So what your saying is it is a black and white issue?Ok, im going to pick apart her comment and answer the way i feel how any provider can safely handle these... and anyone and everyone chime in from sea to sea and correct me.
I see the client get arrested in the parking lot outside his room, but do not call to cancel. Nc/NS?
Wife calls from her cell threatening to call LE for seeing her husband right now at the Plaza Hotel.(where I am) Do I call his cell and cancel? Nc/NS?
You give me 3 references, I tell you that you had 2 go aheads and "Ashlyn" hasn't responded but with the 2 good recent plus other information we can meet today at 2. At 1:45 I get an email from Ashlyn stating you robbed and beat her last week. Ashlyn has 100+stellar reviews and is a respected community member. Do I call and cancel so you can wait outside the hotel and follow me home to my kids?
These are just a few examples of issues ladies deal with daily. You tell me exactly what to do in these situations in which everyone is happy and safe. BTW, you have 5 minutes to make and execute your decision and no do overs. Be careful your decision will be picked apart for days by strangers (with half the story) across the entire country. P.s. you must keep them happy too!
Please excuse any typos, posted with my phone. Originally Posted by Bristol
"I see the client get arrested in the parking lot outside his room, but do not call to cancel. Nc/NS?"
Ok, she sees him get arrested. In a public parking lot (hotel) is she sure this is the guy she is meeting since she has no description and i have yet to tell a provider what im driving. Cause remember everyone said they tried numerous times to contact her with no response. Hard to make those text/emails/calls locked up. But fair enough, say this is the guy she was going to see that got arrested. He sends her a pm on here the following day and says whats up with ncns? Reply, I think you know whats up, obviously couldnt see you in the slammer and I dont want/need that publicity around me, im choosing not to see you. Thanks! Or he starts a thread, she can say I sent you a PM explaining myself thats all i have to say. DONE
"Wife calls from her cell threatening to call LE for seeing her husband right now at the Plaza Hotel.(where I am) Do I call his cell and cancel? Nc/NS?"
OK, Why not? Call. text or PM here. Same deal. For one, im sure if this was the case he would be asking you VERY LAST why you didnt call him and dealing with a BIGGER issue in the home front. But lets say he did, would it hurt to respond saying that you were contacted by his so called SO and was threatened and that you choose not to see him. He chooses to create a post, same verbage.... I sent you a PM explaining myself thats all i have to say. DONE
"You give me 3 references, I tell you that you had 2 go aheads and Ashlyn hasn't responded but with the 2 good recent plus other information we can meet today at 2. At 1:45 I get an email from Ashlyn stating you robbed and beat her last week. Ashlyn has 100+stellar reviews and is a respected community member. Do I call and cancel so you can wait outside the hotel and follow me home to my kids?"
OK, Leave immediately. If that was the message from Ashlyn. Get the f out right away, get to a safe location and be sure your not followed or call the authorities yourself if your in danger. Definately! He calls, text, emails you pm's you. Simply say, i am not going to see you. For reasons which you dont have to give or can if you want. He post a thread on here and says you NCNS him, same verbage....I sent you a PM explaining myself thats all i have to say. In this situation i am sure you will have multiple support from other providers because im sure you would have posted this on infoshare/powder room etc to warn all the ladies INSTANTLY. And from what i have seen there are several ladies that have commented on this thread. DONE
Bristol, none of the scenarios you gave did you say they even contacted you to ask why you ncns. I dont think they would question the fact you ncns if these were the cases. I dont know any of the other 2 guys that said you ncns or any detail other than what they said. I do know mine though. None of these are them i can gurantee that. This thread has gone in circles without resolution, and your comments in eyes of many have made no sense and seemed to stray others off the actual facts or just to save face and say you were here. Im not going to knock any of the guys that have stepped up and defended you saying your a great provider or they have a different outlook now from before based on how you worded something or gave scenarios. They will always have your back as long as you treat them right, and I dont see anything wrong with that. I exhausted all known forms of communication with you after it was aparent you were not going to see me (NCNS) to ask what was up. I have not heard from you since except a few post on this thread and everone here has read what i have. You can leave me in the dark, i dont care and have moved on, its simply money that i have lost. Nothing else (well time too)
There are alot of other great ladies here i have seen and will see again.
I dont have any hard feeling for you and will not/havent lost any sleep over this. You remain the same in my book, A hot girl that i have not met. DONE
Oh, and i wrote this post in about 5mins.
Originally Posted by HoustonMilfDebbie
