Regarding Jasper's review

So you're saying that the REALLY good providers only open their mouth for....

I quess you don't have to have an IQ, or an opinion, for that, huh?
Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

FIH, your posts are always either humorous or insightful but if you feel the need to just I think we can work something out

nevermind

"to go where one should not GO"

BBFS?

Fancy and all the ladies:
Most guys as you know have ADD and not good listeners. Hence, they don't read all the long ass threads. They just see drama.
Unfair as it would sound, they just assume shit happens. Starting shit about shit happenning is usually not beneficial .
Like any other line of business. You have to chose your battles. If you fight everyone and rent a room in human resources, you will be labelled The Trouble Child.
You can't claim every ounce of justice due to you.
I am not minimizing the issue the thread starter is talking about but there is always two side to the story and men don't pay attention to all details. Forget about the ones posting here. Those are the ones you see reading and paying attention to some or all things here. There are many who just see the providers' name and the thread and the frequency of them.
One bad review does not make or break anyone just as one good one won't.
We are not stupid. Shit happens. Next.
That is really what the other side of the argument is. Is it fair? No. An emphatic no. Do people pay attention to even whom the hell are they voting for president ? Never. Some do but most don't.

nevermind Originally Posted by Sensual Sophia

FWIW, I thought that it was an outstanding post.

well i dont know about "outstanding", a little disturbing maybe

FIH, your posts are always either humorous or insightful but if you feel the need to just I think we can work something out Originally Posted by boardman

Call me.

FWIW, I thought that it was an outstanding post. Originally Posted by SofaKingFun

I concur.

Call me. Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

You could haver PMed him.
Why do you have to make others jealous?

You could haver PMed him.
Why do you have to make others jealous? Originally Posted by Htowner

This is not aimed at NJ or anyone posting in this thread except in the most general terms.

Even the board favorites have bad sessions, they may or may not be posted reviews but they happen. We all know it (or should) trying to prove that it didn't happen or parse what or where it went wrong is a waste of time on the best day. More often a complete drama train wreck. But don't we all really want to see those providers that care enough about what they do to try.

A close friend saw one of my ATFs and she mentioned later that it hadn't seemed to go well, talked to him and always the gentleman he said it was fine. Years later they both were more honest, it was a disaster. Really great guy, truly wonderful woman with tons of outstanding reviews. Put them together and complete lack of bliss.

A good review or ten isn't an ironclad guarantee that you will be in provider nirvana, follow posters and reviewers that have similar tastes and accept the fact that sometimes it will just not be that dream session.

Does that mean that if you have a bad time you shouldn't post about it, of course not. The reflection of that, is my long held belief that the best providers might be a little reality challenged.

Does that mean that if you have a bad time you shouldn't post about it, of course not. The reflection of that, is my long held belief that the best provers might be a little reality challenged. Originally Posted by Wayward

Can you explain what you mean by this? Particularly the last sentence?

Sure beautiful, to be really outstanding at this thing of ours, it does not hurt to have a less than firm grip on normal reality. I'm not talking about clinical insanity ("never mind" that can be great too) but the ability to slip into a rich fantasy world completely.

Originally Posted by Htowner

Your dogma is no match for my karma.