Black women in the industry

I hate stupid people... Originally Posted by DFW5Traveler

Agreed. One of my irrational fears is that many years from now society will see this as a prejudice. Intellectual Bigot. Sounds far-fetched, but most current bigotries were seen as "normal" long ago, even slavery.

So 30 years from now will I be the "bigot old man" because I hate stupid people? Lol, not sure I'll care by then.

Sorry to go off-topic.

Naomi, I am not sure what that guy was smokin but you are hot hot hot in my book and no skin color does not bother me. Originally Posted by jughead1171

Thank you !

I hate this politically correct BS. To me AA = Alcoholics Anonymous. I guess I should start calling myself Europe-American, and we could have South America-American, North America-Americans(for the people from Canada and Mexico), but wait now we have a real dilemma because they are already Americans. We should really break it down by country. Then I would be England-Germany-Hungary-Romania-Indian-American. This sounds like something Jesse Jackson would have started, because I seriously doubt that it came from MLK. At some time in the distant future we will all merge into one race. I will see the women I am attracted to regarless of race, and I post reviews for credit, so I will do a review.

I will chase after ladies regardless of race, color or creed. I have had great sessions and terrible sessions with all different sorts, nothing good or bad stands out to be classified by ethnicity. My current wish list is probably 40% caucasian, 40% hispanic, 20% AA. This list would most likely trend more black if I could afford Tracey Pitts. Seriously beautiful, seems seriously cool. Maybe someday.

I don;t know your exact situation. Let me throw this at you. Suppose you are so good that the hobbiest wants to keep you a secret. Originally Posted by Thatdude

Skylar is so good that I'd love to keep her a secret, but that wouldn't be fair to her or you guys, especially now that she has moved to NOLA and I live here in VA. I really miss my ATF LADY, and I do mean LADY in every sense of the word!

I've had a few clients I've seen say they don't like to see black escorts because they only care about the money and have a bunch of guys lined up and just try to get them to cum as quickly as possibly, and that they act ghetto and trashy. A lot of the times around here they use fake pics and do cash and dashes or have a pimp. Many in the Midwest have ghetto hairstyles or fingernails that are way too long and tacky colors and look and act like the girls you see on Jerry Springer or Maury Povich.

I know there are many beautiful and classy black escorts out there-that is just the bad rap they get, unfortunately. I am not saying all black escorts are like this, but a lot of them in the Midwest that advertise on BP are like the above described image, especially in Milwaukee. I've read many Milwaukee reviews where the girl has a questionable hotel room or apartment where it's in a bad neighborhood with liquor bottles or cigarette butts lying all over, dirty with just a mattress on the floor and some even mention other people being there or even children being in the next room sleeping, yikes! Of course, I've read Milwaukee reviews like these of white girls too. It's unfortunate that the bad ones have to give the good ones a bad name.

I've had a few clients I've seen say they don't like to see black escorts because they only care about the money and have a bunch of guys lined up and just try to get them to cum as quickly as possibly, and that they act ghetto and trashy. A lot of the times around here they use fake pics and do cash and dashes or have a pimp. Many in the Midwest have ghetto hairstyles or fingernails that are way too long and tacky colors and look and act like the girls you see on Jerry Springer or Maury Povich. Originally Posted by itsmejessicalee

That's interesting.

I don't "act" ghetto, not trashy, my pictures are me, my nails are short, have never had a pimp and I've never done a "cash and dash". I'm ballsy but not that ballsy. However, I know white and asian girls that use fake pics, act ghetto, have pimps and rip guys off. I've never been to the midwest now I'm tempted to throw some ads out there, take a short trip and teach those boys a lesson!

I will say this though. I'm starting to think that there are not enough quality, classy black women in the business and that's why the guys are having to deal with those that have pimp, use fake pics and rip them off....putting us all in that category.

That's interesting.

I don't "act" ghetto, not trashy, my pictures are me, my nails are sort, have never had a pimp and I've never done a "cash and dash". I'm ballsy but not that ballsy. However, I know white and asian girls that use fake pics, act ghetto, have pimps and rip guys off. I've never been to the midwest now I'm tempted to throw some ads out there, take a short trip and teach those boys a lesson!

I will say this though. I'm starting to think that there are not enough quality, classy black women in the business and that's why the guys are having to deal with those that have pimp, use fake pics and rip them off....putting us all in that category. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

I agree with you Naomi, but we (the great ones) are around! *wink*

Genesis Nicole

I agree 100% with Naomi4u! I never use fake pics or cash and dash but I know of some white providers that do. Nothing says ghetto about me, but when some of my cllients call they are surprised to find an educated black woman on the other end of the phone. Some black men call and say "you sound white" I ask them how does white sound? I think it just depends on the woman and her standards for this hobby. Either you have class or you don't!

