a review on being treated with respect

I better go to bed before I get into any trouble

Good night Originally Posted by Becky

The night is young and you are a good girl, not a nice girl

Actually the things I would change wouldn't change the outcome of my life.

I simply wouldn't have put up with some of the situations I had, because everyone around me said this was a shallow empty world and there wasn't more to be expected. Had I known there was hope for a greater sense of respect and dignity, where I could feel fondness for the men I bedded, I would have lived with less and waited patiently until I developed a kinder clientele.

I would prefer to be friends with the men I have sex with - whether casual or partner. The two are not exclusive, and when combined make for much better sex. I can understand a familial type of bond being awkward though. Originally Posted by Lauren Summerhill

I wholeheartedly concur. Regardless of the context within which intimacy occurs between a man and a woman, or the honorarium associated with it, genuine kindness, gentleness and sensitivity are never inappropriate and, in fact, contribute greatly to the mutual objective of experiencing as much pleasure as two people can possibly achieve.

LOL, Ed has been saving up forever to buy a pair. Now if Ed believes that Sis has his pair of balls he may just end up finishing the job that Lassies evil twin had started many years ago. Originally Posted by Becky

Before or after you have your way with him? Originally Posted by discreetgent

During Originally Posted by Becky

Damn, thought "sub" was how you rolled. Didn't realize it was JUST a diversion....

OK if Ed & I just work something out on the side ahead of time so nobody gets any surprises??

I better go to bed before I get into any trouble

Good night Originally Posted by Becky

“Lay on, Macduff, and damned be him who first cries ‘Hold! enough!’”

“Lay on, Macduff, and damned be him who first cries ‘Hold! enough!’” Originally Posted by Sisyphus

For what Ed has in mind wouldn't

Macbeth Act 2 Scene 1 be more appropriate?

"Is this a dagger which I see before me,
The handle toward my hand? Come, let me clutch thee. "

For what Ed has in mind wouldn't

Macbeth Act 2 Scene 1 be more appropriate?

"Is this a dagger which I see before me,
The handle toward my hand? Come, let me clutch thee. " Originally Posted by discreetgent

If it read, "fangs", perhaps...or canine teeth. But that's a b***h to spit out in iambic pentameter...

How about

"Is this a cuspid which I see before me
The canine toward my balls? come let me bite thee"

SR is in my neighborhood right now, but he is two hours away in Sonoma otherwise he would have been taking a walk with me , and Ed this week. Originally Posted by Becky

Dear Edward,
Please tell Becky that the pedal on the *right* side of her car makes it GO! Please tell her to use said pedal. It took me about an hour to go from your neighborhood to where I am staying. Tell her she'll be against traffic. Even though that is an oxymoron in the San Fran area.

For the audience here I am truly disappointed that Becky, Ed and I may not meet. So near and yet so far. Two hours?: piffle.

How about

"Is this a cuspid which I see before me
The canine toward my balls? come let me bite thee" Originally Posted by discreetgent

I won't even clap those out...I'll take your word for it!!!

Exactly...once I know you through this community as a friend, it seems strange to bend ya over and bone ya. Originally Posted by WTF

Not so much.

Not so much. Originally Posted by pjorourke

Different dtrokes for different folks

You guys are hilarious.

What a threadjack.

I better go to bed before I get into any trouble

Good night Originally Posted by Becky

I thought that was where you usually GOT in trouble.

Damn, thought "sub" was how you rolled. Didn't realize it was JUST a diversion....
Originally Posted by Sisyphus

We subs do enjoy some violence even when it is not always directed at us.As long as Edward does not listen to WTF I have faith that we will live to see another day.

How about

"Is this a cuspid which I see before me
The canine toward my balls? come let me bite thee" Originally Posted by discreetgent

LOLEd gives it four paws up.

Dear Edward,
Please tell Becky that the pedal on the *right* side of her car makes it GO! Please tell her to use said pedal. It took me about an hour to go from your neighborhood to where I am staying. Tell her she'll be against traffic. Even though that is an oxymoron in the San Fran area.

For the audience here I am truly disappointed that Becky, Ed and I may not meet. So near and yet so far. Two hours?: piffle. Originally Posted by SR Only

How fast do you drive SR ??? Whenever I have gone to Sonoma it takes nearly two hours from my home. I guess I am just not a very agressive driver. Cars scare me I am almost always the slowest one on the road.

So are you enjoying the weather yet? I told you to bring a sweater

I agree there are some men that really know how to make a woman feel appreciated, cared for, like an equal, embracing their humanity. It's a wonderful feeling.

Over the years I have worked hard to show my appreciation to such gentlemen in personalized ways. Show caring when they have a bad day, keep in touch just because they're awesome people, not because I'm hoping for another date, open up a little and allow myself to be vulnerable with them. Give them consideration when they need it. It's important they know how much their emotional generosity and kindness means. When they feel appreciated, I find they stick around.

Over time I found enough of those gentlemen, that I can afford to say no to them men who lust, but don't actually give a damn. It took nearly five years to find enough gems, but once I had reached that point, they totally changed how I experienced Companionship and day to day life. I now approach this world from the view that I am carefully looking for that kind of gentlemen companion, so that I can devote a great deal of energy to them, and surround myself with warm hearts, safe arms and beautiful souls.

I hope you find more, I hope your career is one day filled with them. Originally Posted by Lauren Summerhill

+ a bunch

LOLEd gives it four paws up. Originally Posted by Becky

That is a good start