When hobby world and real world collides...

MsPrittiKitti
Now I fully get why no face shots in your photos. That would do it.

Petiteassman
"the kind every man dreams about and you have just had wild sex with her in the last few weeks. how do you keep your eyes off her. how do you not start trembling, beathing a little heavy heart racing a little faster"

Sounds like a bad case of "In love" to me. Boy do you fall fast and hard after a session

I haven't had that happen to me yet, but I think it would be kind of cool. I'm definitely not an "approach you in public" kind of person in general, but I think it would be funny for us to exchange a glance and a smile, maybe a laugh, then go our separate ways. That'd honestly probably make my day.

Usually they walk up to me and announce to their friends, "This guy has a HUGE cock.". It is an embarrassment, but what can you do?

Usually they walk up to me and announce to their friends, "This guy has a HUGE cock.". It is an embarrassment, but what can you do? Originally Posted by Big Jake

Emily, if that's your body and your lips in your showcase, and I have no doubt it is, there's no reason for you to be paranoid when men stare at you in public. If you take a close look, you'll probably also notice that their mouth is open, their heart's aflutter and they're not exactly paying attention to the rest of the world around them at that time.

Emily, if that's your body and your lips in your showcase, and I have no doubt it is, there's no reason for you to be paranoid when men stare at you in public. If you take a close look, you'll probably also notice that their mouth is open, their heart's aflutter and they're not exactly paying attention to the rest of the world around them at that time. Originally Posted by poseidon

Poseidon
I didn't even notice those incredible lips my first pass through Emily's showcase. Wow! Oh yeah Em You blend lol.

I ran an ad on Craiglist for a (legit.) job at my work. One applicant sent a resume with photos. The same photos she used as a well known and reviewed agency girl about a year earlier.

Have run into a provider w/her SO at a bar, a dancer at school (turns out our kids go to the same school) and one provider with her mom at a fancy restaurant while I was eating w/the wife.

In most situations, it's best to just not acknowledge the other person.

What if you recognized a Provider who was sitting alone at a hotel bar and you knew who she was but you she does not know who you are because you never had a session with her. Do you approach? Do you let on that you know?

What if you recognized a Provider who was sitting alone at a hotel bar and you knew who she was but you she does not know who you are because you never had a session with her. Do you approach? Do you let on that you know? Originally Posted by JohnBoy

Pretty iffy situation. In my opinion, what if she were with someone, and they had just stepped out of the bar, or she was waiting for them to get down from the room? Might just be better to write an email (smartphones do come in handy) and say you just noticed her and ask if she's free for business later that day/night. Of course, if you've never seen her bcd then you might not want to request an appointment if you're not ready to hear a potential "no."

Depends on what you're approaching her for. Buying a drink for a seemingly single lady in a bar isn't out of the ordinary, nor is approaching a lady sitting alone at a bar. I would, however, be very careful about bringing up hobby knowledge or asking about availability for a session.

I was out having lunch by myself one day and in walks a man and a woman. I paid no attention, but as soon as they sat down I recognized the man's voice. I whipped my head around in that direction and thought oh crap....that's a client. I had hoped I didn't look in his direction too hard. I didn't actually see his face, but I snapped to the sound of his voice. I finished eating and went the opposite way in case he had a knee jerk reaction like I did. I saw him about a week later and I told him I saw him. Guess what....he was out to eat with another provider! That was pretty funny to me. I say its best not to adknowledge the person, and maybe send them an email later if its a client/provider you have a good "working" relationship with.

That is hilarious. I was in hotel dining establishment for a business lunch. I was there for about 2 hours. I recognized a fairly young Provider walk in and about 1 hour later she was cutting through the lobby where I was standing with others. She does not know me but we happened to look at each other at the same time. She had that "do I know you look" and I just kept talking to the people that I was with and looked away. When I glanced back she had her eyes locked on the front door. I don't know if she thought she knew me at first or what but she clearly was not going to look back my direction. She was obviously well coached or wise enough to keep walking with no reaction. While she was dress conservatively, I could only imagine what she had on or did not have on underneath that dress. She was smokin HOT.

Personally I feel one should never even acknowledge another hobbyist outside the hobby world period unless you have actually become personal friends as in No BCD. I've become friends with a few whom are not compatible BCD but are simply really some of the coolest people to hang with on occasion.
I would not use them as ref. as technically I am not a client. I've only had one instance where a hot BCD provider offered to see me regularly when in town as a mutual fb supposedly because she enjoyed my company. What a disaster! That's when my home became a layover motel. Her real world drama became mine. The questionable characters she knew suddenly knew who I was and where I lived. Instead of clean cut pay n go it became a consistant Can I "BORROW" $100 here and $200 there. Then I noticed the chronic lies for no rhyme or reason. I very politely bowed out once I realized that she was methodically building a collection of free stay overs, restaurant meals and human ATM machines in each town to save on her travel costs. Clearly she was not accustomed to any man rejecting her proposal because that's when she simply turned evil.
In summary NEVER mix the two worlds period once you've done the nasty. Leave one another to your personal lives on the street and elsewhere and forget free mutual bcd because as they say. "Free most definitely cost a lot more" on all fronts. Sorry about the rant but that feels so much better lol.
Oil and Water....

Really? A girl like me? I assure you my ass is not "petite" so it's nice to catch your attention! Or maybe your screen name is implying that YOU are the one with a petite ass? LOL...now I have an image in my head of a very waif thin, short little man with a petite ass. I doubt that's why you call yourself that though!

its kinda tough. a girl like emily guys like us dream and fantasize about everyday of our lives. on the odd chance we run across a woman this beautiful that we have be fortunate enough to be intimate with its gotta be impossible not to stare whether we realize or not.come on whats the odds of being in an airport or wherever your walking with your s.o or family / friends and you see the best looking woman, the kind every man dreams about and you have just had wild sex with her in the last few weeks. how do you keep your eyes off her. how do you not start trembling, beathing a little heavy heart racing a little faster. maybe someone else has the answers. Originally Posted by petiteassman

I have crossed paths w/many people in the area I live in. I always act as if they are just another person in the mall or where ever. Now I do get nervous sometimes when I am at HEB, but lol I think its just because I have read a thread or two about you guys talking about the ladies that catch your eye and what not in HEB's. So I am always nervous when I see someone looking to much, lol! Crazy I know. Now sometimes when I go out w/some friends I like to try and guess who looks like they hobby or who looks like they provide. Funny thing is you can't tell really unless you have met them. But it makes a boring night go by...

Yea, whenever I'm taking a break from the hobby and TRYING to date I always get worried that the guy has a secret life that I don't know about or that he knows that I've often worked as an escort and is just playing me to get a string of freebies. Poor girl, I probably need therapy...then again a lot of us could use it so I don't think I'm alone!

I have crossed paths w/many people in the area I live in. I always act as if they are just another person in the mall or where ever. Now I do get nervous sometimes when I am at HEB, but lol I think its just because I have read a thread or two about you guys talking about the ladies that catch your eye and what not in HEB's. So I am always nervous when I see someone looking to much, lol! Crazy I know. Now sometimes when I go out w/some friends I like to try and guess who looks like they hobby or who looks like they provide. Funny thing is you can't tell really unless you have met them. But it makes a boring night go by... Originally Posted by Sexy Roxanne