Who and who not to see

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Sometimes I'm on top of emails, pm's , and voicemails...and then on occasion I will 'drop the ball'. Usually it's because I'm too busy and trying to coordinate schedules before I can commit.


Also, please be specific in Emails..." hey girl are you around?" will go unanswered. That just turns into a time wasting back and forth that usually doesn't lead anywhere. If you have P411, then please email a request via the site. It's easier, faster and I'm going to ask you to do it anyway.

I have a bad habit of putting the fun friendly, "just want to say hi" emails in a special folder. I like to reply to those when I can compose a thoughtful and personal message. I like when people email just to shoot the breeze or tell me something funny...but I might not respond in a timely manner.

I'm sure I'm not the only one who feels this way. Hope it helps the new guys.
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Sometimes I'm on top of emails, pm's , and voicemails...and then on occasion I will 'drop the ball'. Usually it's because I'm too busy and trying to coordinate schedules before I can commit.


Also, please be specific in Emails..." hey girl are you around?" will go unanswered. That just turns into a time wasting back and forth that usually doesn't lead anywhere. If you have P411, then please email a request via the site. It's easier, faster and I'm going to ask you to do it anyway.

I have a bad habit of putting the fun friendly, "just want to say hi" emails in a special folder. I like to reply to those when I can compose a thoughtful and personal message. I like when people email just to shoot the breeze or tell me something funny...but I might not respond in a timely manner.

I'm sure I'm not the only one who feels this way. Hope it helps the new guys. Originally Posted by Nicole Preston

Agreed get to the point in the email. What time(s) you were thinking of meeting up and for how long.
  • Holly
  • 02-03-2010, 02:59 PM
Screening can be difficult with newbies but if you are willing to give up lots of personal employment info it can be done.

I say move on and email me ;-)
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Holly, I would be happy just washing your backside...nice and slowww.
Absolutely have gotten that feeling twice. ... Way I look at it, for whatever reason any provider doesn't want to see me she's doing me a favor because I wasn't gonna have a good time anyway. Originally Posted by Gonzo DFW
You are a very smart man. If there's a reason a lady doesn't want to meet with someone (indicated either by lack of response or a "thanks but no thanks" reply), it's in the gentleman's best interest not to continue pursuit. He should shrug it off and move on to someone who's delighted at the idea of seeing him.
It happens to all of us at one time or another.....even to us Dicks!
I just thought I would ask, thought maybe I had broken some Code of Conduct or something... Respect the COC

It's cool though... no skin off my teeth



Screening can be difficult with newbies but if you are willing to give up lots of personal employment info it can be done.

I say move on and email me ;-) Originally Posted by Holly
You should have a talk with the person that cropped your wings outta your avatar...

My employment info?

I'm one of the side show acts for Barnum&Bailey does that count???
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  • jfred
  • 02-04-2010, 01:12 PM
...ever been blown off or got the vibe that a provider wouldn't see you after you contacted them?... Originally Posted by technicallygeek
No. But I'd say in your case it's a relevant measure of your worth as a person.

If you start to feel better about yourself just look in the mirror and repeat this thoughtfully three times: "Hookers do not return my phone calls."
No. But I'd say in your case it's a relevant measure of your worth as a person.

If you start to feel better about yourself just look in the mirror and repeat this thoughtfully three times: "Hookers do not return my phone calls." Originally Posted by jfred

Words of wisdom from a feeble mind who considers you ladies 'hookers'.
The ladies who responded to this thread so far are all "escorts" and generally do quite well managing the real "office work" in their lives. `

I think one of the reason guys are being a little more vocal is the simple fact that the "street corner" has has a larger presence now in cyber space and we have a lot more "hookers" now than "escorts". I guess they are trying to educate the new girls about what we prefer.

To the "escorts" out there. This generally does not apply to you. We also have a lot more guys now and I suspect on average the disposable income the of typical online client may be lower than it was during the first few years of escort review/discussion boards. There is a place here for them, also.

We all like different things. Some of us enjoy the entire medley of possibilities presented to us.

The new ones will figure out the protocols, procedures, and expectations and as long as discussion is allowed, men and women will continue to share their likes and dislikes about each other on these boards.





Words of wisdom from a feeble mind who considers you ladies 'hookers'. Originally Posted by technicallygeek
Obviously you have not been reading Jfred's posts for very long. He has a dry sense of humor and he was not attacking you personally. Why don't you save personal insult's for PM's and not public discussion? Some of us have grown weary of them over the years.
My apologies, my reply had a dry tone as well.
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My apologies, my reply had a dry tone as well. Originally Posted by technicallygeek
Yep...drier than a popcorn fart!!!

Now can we just all learn how to live together? kumbayaaaaaaaa
My bad I honestly didn't take the comment personal I just thought it was distasteful to make a blanket statement in regards to the ladies within the forum as 'hookers'. With CPI3000's explanation I understand the use of 'hooker'. After all that was the reason I registered, for a better class of NSA lady friends then a street walker.

I'm not one to make waves my apologies if thats what I have inadvertently done. I'm in front of the camp fire FTWOG tell us a ghost story
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I'm in front of the camp fire FTWOG tell us a ghost story
Originally Posted by technicallygeek
No ghost stories!!! Get out and find some ladies and I want a full report on my desk tomorrow morning. 8 am sharp!!!!!
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I thank sometimes a potential client sees a provider as a commodity and not a real person. On the other hand, sometimes persistance pays off but with mature patients....These women are not BK or Dominos......