfunctional little family here; pop back in to say hello sometime; best of luck to you.........

Wow, I appreciate all the feedback. Most all were very insightful and thought provoking as well as pretty humorous. I will stick it out on the home front and quit pissing and moaning. I took those vows and with no real reason to break them other than thinking with the south pole instead of the north I just gotta get the stove burning in my bed. I think I needed an outside perspective and certainly got it. Thanks to all. Originally Posted by jaythomp

Awesome Jay -- Just AWESOME, good luck!

Wow, I appreciate all the feedback. Most all were very insightful and thought provoking as well as pretty humorous. I will stick it out on the home front and quit pissing and moaning. I took those vows and with no real reason to break them other than thinking with the south pole instead of the north I just gotta get the stove burning in my bed. I think I needed an outside perspective and certainly got it. Thanks to all. Originally Posted by jaythomp

Excellent. Good luck to you.

I am in a hobby with a bunch of outcasts from society with no real sense of right and perhaps wrong, I come upon these postings that disprove this theory and fuks up my thinking all over again.

Jay... I hope you meant what you said about moving on.. don't look back and work at what you have in your home before you find yourself in a hole that you may not want to be in.

dang you guys (and gals)!!!!!

I feel so dirty now...

I totally agree with Erotic Emily and others. Stay the hell away! Don't get started. Once you do, good luck stopping completely. Those who have a lot to lose are fools to do this, IMO. But, that's their choice and I assume they know the risks they take with each visit. Keep what ya got!