That is true ..... but when they "move up in American society"
Originally Posted by 00 gauge
They will not be stripping when they move up. I know one who was studying engineering in Cuba. I asked why she defected, and she told me that her engineering degree was not going to do her any good in Cuba, where the outcomes are managed and equalised for all by the society. She does hope to resume her engineering training here in the US. Another was doing biochemistry, and left the country because she too felt as if there is no future for her there. The sanctions imposed by Trump, and the decimation of the Venezuelan economy have pauperised Cuba, and hence the huge exodus of young Cubans to the US. Many of these girls will end up in fields like nursing when they regularise their status and learn English, as they are physically and mentally demanding, but financially rewarding. The Cuban girls are smart and have a very strong drive.
They will also take with them their inflated prices,.
Originally Posted by 00 gauge
The price of a lap dance is $20. I have never heard of a Cuban ask for more. On the other hand, somewhere in this thread, I have recounted the experience my friend had, with a Bangladeshi (formerly a part of India in Asia), who disdainfully and indignantly told him that "I am not a Cuban, I am a Desi (India, Pakistan, Bangladesh) girl.." as she laid down her rules for a lap dance. When he said that he would give one dance to see if she was as good as she claimed, she retorted that she had a 2 dance minimum.
inflated egos, .....
Originally Posted by 00 gauge
The hobbying business is all about posturing. Relatively unattractive men, who have no women that might detain their attention at home, pay money to prostitutes, who for the most part set aside any esteem they might have, to do "things" in order to get money out those men's pockets. If you get yourself in a situation where you are looking for love or validation in a strip club, you are asking for disappointment. Fully 90% of the women there already have men at home or watching them in the clubs; these men are either subdued cucks, or are pimping them, or have such a low self-esteem that they do not mind their women working in a club where they rub their vulvas on the erect dicks of strange men. The affecting of an ego by the patron or the stripper is therefore nothing more than a negotiating tactic. .. Example given: If you walk into any car dealership, you will notice that salesmen try to dress as neatly as possible, because this projects an impression of the economic prosperity that in most instances does not exist. But by purveying the impression that they can do without your business, the salesmen are able to have the upper hand in the negotiations so that you accept less for your Mercedes or Lexus trade in, and agree to pay more for the crappy Dodge Sebring or Ford Probe they are selling you. That is the psychology of face to face selling. The most egotistical women in a club will sit by themselves upstairs in BDD, making no money and hoping that a sucker will ask them for dances, in which they will do little, but make a lot of money. You have to go into such a club with a mission..: One or two test dances max; if she is not letting you play, you bounce. That is how you establish your own self-worth in this business. The money is the same, whether it comes from you or from a millionaire; and whether its going to a dancer who is a 10 or a 1... Do not be oversold, or beguiled by bullshit. This business is nothing but prostitution without penetration. And all of them have the same kind of pussies..
..inflated egos .....
Originally Posted by 00 gauge
No one grinding dick, or being fondled on her clit by a man she does not know can honestly claim to have an ego, much less a self-esteem. They know it, but they just do not want you to know it.
.. shitty dancing .....
Originally Posted by 00 gauge
This is a matter of personal opinion. To be honest, if I was interested in dancing skills, I might watch ballet, waltz, a YouTube music video or something else. I am in a strip club to exact as much sexual joy as I can for the amount of time I pay for. I am not in a strip club to see the moves of Janet Jackson...
.. excessive song counting, .....
Originally Posted by 00 gauge
Every stripper I have ever known has counted songs. I do have one extremely lovely young one that I see in a club, that I get my way with, that pretends to not count. At the end, when I ask her how much I owe her, she will I say "No se, no cuenta" meaning "I do not know, I have not counted"... I still pay her generously because she gives me what I want. So that is her game; and that is my game. I have also met many who promise and then do not deliver. I never go more than 2 songs with them, and I never let them dance for me again. This can be an expensive business, and you have to use good judgement. This last week was a loss for me because all but one of the strippers I encountered, were a waste of my time and money.
.. and refusal to learn English .....
Originally Posted by 00 gauge
They do not refuse to learn English. All 100% of them desperately would love to learn English. However, it is hard to learn a language when you are already grown, and it is a very expensive process to do it in this country. The teachers typically charge them a lot of money that they barely have. These people arrive in the US beset by enormous immigration bills that they must pay their attorneys for, to say nothihg of rent, car notes, and remittances to their suffering families back in Cuba. Life is extremely hard for them. If they tend to gravitate to Spanish speaking customers, it is because this is the path of least resistance for them. They impediment of language does not exist, so you find them spending more time with Mexican customers, because they can hustle money faster that way. How do I know this? Because I have asked them.
.. and no more deal breakers like the first words she says to you five seconds after sitting down "you want dance?" or "hello papi" .....
Originally Posted by 00 gauge
This is all the English they know. Give them credit for trying. Also, attribute this to the relative desperation of their circumstances. They have bills to pay, and must try to extract that money from men speaking a language they do not.. Can you imagine that? Of course this works to the advantage of the likes of me, who want to get directly to business without listening to the bullshit personal stories of strippers recently escaped from the Amish community in Pennsylvania, or a polygamous Mormon camp in Arizona...(***and I did encounter 2 strippers with exactly those claims in Cabaret Royale, all those years ago**)
..... actually clubs "plummeting to the levels they were before the Cubans showed up" would be a most welcome and refreshing change and take away so much of the hassle and headache of dealing with the Cubans .....
Originally Posted by 00 gauge
When there were no Cubans, the clubs were dying. The ones which subsisted on that od Model, such as The Club House, are completely out of business. However, I am sure that Spearmint Rhino and The Mens Club might still be able to meet your needs.