Was there ever a time when John's had more control of the menu and the price?

Fancyinheels's Avatar
...Question for the ladies: When you know that you have not given your best because of whatever reason, and you knew you were not up to it prior to the session, yet you go forward ... what do you do? Take the full donation? Do you apologize and offer a discount? Do you say sorry, but you'll make it up next time? Originally Posted by StinkyFingers

If I know I am not up to seeing a person, I try to cancel with as much notice as possible and offer them extra time or a discount upon rescheduling. Sometimes that becomes problematical if time is short and I've developed a tummy ache, headache, gotten the curse back when she use to visit unexpectedly, or, in one case, the frigging stairs over my incall fell down during a construction accident. I posted about that and actually took a lot of heat for not crawling over the rubble to make it out to a motel. (Really, guys?) I ended up driving hours in a rainstorm another day to make it up to him AND gave him a big rate break.

I have apologized and given money back when I thought that things didn't go well and felt it was my fault, but that's relative and rare. Let's be fair on both sides. How many fellows have gone through with sessions KNOWING that they had a cold (and gave it to the lady), had been drinking too much, eaten a huge meal right beforehand, were too tired, too preoccupied with work or personal issues, were taking inhibitive medication, couldn't get fully "interested" as a result and then were ticked off when the provider, after trying her best to the point of exhaustion, couldn't raise the dead?
dearhunter's Avatar
And you whores get all worked up over "whale wars"...........too fucking funny.
AlexisMoore's Avatar
Are we still entertaining "Stupid" today? This guy 'StickyFingers" has lost his mind!! And yet, some provider who has not read board will see him. And he will screw her over...smh
I hope every girl reads this post...and quits feeding the troll...
boardman's Avatar
Are we still entertaining "Stupid" today? Originally Posted by AlexisMoore
Well, It is February 403st, 2014. What do you thinck?
Are we still entertaining "Stupid" today? This guy 'StickyFingers" has lost his mind!!... Originally Posted by AlexisMoore
Me thincks this thread has evolved into another "who's a dumbass" thread.
Just as water seeks its own level, nature abhors a vacuum. Things just gravitate in that direction.
It is February 403st after all. lol
JustMeCLTXGG's Avatar
Not analogous: Your fault for ordering more than you could eat to begin with. Originally Posted by StinkyFingers
uh? yeah nice defense. you brought up food and comparitive values. which don't compare because one is for a physical item or activity and the other is for time.

Analogy: You go to a restaurant and order a meal, but they forget to bring one of you side dishes. You're enjoying your meal and you don't notice that they forgot until you're eating dessert. Do you pay for the forgotten side dish? Originally Posted by StinkyFingers
Of course it works! Next time, accidentally-on-purpose, leave out one of the agreed upon activities and casually mention it at the end of your session as you're getting dressed. Say how much you were really looking forward to that particular activity and suggest that you think perhaps a discount is appropriate.

Works like magic! Everyone desires to be fair. Originally Posted by StinkyFingers
and there is another failure at trying to slant things in your favor. you see where you brought up the failure yourself? you decided the analogy which doesn't even work. I was pointing it out. try again. it is becoming more clear how you think though.

Have you never had a session where the Provider talked excessively, wasted time, was tired or mentally preoccupied and performance was lackluster, subpar, etc.? Originally Posted by StinkyFingers
I've had sessions where I've talked excessively. so far I've been lucky and the girls didn't penalize for me it either. I've even had a session I joked with about activities beforehand and hell, the girl went for it to make it happen.

I do understand the question as I have had one lackluster, subpar, false advertising, mentally preoccupied with ripping me off session which actually lead me to creating my account here. I can thank playing with BP for that. I can also assure you I wasn't offered any discount or cash back. lol

but regardless of BP, you do understand YMMV don't you? not all people will click with each other even if you are both in the best states mentally. if you don't understand that you have some veil of idealism or ignorance clouding your judgement. from your tactics and perceived attitude here I'd say you have trouble clicking with anyone mentally and experience YMMV often.

FYI, I have come across the occasional showcase/ad with the money back guarantee. for your style/mentality these girls sound right up your alley.
LexusLover's Avatar
...but regardless of BP, you do understand YMMV don't you? not all people will click with each other even if you are both in the best states mentally. ...... Originally Posted by JustMeCLTXGG
Is that like whining about not getting TUMA on the menu....

