What about while you're being, um... ShaggedI like it....What I don't like is the term "making love"<------Cringe-worthy
Just asking Originally Posted by DickEmDown
And don't act like you're all innocent DeD! I know better
Ahhhh yes Ms. RubyRed, I am a Trick...in fact, I like to think of myself as, "The Travelin' Trick" Originally Posted by DickEmDown
That's EXACTLY what we are, so why shouldn't you be able to call us that? These are words, and the only reason that some people think that certain words are "bad" is because they're too weak minded to see past those words and realize that words mean nothing. These lemmings in society have brainwashed us to believe that words are powerful. Words are only powerful if the person hearing those words MAKES them powerful. To label certain words as societally unacceptable is pathetic. Racial epithets, curse words, slurs and anything else are the exact same string of letters put together to form a written or spoken word as anything else, it's only when weak minded people put their own definition on them that they become "bad." Look at the Collins English Dictionary, it's a perfect example of the perpetuation of the insecure person mindset.FYI, some of us arent brainwashed. What i saw in my childhood can affect some of my views..but im going to have to change that if i want to stay in this business for the time being. And not too long ago i was ashamed of myself...Which is why i take offense to some of the words that are said about me behind my back..But why dont yall just come out and tell me the truth to my face..I am just going to keep getting stronger and stronger and the "people" (ahem)..that want to keep expressing themselves any way they please without considering anybody else...well go right ahead. I am not giving anybody power over HOW I THINK. For example..I love my body...and a few people on here made me kind of insecure..until i realized that their OPINIONS DONT MATTER TO ME...I BRUSHED IT OFF...AND REALIZED THAT I AM BEAUTIFUL...NO MATTER WHAT SOME THINK....This is my job. NOT MY LIFE. it doesnt make me who i am. Another reason why i shouldnt give a f*ck what anybody thinks. Only my family and my child.
"whore" - n - 1. A prostitute or promiscuous woman: often a term of abuse.
- vb - 4. To seek that which is immoral, idolatrous, etc.
Putting "often a term of abuse" in the definition is perpetuating a myth that the word has more meaning than its face value. It doesn't, individuals, upon hearing the word, have the right and responsibility to judge it on their own, not be told by someone else how to judge it. Your parents, your teachers, television, and a host of other things are all trying to tell you the meanings of words and how they should make you feel. For once, why don't you weak minded, lazy people take the time to figure out on your own what these words really mean to you, and stop taking everything being fed to you by the people and things around you. The definition writer is inflicting their own morality on me by telling me, in the definition, that the word reeks of immoral behavior. I'm choosing to NOT accpet someone else's morality, instead I choose to make my own. You people might consider who is giving you your morality and then try and come up with your own.
They're whores, prostitutes, escorts, hookers, call girls, harlots, courtesans, and any number of things which are all correct. Next time you people get insulted by a word, why don't you look closely at yourself and you'll see that it's not the SAYER who's inducing the bad connotations, it's the HEARER...
You yourself have often asked me why others on the board think I'm a bad person. Now you have your reason. I say whatever words I choose to say, I have my own morality, and I refuse to compromise and consider the morality or beliefs of others. If the people reading those words choose to let those words upset them, that's their problem, not mine...feel free to give me power over your emotions by reacting to words that I type...I'm not asking for that power, but if you choose to give it to me, I'll surely abuse it, just to show you how brainwashed you are... Originally Posted by Wakeuр
lol it was a joke sweetie....nice name though
FYI, some of us arent brainwashed. What i saw in my childhood can affect some of my views..but im going to have to change that if i want to stay in this business for the time being. And not too long ago i was ashamed of myself...Which is why i take offense to some of the words that are said about me behind my back..But why dont yall just come out and tell me the truth to my face..I am just going to keep getting stronger and stronger and the "people" (ahem)..that want to keep expressing themselves any way they please without considering anybody else...well go right ahead. I am not giving anybody power over HOW I THINK. For example..I love my body...and a few people on here made me kind of insecure..until i realized that their OPINIONS DONT MATTER TO ME...I BRUSHED IT OFF...AND REALIZED THAT I AM BEAUTIFUL...NO MATTER WHAT SOME THINK....This is my job. NOT MY LIFE. it doesnt make me who i am. Another reason why i shouldnt give a f*ck what anybody thinks. Only my family and my child.
just my 2 cents..
Originally Posted by rubyred
i like it, i like it alot,,....and oh by the way some guy contacted m.e about doing a two girl show with me and u, but said he couldnt get ahold of you sooooo idk....just fyi Originally Posted by Sweet Mandythank you!
For example..I love my body...and a few people on here made me kind of insecure..until i realized that their OPINIONS DONT MATTER TO ME...I BRUSHED IT OFF...AND REALIZED THAT I AM BEAUTIFUL...NO MATTER WHAT SOME THINK....This is my job. NOT MY LIFE. it doesnt make me who i am. Another reason why i shouldnt give a f*ck what anybody thinks. Only my family and my child. Originally Posted by rubyredThat's what I like to hear. I'm not sure you're telling the truth, since you still don't like people calling you certain words as you posted earlier, but I'm glad you've said that you've taken control of your emotions. It's a very positive thing.
That's what I like to hear. I'm not sure you're telling the truth, since you still don't like people calling you certain words as you posted earlier, but I'm glad you've said that you've taken control of your emotions. It's a very positive thing. Originally Posted by WakeuрWell if you read my last post again...I'm going to have to change if I want to stay in this business...and I can start by brushing off those words...yeah I don't prefer them..but I shouldn't care what other people say or think. I am stronger than that. Call me what you want..I'm done wasting my time dwelling on other peoples opinions. I aim to move forward...I am not a teenager anymore..I need to start focusing on what's important...not the small things...