OK FYI this needs to be addressed

Ok so I have read various reviews lately and I have to say I am personally sick and tired of not being able to respond and correct the BS that is said..Yes I am a little heated but I am going to clear up a few things here as a provider you get clients who tend to push way to many guide lines if a provider says no about it do not bitch and moan or down talk her move on and ENJOY your time!!Now its funny how you always say there are to many restrictions then when a providers gives in majorly and offers more then yet again she has to many rules!!What is all that about?Now I have read these reviews and for one I am going to address a few things Now when you come to see a provider you pay up front for her time if you happen to not last that whole time that is not our fault unless you are paying for a MSOG...Now do not get upset with the provider that you could not hold it and ask for your money back that is just tacky!!Do you go to the store and said I only drank half of my drink can you refund me for the rest..OMG NO you opened the bottle and used it GAME OVER!!!!Now next yes Unique is with me am I training her NO...Is she new yes ..Now as far as me sitting there and training walkin her though it I was there because I was asked to be there she was nervous and as far as rules she makes her own..Now gentlemen just cause she is new doesn't mean she is dumb and will let you push her limits thinking she doesn't know better!!It's frustrating when you get a client who is pushy and doesn't know when to stop who only hears what he wants to hear and whats so funny is he came back the next day oh and you misquoted the donation FYI!!!!
Now I have been around a long time and have made a lot of friends never said or been mean in any way..But enough is enough...You want to bash providers on the fact that they don't go as far as you'd like well you did your homework read up on them and still wanted to see them...I am very frustrated and a little angry....But I don't want someone out there bashing my name that I have built for 7 yrs..I have been very loyal and respectful..I love the providers I have met and the clients I have become friends with..But gentlemen please if you are going to post a review POST FACTS not BS!!!Ok I feel better now woooooooo saaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhh

I like this post...providers should get a response box on every review.

Cici: I can't speak for the others here, but the comments of the client in the review you're talking about would NOT have stopped me from seeing you. But this response might.

I'm not saying that you don't or shouldn't have a right to make a reply. I'm on your side as far as that goes. I think more information is always better than less. But the WAY you present yourself here seems to be hostile and out of proportion to the comments that the client made, and tends to play into the client's comments about you.

I'm sure it's hard to do, but providers just need to accept that they won't be everyone's cup of tea, and realize that reviews come and go, and that we make up our minds based on the whole picture, not just one person's personal experience. A negative review here or there won't make a bit of difference.

BTW, I'm not bashing you. But try to take a deep breath. Everyone's entitled to lose their cool now and then. Hope you can take it in stride and you'll be fine.

Cici: I can't speak for the others here, but the comments of the client in the review you're talking about would NOT have stopped me from seeing you. But this response might.

I'm not saying that you don't or shouldn't have a right to make a reply. I'm on your side as far as that goes. I think more information is always better than less. But the WAY you present yourself here seems to be hostile and out of proportion to the comments that the client made, and tends to play into the client's comments about you.

I'm sure it's hard to do, but providers just need to accept that they won't be everyone's cup of tea, and realize that reviews come and go, and that we make up our minds based on the whole picture, not just one person's personal experience. A negative review here or there won't make a bit of difference.

BTW, I'm not bashing you. But try to take a deep breath. Everyone's entitled to lose their cool now and then. Hope you can take it in stride and you'll be fine. Originally Posted by Muffrider

Ok well I'm not being hostile but there is more to the story than what I posted I could of aired it all out but didn't..I respect your input very much..But like I said I always am polite and keep to myself never say anything..I have had a bad review before no biggie one bad one out of 20 or more good reviews no sweat but this review gets me a little mad considering how the appt went down..And what truly took place..Like I said I wish us providers could chime in and put in our 2 cents..thats all...

Did she get access to BCD comments?

To expect ANYTHING extra will always lead to disappointment if nothing extra is offered. Remember YMMV and what is available to one person is NOT always available to all. We all offer different personalities and attitudes. The first time you see a lady and you are comfortable and enjoying each other's company a polite question regarding the rules may be appropriiate. Don't assume anything and enjoy the time you are there if you stay. A negative review because the extras weren't available I feel is unfair. Don't get the wrong idea bad service, poor attitudes, bad hygene should have a negative review,but that should be obvious within a few seconds after entering the room and you have time to leave before dropping your bucks or anything else. Always remember if you don't like the taste of the tea drink elsewhere next time.

