Men who pay for sex are desperate losers!!!!

I love all you guys

In this hobby we should have a National Hump Day. All AFT providers give there ATF a free hump day!!! That way we have one day we don't pay. Hell I would take off work for that day.

In this hobby we should have a National Hump Day. All AFT providers give there ATF a free hump day!!! That way we have one day we don't pay. Hell I would take off work for that day. Originally Posted by rrabbit6926

Wait... why did I laugh so hard just now? lol!!

Hey Naomi,

That was a hot review I read on you .

Hey Naomi,

That was a hot review I read on you . Originally Posted by rrabbit6926

So I hear I'm pretty excited! Thank you!

Personally, I've never given a flying f**k what people who don't know me think. Originally Posted by ChrisM

+1

well the way i see it, some of the guys who are in this bizz do so becuase of the lack of intamacy they get from their SO or wife. alot of married men have to deal with "maybe next time honey" from their wives and have no choice but to hobby, i dont blame them for that. also i see wat you're saying but i just wish ppl could stop assuming becuase a guy hobbies he's a loser or cant get a girl. some of the guys here are just like the men that u speak of or probaly dont have time to date so they see a provider. i just think its dumb for the civil folks to judge the ppl who hobby. Originally Posted by genericmale

While I agree strongly with many of your points and don't blame men for hobbying either, I do not agree that grown men aren't responsible for their own choices.

I was introduced to the Hobby by a coworker who was single. He was also the one who helped me find out my wife was cheating on me with a younger guy. Which blew my mind as I was in far better shape than this kid too and, if she is to be believed, packed a better package...guess he was more affectionate. A 5 day a week 12 hour a day job that gives someone everything they need leave little time. Bitter party of one or...send myself direction else where.

Variety, NSA, little drama...gotta love it. I have met some wonderful ladies here and yes enjoyed many a "non sex" moment. My buddy got all wrapped up and fell in love with one and that is when the drama kicked in.

Just be safe and remember...it is what it is.

I never, ever, ever, had trouble with women. I have always been SMOOTH. The reason I entered the hobby is for one I'm a man slut, and for two it takes time to convince a got it going on civilian into the bed, while a provider is a phone call away.
Like most everything else in life, time, convenience, and bargains.

Well said LR. Only your beauty surpasses your wisdom.

Tigerbeemer

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They are normally not career hobbyists on the boards all the time, don't gripe about every little thing or make demands that are not realistic, and see this business for what it is....a business! They are humble, hard working men who are just looking for a little fun now and then with NSA, and don't come with all the drama and bs.

Actually, I am nothing special in the looks department but I do keep you hella entertained lol.

I am going to have to take back what I said about Texas....too many of you have dismissed those preconceived notions that I once had.

About a year ago I had this guy contact me from BP and after lots of emails he told me there was no way he would every pay for sex with a whore (I cleaned his wording up) and how he could just to go a bar and pick up a woman.

Well, fast forward to now, he emailed me again recently forgetting our past emails. I reminded him and he said that he did find a "free" woman, but when he ended it, she told his wife.

So "free" does have a cost.

We all have our reasons for why we are here and why we do this, provider and hobbyist alike. There isn't a single person out there, man or woman that can't find someone they wanna be with. We see this everyday when we see a couple together and ask ourselves, "how in the world did he/she find them". If you have the confinfence in yourself to do so then you will, if you don't you won't. Doesn't mean you can't, just means you choose the easier route than the harder route. I have numerous people that know that I do this and are not judgmental of my choices. Now they will hold me accountable, such as spending more than I should or something like that but they are not condemning me. That is not for them to do. We are not put on this earth to judge other people....

I could care less what a person like that thinks of me.....

I am going to have to take back what I said about Texas....too many of you have dismissed those preconceived notions that I once had. Originally Posted by London Rayne

Looks like I'm going to have to work harder...

also what i hate is how civil women keep using their feminist agendas to say "oh men who use escorts are selfish ppl who hate women and see them as sex objects" wtf? how r we showing hatred towards women? we are simply just meeting new ppl, whats the big deal? i guess their mad becuase their bfs are tired and bored of relationships and are seeking variety of women from hobbying. Originally Posted by genericmale

Many people assume that escorting is a job like their job, and that escorts have pimps who force them to suck ass (literally) for anyone who pays. Explain to them that you see independent women who screen for compatable clients and have firm boundaries about activities they aren't comfortable with.