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While I love date-check I kinda wish we had the ability to add little notes like: This guy needs extra small condoms. You know how they ALL think they need magnums lol Originally Posted by Naomi4u

We don't?????

I love date-check because if a guy ncns you can actually put an alert right on his profile for other women to see. I don't care if it is his FIRST time...fact is he did it, and other women should be able to make up their mind if they want to chance it or not. We certainly don't get that much choice if we screw up ONCE. I don't think that info. should be given a warning without at least making others aware of it.

I love date-check because if a guy ncns you can actually put an alert right on his profile for other women to see. I don't care if it is his FIRST time...fact is he did it, and other women should be able to make up their mind if they want to chance it or not. We certainly don't get that much choice if we screw up ONCE. I don't think that info. should be given a warning without at least making others aware of it. Originally Posted by London Rayne

I could not agree more...... EXCELLENT point! My feelings on this go right down the line.... If it is good for one side, its good for another!

If a gal gets an alert for a NCNS, then I have no problem with it going the other way when a Hobbyist does the same........ Hold everyone to the same standards and accountable for their actions and things will work out just fine!



JaD

Hmmm there was one lady on datecheck that put a DNS alert on a guy that had 4 other ladies highly recommend him. The highly recommends were a bit earlier in his hobbying, her DNS was recent and I took a chance and saw him anyway. He turned out to be VERY fun and damn good looking. Turns out that she put an alert on him because he didn't follow her cancellation policy (he gave her a 3 hour notice and she needed 6 and considered him an NCNS) Yes there are some biatches out there!

Don't get me wrong, I am not saying there are not bogus alerts just as there are fake reviews, but that's up to the next woman to decide if it's bogus or not. The public needs to know that certain hobbyists are inconsistent in how they treat a provider on any given day.

I had a guy ncns me TWICE just because he wanted to play games with someone who told him off, and he had NINE recommends. Guys can be a holes to whomever they choose and angels to another. It does not mean they should not be held accountable for bad behavior with that one girl.

I learned many lessons when booking and without a deposit, I guarantee nothing. I will also not book again with someone who cancels on me unless he is a regular. If he can't give me at least 100 bucks for my travel and hotel which does not even begin to cut it, I don't need his money in the future.

After one I read on Surge oooweeee I'd love to see more lol

YMMV......... Bottom line in this Hobby thing of ours....... One bad review does not a bad provider make, nor an alert/DNS on a hobbyist make a bad one either....... You have to be able to see a greater sample size than one singular event....... There are ALWAYS two sides of the story....... And as in life shit happens......... The smart ones are the ones who can take a collection of information on a particular provider/hobbyist and from that be able to gather a reasonable conclusion as to the worth of him/her...... And even then the YMMV still plays the major roll in it.......


JaD

YMMV......... Bottom line in this Hobby thing of ours....... One bad review does not a bad provider make, nor an alert/DNS on a hobbyist make a bad one either....... You have to be able to see a greater sample size than one singular event....... There are ALWAYS two sides of the story....... And as in life shit happens......... The smart ones are the ones who can take a collection of information on a particular provider/hobbyist and from that be able to gather a reasonable conclusion as to the worth of him/her...... And even then the YMMV still plays the major roll in it.......


JaD Originally Posted by Jusanotherdude

Well said.

Well said. Originally Posted by London Rayne

+1

Providers already comment on reviews and reviewers they disagree with, why not the ones they like? I know it isn't truly a "review" of a client, but if a client posts a review there is no concern about "outing" and if the lady posts positives about the experience, it can only help her business (and his ego).

Regards,

Providers already comment on reviews and reviewers they disagree with, why not the ones they like? I know it isn't truly a "review" of a client, but if a client posts a review there is no concern about "outing" and if the lady posts positives about the experience, it can only help her business (and his ego).

Regards, Originally Posted by Iaintliein

Oh I love this idea.

We actually do have our little secret places where we give the good guys props...and discounts lol.

We actually do have our little secret places where we give the good guys props...and discounts lol. Originally Posted by London Rayne

Dear sweet Ms. Rayne, where might one be able to find these little secret places for positive comments on the guys and these elusive discounts you've eluded too.....not that I'm interested...I'm asking for a friend (ahem).

How a guy reviews a provider may or may not give info about her and her service; whether it is positive, negative or mixed -- It depends on the overall quality of the review. But, oddly enough, it always tends to reveal something of value about the reviewer. Quite a bit depends on what is said, and how it's presented. Often, what can be most interesting or relevant is what's NOT said. The same could be said on the reversal. Roads of communication are rarely, if not almost never, one-ways.

Of course, I'm new to this world. WTF do I know? LOL