Thank you for saying what I wanted to say! If anyone doubts the truth of what Girl Syxx has posted I invite you to look up the racial makeup of
violent crimes as reported by the F.B.I as Uniform Crime Reports which are a consolidation of police reports from each year arranged geographically. You will see quickly that black males are the vast majority of violent criminals arrested in an area despite their usual minority status.
Yes, a lot of african american men are dealing with generational poverty, poor role models and in isolated cases institutionalized racism...there are many
valid arguments for why they react violently compared to White, Asian and Hispanic men in a similar geographic area but as a very vulnerable provider I don't care so much WHY they are violent- my main priority is to AVOID the violence. Please don't oversimply my point to mean that I think ONLY black men are violent, I'm simply stating that looking at both the government statistics as well as my personal experience I don't find the odds to be worth it for
ME.
On a personal level I don't feel I have much in common with the average black guy, I don't generally find them physically attractive and my limited life experiences with them have been for the most part negative and consisted of black guys getting right in my face when I walk by and cat calling and being rude and having them more than once look like they wanted to hit me just for having the audacity to walk by and not be interested. Do some white and hispanic guys cat call me too? Sure, but they don't react rudely and aggressively after I say once that I'm not interested.
Am I missing out on some amazing clients by having a NBA policy?
Bet your ass I am and it's unfortunate. Somewhere out there I'm sure there are black men that could even be my soul mate if I gave them a chance but due to what I've learned from my interactions with the vast majority of black men I've decided that I simply don't like the odds and I'd rather not roll the dice when there are men of other races that give me more favorable odds of finding a generous, respectful, drama free client.
I'm not judging anyone that enjoys the company of AA men or trying to tell anyone else who they should or should not be involved with...but I do reserve the right to make my own decisions about who and what I feel comfortable with and I would really appreciate it if people could show some
TOLERANCE FOR OTHER PEOPLE'S BELIEF SYSTEMS- it'd make life easier on everyone.
First let me start out by saying that the Brooke_Wild's analogy of this is hilarious. I haven't posted on Eccie since they closed the Ladies Powder Room but I couldn't resist.
Okay, I DO NOT date African American men. I DO NOT have a pimp nor have I ever had a pimp. I think pimps prey on weak women and the entire game bs but that's a totally different thread. I'm anything but weak; so, pimping could not be for me.
My reason for not visiting black males is simple. I was held at gun point and robbed by a AA in my upscale apartment. This guy passed screening and sounded anything but ghetto. However, it happened and I was spooked about providing incall to anyone. Actually, I stop providing for a year. I went to excellent predominantly Caucasian schools. So, I received an excellent education. I don't live in the hood; nor do I associate with many people that do.
Now, could anyone have committed this? SURE! However, I am African American and I know people that are hood. Providers make easy targets as many will not go to the police. Second, how many arm robberies in NOLA are committed by non-blacks? Uummm, not many. Okay, how many killing in NOLA are committed by non-blacks? Ummmmm, not many.
So, lets see, I'm twice as like to be robbed at gunpoint and/or murdered by a black men. I've actually had a black guy rob me. Actually, I've been robbed three (3) times by black men. (Only once providing, once coming home from a real world job as a waitress, and another in the wrong place at the wrong time). It makes good business sense to me not to offer any services to AA men.
I don't care if my post enrages anyone! I'm free to do with my body whatever I choose and if I only wanted to f%%k Italian midgets with 12in cocks; I'm free to do so.
IMHO, Only a scorned black man, an ignorant person, or a pimp would make a statement that NBA policy = Pimp. LOL! What about white women that don't date blacks in their personal life? I guess since they provide they must provide to all! Do you visit with obese transexuals? Probably not! Why because they not your thing. Okay, well black men are not my thing. End of Story. I thought we cleared this topic up with Roe vs. Wade. Even the Supreme Court believes we can do what we'd like with our bodies!
Get a life!
Originally Posted by Girl Syxx