I don't doubt that you get a lot of them. But how many is "a lot"? And I would expect, the BBFS PMs you get are almost exclusively from guys who are looking, not ladies who are offering.
Does it surprise me that there are a significant number of ego-centric guys who:
(1) think they have zero responsibility for pregnancies in either professional or personal relationships
(2) will lie through their teeth and say anything they think will get them BBFS
(3) will claim to be clean even when they have no idea about the truth (or KNOW they are not clean, but they "look clean")
(4) will try to clandestinely remove the condom
(5) brag that they got XXX to BB them whether she did or not (the HS brag fest)
No, it doesn't surprise me at all. There was a review (on TER) that a lady did BBFS and BB anal with a guy. She objected to the review, saying she did not, and that she didn't even see him as he claimed (she was actually with me in a different city the entire week is supposedly happened, and I sent a note to TER confirming her claim). But the review stayed because she couldn't "prove" the session and activities didn't happen. I have no idea how someone is supposed to do that to their satisfaction.
Sure it does happen--but no, I don't automatically believe what guys say about BB.
Originally Posted by Old-T
1. I don't believe that 50 50 responsibility
2.Nope don't lie just am honest with them and I don't fuck a girl raw on the first time, matter of a fact I need to be comfy asses the situation and make a decision that's life.
3.I get tested every 3 months, am clean have never caught anything thank goodness. actually I have probably gone raw with more girls outside the hobby then inside the hobby to be honest with you. I also think guys or gals saying bbbj is ok but critize bbbfs are full of shit and shouldn't bother in the argument.
4.lol really? Ive never done this fuck never thought of that, why would I do that hmm not my thing. do guys really do this?? damn nuts. ok got me on that one I guess wasn't aware that a common practice of johns is to do that. damn no good.
always should be consensual in my eyes
5.Nope why would I want to brag? Why tell others who I bb or not, hmmm first off the girl doesn't want it out there in the public forum or in the review, secondly why would I get more traffic to the girl doing bbbfs if im doing her bbbfs.. Im not buying that one for me but yes others do I guess,
I will put it out there to the boys the girls that offer it to me that I refused.
As for the pms about it, probably adds up to 3 a week maybe with questions about different girls and whos doing raw or who they heard is doing it. sometimes I know sometimes I don't.
Again I have fucked more girls raw outside the hobby than inside the hobby and its not a big number at all, but ive been asked in the hobby shit too many times where I said no to fuck raw.
Good thread I like it