Is it stupid to be smitten and wanna start dating a provider?

Please someone slap some sense into me. I highly doubt she would be interested anyways, but I've been seeing this one provider a few times now. I really wanna go out with her, take her on a date maybe get to know her on a different level. Grant it, I'm new to the hobby so maybe these feelings are normal to start? Maybe I'm just not cut out to hobby. Is it normal to have a hard time separating sex and feelings? I find myself thinking about her a lot. What do you guys/girls think? Originally Posted by cbramrent

I strongly advise against "dating" a provider. The complexities and ramifications of dating in the Real World are enough . . .adding another layer of drasma associated with the hobby is not necessary.

Suppose you develop a romantic relationship with a provider—would you want her to give up her job? Would you be OK with her having sex every day with other men and knowing it?

Maybe try a Sugar Daddy/Sugar Baby relationship

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Greetings to everyone.

I think the conclusion from this PhD level engaging discussion for OP is to disengage target make a hard right turn heading 180 and head to a church if you go to a church or go to a opera with a civil date or cirque de soleil and clear your brain and schedule a session with someone you have not met before. But it is your choice.,,

Mr ray and Jojo enjoyed your thoughts sir during this engaging discussion. Best

Stop it. Slap ur self out this stupid feeling. I can guarantee you she doesn't feel the same way about you. It's not worth it.
It's all about your money and her, not you and her. How about you try fucking her without bringing money, if she is fine with it, then maybe u have a chance.

How many ways can this go bad?

I mean, compared with Real-World dating: How many MORE ways can this go really bad?

Read the whole thread there are some jewels in there to many to quote,so read you lazy fucks! But "don't shake the whore tree and expect a wife to fall out" was some funny shit and Ciara gave a great answer. I got a boner reading her response, and I would like to know who the OP is referring to she must have some really great IOP j/s. Good luck dude whatever choice you make and think with the bigger head.

Dating a provider whether it is a spa lady, escort or stripper is like stepping into alternate reality where different 'rules' are in play.
I know of marriages that failed- usually it is with husband number 1 where the wife figures there is a very lucrative way to make money.. I also know of marriages that work- usually with husband number 2 that accepted the situation.
It takes more that a few times going with a provider before getting more involved. For instance, extended free time or perhaps more things are offered on the 'menu'. otherwise one is just an ATM machine. One needs to have the provider make it known that you are special. Asking for a 'free' date is poison as the provider will probably think one is just another con guy.
Doing something out of the normal encounter is the 'ticket' For instance , you see that a provider has a flat tire. You pull over, change that tire and take the tire someplace to get fix, then bring the repaired tire back to her. Now see what happens!

Please someone slap some sense into me. but I've been seeing this one provider a few times now. I really wanna go out with her, take her on a date maybe get to know her on a different level. Originally Posted by cbramrent

As far as the hobby and the real world goes ....

Some chicks belong to the hood!
Some chicks belong to the homies!
Some chicks belong right here In hobby!

You don't cuff them!
You don't date them!
You don't marry them!

YOU JUST FUCK THEM AND LEAVE!!!!

All of that without showering?

Dating a provider whether it is a spa lady, escort or stripper is like stepping into alternate reality where different 'rules' are in play.
I know of marriages that failed- usually it is with husband number 1 where the wife figures there is a very lucrative way to make money.. I also know of marriages that work- usually with husband number 2 that accepted the situation.
It takes more that a few times going with a provider before getting more involved. For instance, extended free time or perhaps more things are offered on the 'menu'. otherwise one is just an ATM machine. One needs to have the provider make it known that you are special. Asking for a 'free' date is poison as the provider will probably think one is just another con guy.
Doing something out of the normal encounter is the 'ticket' For instance , you see that a provider has a flat tire. You pull over, change that tire and take the tire someplace to get fix, then bring the repaired tire back to her. Now see what happens! Originally Posted by instfixer

She probably would think you are a nut job. Lol.

All of that without showering? Originally Posted by pyramider

YOU JUST (SHOWER first) FUCK THEM AND LEAVE!!!!

You cant shake a whore tree and expect a wife to fall out Originally Posted by DallasRain

Exactly hookers don't make good housewives or girlfriends in the real world or the hobby world. I fell for my first provider also. It doesn't end well. Don't do it!! Regardless of your intentions you'll get jealous because she's fuckin everything in sight, then you'll be labeled a broke dick stalker...so don't do it!!!

How about you try fucking her without bringing money, if she is fine with it, then maybe u have a chance. Originally Posted by cR7

Sticky situation..... Because.....
A provider could doubt him
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"I am not good enough to pay for? But the other whores are?"

"He doesn't want to pay me because he is still fucking round and needs the $?"

Regardless of your intentions you'll get jealous because she's fuckin everything in sight,!! Originally Posted by drinkindreamin

In that case she was a broke desperate woman.
They never make good gf or so or wives.

OP, give us an update?? What have you decided, is she your 2017 resolution?? Or is she last year's memory??

I echo what mr jojo said. An update will be great. Just tread carefully there is little trust in the business. Enjoy the moment as it presents and bail out when you run out of fuel. Cheers.