Absolutely not EA. I'm not suggesting anyone try it. Its not for everyone. Its a choice. A CHOICE! But to be like Don or Naomi and suggest there's some sort of "taint" on me or people like me is ludicrous. What about men who seek providers that do greek? Its just a hole. How about women on women? Are they considered to carry a "taint"? As if they're untouchable? So I see a TS then I see provider X and all of a sudden she's "off limits" for some of you? Explain this to me. Originally Posted by Out_of_BoundsI agree that you have not suggested that anyone try what you have "chosen" to try and I respect that.
I find it interesting that noone seems to have a problem with others in a sense forcing someone to do something they choose not to do by not saying, hiding, lieing, whatever word you wanna use, therefore taking that "choice" away.
While I am well aware that there is no way any of us will ever fully know what someone else is into and the likelihood (pretty sure that isn't spelled right.lol) that we have already done something we would rather have not is high. We all do the best we can to know who we are seeing and accepting that we will not know everything.
I also find it sad that so many here that say it is wrong to say that what others choose to do is wrong are hell bent on telling someone here that they are wrong.
As for judging others..... Everyone of us here judge others on a daily basis by reading reviews and forming our own opinions. Providers do it by screening and forming an opinion based on references. We all judge each other so I suggest getting used to it.....
OOB I have quite a bit of respect for the fact that you are willing to live your life without fear of what others think. I have done the same. I don't have to hide what I do from anyone and am willing to talk about it with anyone that wants to know about why I do what I do. Most here are not willing to do that.