Did she get access to BCD comments? Originally Posted by trynagetlaid

I don't think there is any question about that.
CiCi, never met you babe, but I can tell you this. In so many of your reviews the general tone seems to be you are bossy and yes, way too many rules. Personally, I think you are a pretty hot woman (in the good way) but that "general tone" has kept me from seeing you.
I understand you feel the need to blow some steam off and rant alittle, but I doubt this will aid in that opinion expressed in alot of reviews of you. I do sincerly wish you the best though...

I don't think there is any question about that.
CiCi, never met you babe, but I can tell you this. In so many of your reviews the general tone seems to be you are bossy and yes, way too many rules. Personally, I think you are a pretty hot woman (in the good way) but that "general tone" has kept me from seeing you.
I understand you feel the need to blow some steam off and rant alittle, but I doubt this will aid in that opinion expressed in alot of reviews of you. I do sincerly wish you the best though... Originally Posted by JS42

I do not feel that I come off bossy now if a client is pushy and rude I do feel the need to take back control..I have a lot of regulars who will agree i am always sweet and considerate..Now if I have upset anyone made them feel as if I am being bossy then please let me know i am not meaning to be that way at all..But please remember your mood with a provider sets the tone for the appt..Walk in with a smile be happy and treat her as if she is the girl of your fantasy..I have no problem with making up appts if I upset anyone I always want them to be happy..I never want to them to think otherwise bad of me so i always offer to make up for anything they feel went wrong or to show them the time of their life..I do not want this thread to upset anyone but I just felt the need to address a few things that is all...

...Now when you come to see a provider you pay up front for her time...... Originally Posted by bustycici

the review said session was 45. Did he pay for 45 or 60?

Lessons learned:

If you (the hobbyist) have certain expectations going into a session, then be man enough to talk them out with the lady first and get everything straight up front. Or, if you haven't talked them out, then don't whine about it later when she politely tells you that she doesn't want to engage in certain acts.

As for the ladies, it's not the end of the world if you and a hobbyist don't have chemistry and he writes a negative review.

the review said session was 45. Did he pay for 45 or 60? Originally Posted by i812-)

I will PM you the info on that

Lessons learned:

If you (the hobbyist) have certain expectations going into a session, then be man enough to talk them out with the lady first and get everything straight up front. Originally Posted by Muffrider

The problem with that though, is most providers DO NOT want you asking any of those type of questions beforehand. Now if you are talking about asking once there, I can understand that, but if she doesn't provide what you are looking for, it has been a totally waste of time for both. That's why reviews (imho) are so essential. For me, that is the deciding factor on who I see, as it gives me a very good idea on her attitude, and activities she offers.

Side Note: CiCi, just so you know, I wasn't attempting to bash you in any way, just trying to help out and give you the heads up...

The problem with that though, is most providers DO NOT want you asking any of those type of questions beforehand. Now if you are talking about asking once there, I can understand that, but if she doesn't provide what you are looking for, it has been a totally waste of time for both. That's why reviews (imho) are so essential. For me, that is the deciding factor on who I see, as it gives me a very good idea on her attitude, and activities she offers.

Side Note: CiCi, just so you know, I wasn't attempting to bash you in any way, just trying to help out and give you the heads up... Originally Posted by JS42

I do not think you werr bashing me at all hun I just felt the need to clarify that "bossy" statement...I always appreciate the criticism ..no hard feelings at all

The problem with that though, is most providers DO NOT want you asking any of those type of questions beforehand. Now if you are talking about asking once there, I can understand that, but if she doesn't provide what you are looking for, it has been a totally waste of time for both. Originally Posted by JS42

Very true JS. Also true about the utility of reviews. But even with reviews, sometimes YMMV.

Unfortunately, given the nature of the arrangement there's no perfect way to ensure that no one wastes his/her time or that no one is disappointed because of dashed expectations. Such is the nature of human contact. It's messy. All we can do is research, write reviews, and ask some questions.

Isn't a VP getting BCD comments against the rules?