I'm not a fan of TV in the bedroom. There are only two things I want to do in the bed, sleep and sex.
Asking for a musical preference is nice or have a type of music playing to set the tone of how the provider is feeling or how she wants to be treated, but make sure it's soft enough to hear each others moans of passion or shouts of ecstasy.
- Fast and hard - "treat me like a slut" with NIN - Closer

- Slow and sensual - "treat me like a lady" with Barry White or Sinatra
Or any variation of the above using different genres, Chris Isaac, Aerosmith, Faith Hill, from rock ballads to country crooners to old school R&B.