Why are you all so angry?

almostfamous
I totally agree with you. I have two rules:
1) Be a gentleman. I want to be able to have repeat visits if I like the lady.
2) Make sure the lady never has a reason to feel unsafe with me.

I have found that most of my repeat ladies extend me extra courtesies as a result.
This is still a people business / hobby.

AF - What a great post and most heartwarming :-)
It's so good to know ... you nice guys still exist and participate on this board ...

Originally Posted by VIP Mya Michelle
LOl at BLM being Banned

Lucas McCain
Oh, the "Lol" irony with that one.

Very much agree ...

Originally Posted by Ssjdawg

Whelp I just got a warning. Let me re word what I said: ladies….you’re being outted, and it’s allowed as long as y’all can’t see it.

Whelp I just got a warning. Let me re word what I said: ladies….you’re being outted, and it’s allowed as long as y’all can’t see it. Originally Posted by Ssjdawg

According to the rules of this site, I do not believe outing is allowed anywhere on the internet and beyond, private or public. If you think any member here is outed, all you have to to do send proof of the outing to the mods and the action is very swift at the request of the outed member, to guest his/her account. If there is proof that can be tied that another member here did the outing, then that member is banned from here.

What I would like to see happen is, for the guys who got outed by providers on OH2, get those links sent to a mod here (I think there are is a female mod or two on staff here that can access and view those links) by a provider who has the access to the ladies area over there. If the mods do the right thing, a number of ladies will be banned from here.

Pics, physical description of her, giving intel on the TCB/BCD of a provider and posting reviews of providers with no review policies is not outing her at all on this site. Other than posting real name, place of employment, home address or something along those lines, providers are not outed.

you’re being outted, and it’s allowed as long as y’all can’t see it. Originally Posted by Ssjdawg

IDK specifically if what I'm about to say is related to what you are referencing specifically, but...


On another well known site, there was a lady's outing that was posted and passed around for days. The guys laughed, joked, took their shots, etc and it just went on. Original post was finally edited out (4 days later) but context and the quotes in the comments that still remain still paint the picture. Some of the comments I speak of were made by the very same dudes that will absolutely lose their own fecal matter in their drawers should a lady post like a cashapp tag, photo or a phone number of a dude. But a lady gets popped for a non hobby related charge or whatever then all the boys got jokes and will keep the fires burnin without hesitation. Hypocrisy is strong within the hobby..

But, Bryan, are you saying that’s being done on this site? I’m unaware of it and I have PA that Ssjdawg doesn’t have. You do, too. I believe if you were aware such a thing is going on you would be hitting the RTM button, as would I.

On both OH2 (where what you described occurred) and this site, the ownership looks unkindly to ladies’ RW information being splashed all over the men’s areas when the lady isn’t responsible for that breach herself. They will quickly remove it and sanction the offending member(s). If Ssjdawg has information to the contrary of a situation that is currently occurring, I’d be happy to report it if for some reason he’s unable.

What I would like to see happen is, for the guys who got outed by providers on OH2, get those links sent to a mod here (I think there are is a female mod or two on staff here that can access and view those links) by a provider who has the access to the ladies area over there. If the mods do the right thing, a number of ladies will be banned from here. Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

The Eccie Staff expends a large number of hours dealing with the issues that occur here on a daily basis.

Additionally, Eccie IS NOT the Hobby Police.

The transgressions or Violations of Eccie's Guidelines; by an Eccie Member, on another site should be reported to the Staff of the other site and resolved there.

Eccie can only have a direct impact on issues that occur within the confines of their own domain.

Should you wish to act upon your wish, I'm sure that you could find enough investors or have enough of your own Capital to develop and bring to life a Web Site to meet your desire.

Eccie is not the vehicle to fulfill your wish.

But, Bryan, are you saying that’s being done on this site? I’m unaware of it and I have PA that Ssjdawg doesn’t have. You do, too. I believe if you were aware such a thing is going on you would be hitting the RTM button, as would I.

On both OH2 (where what you described occurred) and this site, the ownership looks unkindly to ladies’ RW information being splashed all over the men’s areas when the lady isn’t responsible for that breach herself. They will quickly remove it and sanction the offending member(s). If Ssjdawg has information to the contrary of a situation that is currently occurring, I’d be happy to report it if for some reason he’s unable. Originally Posted by TinMan

I haven't seen anything on eccie that I would categorize as an outing, no. And hell yeah I'd report it if I saw it. The example I'm speaking of was edited shortly before I was verified and able to see it unfold in real time myself. But 4 days and a few pages worth of comments, not exactly "swift" action there.

As far as the comment/implication made by "ssjdawg", I'm not aware of what specifically he is referencing but his comment definitely triggered my memory of the example I am speaking to. Could be a case of ssjdawg mixing what he's seen on different sites, he could be totally pulling things out of the blue or maybe there's something I/we've missed. I can only speak to what I've seen personally..

There are always going to be guys who pull stupid shit like that. It’s been going on since SHMBs have been in existence. Management can’t prevent it, but they sure can make it known they have zero tolerance for it and delete the offending material as soon as they’re notified. I don’t see it as a big problem here since staff is usually Johnny-on-the-spot when it becomes aware of a guideline violation of that sort.

biomed1 +1

Something to remember . . .

#19 - The men and women of our board each have their respective private areas in which secure content is posted and a greater freedom of expression allowed. Each member is responsible for keeping the information in any of the private secure areas (Men's Lounge, Women's Powder Room, The Rest of the Story, posts which have been tagged as private) 100% restricted to the members who are intended to have access to that material. Revealing ANY content which was posted in one of the men's or women's private sections of the board will result in penalty, up to and including loss of your access to these areas. Full cooperation may result in a less severe penalty, and each violation will be handled on a case-by-case basis. Repeated infractions will impact the severity of punishment.

I hit the rtm when I do see it happen and yes it is taken care of but I usually see it days after it happens. Mods and many people will comment on the thread after the outing has taken place. It has NEVER EVER been handled so swiftly like I was in this thread. Nobody gave a damn.


The past case I was specifically alluding to was about a lady’s mugshot which linked to her legal name.

I doubt the ladies give a damn if they get banned from eccie. Why would they care.

Exactly the type of shit I was talking about.

I have received warnings and infractions this morning although I haven’t specifically revealed anything….and all within hours. Let a lady get outted….and it takes days to resolve and the damage is done.

IDK specifically if what I'm about to say is related to what you are referencing specifically, but...


On another well known site, there was a lady's outing that was posted and passed around for days. The guys laughed, joked, took their shots, etc and it just went on. Original post was finally edited out (4 days later) but context and the quotes in the comments that still remain still paint the picture. Some of the comments I speak of were made by the very same dudes that will absolutely lose their own fecal matter in their drawers should a lady post like a cashapp tag, photo or a phone number of a dude. But a lady gets popped for a non hobby related charge or whatever then all the boys got jokes and will keep the fires burnin without hesitation. Hypocrisy is strong within the hobby.. Originally Posted by Bald Bryan

Not eccie staff on behalf of the ladies though

I usually do have PA, nor at the moment obviously. I just haven’t been all into the hobby lately. Just happened to peak in today.

There are always going to be guys who pull stupid shit like that. It’s been going on since SHMBs have been in existence. Management can’t prevent it, but they sure can make it known they have zero tolerance for it and delete the offending material as soon as they’re notified. I don’t see it as a big problem here since staff is usually Johnny-on-the-spot when it becomes aware of a guideline violation of that sort. Originally Posted by TinMan