It's all about portrayal, when you see a trashy AA you feel that's typical because that's how we're portrayed in the media which is why when you meet someone like Naomi4U, articulate, educated, the comment is made she's different.(laughable)
On the other hand when you see a trashy Caucasian you feel like that's unusual.
Since we're looking for honesty, let's imagine this escorting business consisted primarily of AA women, then it would be considered classless, trashy, and unladylike. Since it's predominately white it's glamorized, sophisticated, and looked upon as elegant.
But excuse me for being blunt, LADIES don't sell time and give away pussy!
It's all about portrayal.

One more thing. Alot of these women who act "ghetto" may just think it's socially acceptable and cool.

But I always liked this song when I was a kid:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j7VD5UpAXPo Originally Posted by incognito isis

Posting a Youtube vidio, what a nice touch. I'll have to try that

First of all Naomi, I didn't realize you were black? I thought you just had a devilishly nice tan. And I only noticed that after some how my concentration was broke away from the fun bags you are so lucky to own!

In regard to black providers.... regardless of what has been said, black providers have quit a following. I read reviews of hobbyist and it would seem that is all they patronize. The one thing that I read over and over is how hot black providers are BCD. So I can see the cult almost addictive following associated with seeing black providers. But the truth is HOT is HOT no matter what color you paint it. Guys have preferences, BBW, Spinners, Asian, Blonde, Brunette, Red Heads, Super Tall, Petite, even small people. We all have are unique and special desires. My deal is famous people (Look A Likes) like lets say.... Gia Carangi. There are not many around in Hobby land but when I find one, I go full steam a head as many have noticed. Now if you happen to know a Beyonce’ look a like... would I see her? Faster than a Naomi coming out of retirement 75% off special

That made my day, Still Looking! You're so funny!!!!
I think JetSet Brandy is hotter than Beyonce .. but that's another thread.. lol!
Yes I am black , love. I'm black enough and don't need a tan. .

You know what though.. you are right about there being a lot of hobbyists that only
see black providers. I met a guy this past January that was seeing all white providers at first
in the ($600-$800 an hour range) and said that they didn't do anything for him. He started
to see a black provider in NY and a few providers in between then me and he said it was a "Life Changing"
experience. He said we (black women) are more "nurturing" BCD. He only sees black women now. He said white providers came across as "fake"..interesting huh?

You know they say "Once you go black, you don't go back." Sorry had to say it. .

I think it all comes down to the person as an individual. If he's been ripped off and robbed a few times
by only black girls, of course that would leave a scar. I was once set on not seeing black american men
but after the guys I've come across on eccie, I know better .

That made my day, Still Looking! You're so funny!!!!
I think JetSet Brandy is hotter than Beyonce .. but that's another thread.. lol!
Yes I am black , love. I'm black enough and don't need a tan. .

You know what though.. you are right about there being a lot of hobbyists that only
see black providers. I met a guy this past January that was seeing all white providers at first
in the ($600-$800 an hour range) and said that they didn't do anything for him. He started
to see a black provider in NY and a few providers in between then me and he said it was a "Life Changing"
experience. He said we (black women) are more "nurturing" BCD. He only sees black women now. He said white providers came across as "fake"..interesting huh?

You know they say "Once you go black, you don't go back." Sorry had to say it. .

I think it all comes down to the person as an individual. If he's been ripped off and robbed a few times
by only black girls, of course that would leave a scar. I was once set on not seeing black american men
but after the guys I've come across on eccie, I know better . Originally Posted by Naomi4u

FYI: Rip offs, scam artists, pimps and con artists come in all shapes and colors also. BP is full of them.

The only type of provider I discriminate against are "Stupid Providers"! I'll tell you why. I once asked a provider to talk dirty to me... she said ok, " You smell like you haven't bathed in a month, when’s the last time you washed your ass, I think I smell deer piss, did you eat chili and just pass gas?" needless to say I've never asked that question again and I try NEVER to see stupid providers!

OMGGGG!!!

OMGGGG!!! Originally Posted by Naomi4u

OK... I'm on a roll! I also try to avoid providers that have a suit! Your think how can a provider file a law suite? Or formal attire? That’s not it. Suit is an acronym for... wait for it... Something Up In There. (Now that’s funny and I don't care who you are!)

Thank you to all the men and woman who gave there lives so that I have the freedom I so richly enjoy!

Happy Memorial Naomi