.................. with toilet paper stuck in your ass crack?

Sorry to digress.
JustMeCLTXGG's Avatar
Is that like whining about not getting TUMA on the menu....

.................. with toilet paper stuck in your ass crack?

Sorry to digress. Originally Posted by LexusLover
ha, ha! fine extreme example.

however if your best state mentally leaves you with toliet paper stuck in your ass crack I'd say the bar is pretty low.

and gross!
uh? yeah nice defense. you brought up food and comparitive values. which don't compare because one is for a physical item or activity and the other is for time.




and there is another failure at trying to slant things in your favor. you see where you brought up the failure yourself? you decided the analogy which doesn't even work. I was pointing it out. try again. it is becoming more clear how you think though.


I've had sessions where I've talked excessively. so far I've been lucky and the girls didn't penalize for me it either. I've even had a session I joked with about activities beforehand and hell, the girl went for it to make it happen.

I do understand the question as I have had one lackluster, subpar, false advertising, mentally preoccupied with ripping me off session which actually lead me to creating my account here. I can thank playing with BP for that. I can also assure you I wasn't offered any discount or cash back. lol

but regardless of BP, you do understand YMMV don't you? not all people will click with each other even if you are both in the best states mentally. if you don't understand that you have some veil of idealism or ignorance clouding your judgement. from your tactics and perceived attitude here I'd say you have trouble clicking with anyone mentally and experience YMMV often.

FYI, I have come across the occasional showcase/ad with the money back guarantee. for your style/mentality these girls sound right up your alley. Originally Posted by JustMeCLTXGG
Fail. You're paying for activities delivered within a defined timeframe.
JustMeCLTXGG's Avatar
Fail. You're paying for activities delivered within a defined timeframe. Originally Posted by StinkyFingers
slant failure again.

you're paying for a time frame. whatever happens in that time frame is between two consenting adults. ha! if you can't get any extra activities done (whatever they are) in that timeframe that's how the cookie crumbles. I believe it is understood that at a minimum one activity is expected to occur.

now if you don't get ANY activities done, especially the major understood activity, then you might have something to sqwuak about. also in cases where the girl is the cause for you to have 5 minutes to do any activities, and she's figuratively beating you with a horse whip telling you to hurry, as noted in another thread. I think it's safe to say this doesn't seem to be what you were originally speaking of.
LexusLover's Avatar
You're paying for activities delivered within a defined timeframe. Originally Posted by StinkyFingers
This isn't a trick question ... or a smartass one.

Have you ever seen a provider's ad broken down like a restaurant menu with prices beside each activity listed on the menu under a time category like you might see on the restaurant menu under "Beef" or "Poultry" or "Appetizers"?

Example just to be clear:

30 minute session:
Just talking ................ $50
CBJ ............................$2 5
BBBJ ..........................$35
Mish .......................... $60
K9 ............................ $55
DFK ...........................$10
TUMA ...................Not Offered (with toilet paper in your ass crack).

etc IJA ...

(And out of some common sense .. the prices and menu may differ).
JustMeCLTXGG's Avatar
pretty sure an ad like that would be asking for trouble!

but good way to make the point. edit: (removed answer since it wasn't directed at me and as to not give the answer away)

and again this brings me to wondering about a previous question I had. can't even remember if it was this thread or another one.
This brings me to wondering about a previous question I had. can't even remember if it was this thread or another one. Originally Posted by JustMeCLTXGG
Funny how they all blend together ain't it? What the hell was the original topic anyway?
JustMeCLTXGG's Avatar
Funny how they all blend together ain't it? What the hell was the original topic anyway? Originally Posted by H.Hardhat
that is funny. and I certainly didn't feel like browsing around to see if this was the right thread. I think it is maybe.


I believe we're sorta still on topic even with the magic sidetrack. more like a split level section in the path. still pertains to menu control and price right?
LexusLover's Avatar
pretty sure an ad like that would be asking for trouble! Originally Posted by JustMeCLTXGG
....and inconsistent with the fee is for "time and companionship ONLY" ads.