Jealousy

It was Frank Sinatra's favorite suite at the hotel. After marking his territory in that way I am going to asume that Ed is just not a Sinatra fan. Originally Posted by Becky

Why not? Maybe Ed was saying to himself, "I did it my way" . . .

Would we be so critical of a male author writing under a female pen name (or vice versa)? I'm just saying...

Back to the topic though... I called a provider who gave me a great reference on a gent. He then asked me if he could give me a different provider to contact because he didn't think the one in question would give him a very good reference. Come to find out, after I spoke with her, she called the gent and reamed them for seeing me and not her!!!

Seriously, I live in a city of 5,000,000 people. There is simply no room for jealousy... disappointment, maybe, but not jealousy.

I was really hoping someone else would be able to point them out so I won't have to as 1) I don't have that kind of time- there are a LOT and she IS a genuine writer and will want to debate the subject I'm sure since a lot of her self image is oddly tied up in this fake online persona that she has built for YEARS 2) I'm still crying from laughing so hard. Originally Posted by EroticEmily

Sweetie,

Why don't you put your money where your mouth is and list those tell tell signs that proves I'm not a true provider. You have time to post but just not that? And before you ask me the same question let me answer. Because I have to pay for rent, food, car and etc...that I need and want to live.

I was just asked today, by someone who loves my blog and writing technique, if I have samples of other things I have written. I simply said no, as I don't. It then occured to me that I don't know if I am capable of making something up and writing about it.

I have only written from my real life experiences. You give me too much credit. I wish I was that creative.

Alex

Sweetie,


Alex Originally Posted by Alex Lieberman

that sweetie made me laugh

(WTF is a sweetie too)

that sweetie made me laugh

(WTF is a sweetie too) Originally Posted by nevergaveitathought

LOL...I probably should have started it with idiot instead of sweetie.

I'm not a big fan of Ms. Lieberman, but I believe she is a genuine provider.

Obviously, every provider has different experiences; just as every hobbyist has different experiences. And even the same objective events will be experienced differently by different people based upon their own hierarchy of values.

One provider may react with revulsion to something that another would genuinely enjoy.

The way a provider sees herself, the client, how she thinks the client sees her, and her view of the role she is playing all dramatically affect how she experiences an event.

Likewise, our own reactions -- however we might try to disguise them -- in many subtle ways will determine the outcome and enjoyability in any interaction by influencing the other person's reactions -- perhaps even without his/her conscious knowledge. We may lie to someone's face, but our limbic system seldom keeps pace with our deceptions and others will react to it rather than to our deceptions.

Although what Ms. Lieberman is reporting may sound fantastical to many providers because it is not within the realm of their personal experience; it is entirely within the realm of what is real for a reluctant escort.

There are providers out there that fit into so many different realms they can't be categorized. Some see themselves as healers in a variety of ways, some as courtesans who literally change the world through the ears in which they whisper, etc. etc. etc.

Every one of them would experience the same objective event differently. And Alex's experience is just as real and valid as the others that I might find more palatable.

hey TFW next time you mention me ..get my name right Originally Posted by nevergaveitathought

I'llgiveitsomethought.

Seriously, I'm just glad the a-t-l-c-o-m-e-d-y got a date outta this thread!

LOL...I probably should have started it with idiot instead of sweetie. Originally Posted by Alex Lieberman

Hey now WTF, ain't no idiot. A lil slow but definitely a step ahead of the idiots! I got my man nevergivesitathought in my rearview! He ever passes me, I'm in trouble....Poor fellow hit ever branch on the way down a fall from the top of a fifty foot Cottenwood Tree Had a movie made about him. Sling Hmmmmm Blade.

Would we be so critical of a male author writing under a female pen name (or vice versa)? I'm just saying...

. Originally Posted by AidanMacKenna

WTF are you trying to say? I'm a little slow, no idiot mind you but just a little slow. Are you saying that if Alex was a three balled two dick Alex then his dates wouldn't care if they showed up and "The Crying Game'' was playing on the telly? That would give a whole new meaning to "More than a mouth full is a waste!".

I'llgiveitsomethought.

Hey now WTF, ain't no idiot .....Cottenwood Tree Originally Posted by WTF

i'm steadily gaining on you..with each post

you sure 'bout that? is stoopid spelled with one o or two? Originally Posted by nevergaveitathought

If a lady is asking , I spell it with two big O's!

If it a guy doing the asking, I refer them to U.

Back to the topic though... I called a provider who gave me a great reference on a gent. He then asked me if he could give me a different provider to contact because he didn't think the one in question would give him a very good reference. Come to find out, after I spoke with her, she called the gent and reamed them for seeing me and not her!!!

Seriously, I live in a city of 5,000,000 people. There is simply no room for jealousy... disappointment, maybe, but not jealousy. Originally Posted by AidanMacKenna

If the gent had a P411 account w/ oks, would that have skipped the drama??? Betcha.

WTF are you trying to say? I'm a little slow, no idiot mind you but just a little slow. Are you saying that if Alex was a three balled two dick Alex then his dates wouldn't care if they showed up and "The Crying Game'' was playing on the telly? That would give a whole new meaning to "More than a mouth full is a waste!". Originally Posted by WTF

I'm just saying who cares if he is a guy or a girl posting, let's stick to the question...

If the gent had a P411 account w/ oks, would that have skipped the drama??? Betcha. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Agreed... P411 and Datecheck have definately spoiled me, but try running a lucrative business only accepting P411 Members. That said, those who do not wish to become P411 or Datecheck Members must rely on references from providers they have seen. A lot of guys prefer to stick with one girl for a while (I know, I know, this is a novel idea to some of you). When you only see one girl for weeks/months/years on end, what's the point of paying for a membership? That said, girls do get jealous when someone they see ventures out. Again, there is no room for jealousy, dissappointment, maybe, but not jealousy.

Again, there is no room for jealousy, dissappointment, maybe, but not jealousy. Originally Posted by AidanMacKenna

But, alas those feelings will always exist, so all of our jobs are to lessen or avoid the hurt feelings.

I am sad to say that have yet to hear from the other escort who I considered a very good friend.

Sweetie,

Why don't you put your money where your mouth is and list those tell tell signs that proves I'm not a true provider. Originally Posted by Alex Lieberman

I don't know the OP who you are responding to. I've glanced at your blog Alex but haven't read enough to know if her coment strikes me in the same way. I would say that pointing out any signs on a public forum is bad news. Big brother is always watching and the less info they get about certain things the better.

Camille

I am sad to say that have yet to hear from the other escort who I considered a very good friend. Originally Posted by Alex Lieberman

All is fair in love and war (unfortunately). Like my competitors, those who I go head to head with we have a respect and we'll share info that by letter of the law we should, but talking around the water cooler is just hearsay is good. Like a reference, with a friend yes she could say "man that SR Only is one hell of a lover," or something like that. In your friend's defense maybe she is out of area? Or with family or another reason not to be seeing your note. If she's a friend I'd wager that's the case.